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12-24-2018, 08:20 PM
Anyone have experience with this? I have a girl I slept with between 12/1/18-12/10/18 here in NYC saying she's pregnant. She is from Australia and is there now. Says the abortion pill is roughly $200 USD, and she's going to the clinic on Thursday (so Wednesday evening my time).
But she is joking around too much, sending me videos of a kid playing around and being like "this could be me next year with my own little baby - isn't it lovely?"
I will drag this cunt to hell and back if she tries something. Legitimately am kind of scared.
So yeah, anyone have experience with this?
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12-24-2018, 08:22 PM
BTW, 1) never going the Plan B route again and 2) I'm done clowning on Drake for nutting in a porn star
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12-24-2018, 08:35 PM
Lol sounds like she's trolling but never know.
What's her situation? (student, employed... if employed, what kind of job/salary)
How old is she?
What's her background? (religious, non-religious, ethnicity)
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12-24-2018, 08:44 PM
Quote: (12-24-2018 08:35 PM)LatinaLova Wrote:
Lol sounds like she's trolling but never know.
What's her situation? (student, employed... if employed, what kind of job/salary)
How old is she?
What's her background? (religious, non-religious, ethnicity)
Need more info.
Quote: (12-24-2018 08:20 PM)MaceTyrell Wrote:
Anyone have experience with this? I have a girl I slept with between 12/1/18-12/10/18 here in NYC saying she's pregnant. She is from Australia and is there now. Says the abortion pill is roughly $200 USD, and she's going to the clinic on Thursday (so Wednesday evening my time).
But she is joking around too much, sending me videos of a kid playing around and being like "this could be me next year with my own little baby - isn't it lovely?"
I will drag this cunt to hell and back if she tries something. Legitimately am kind of scared.
So yeah, anyone have experience with this?
It does sound like she's fucking around and trolling you. Honestly if I was in her position I would do the same thing as a projection of power to fuck with you. It's obviously working.
I would stay in contact and hold frame the best you can, I know it can be hard because she has power of you. If you're stacked you could fly her back and make sure she takes it, otherwise you'll just have to prove to her you'd be a terrible father and check in to see if she takes care of it.
You fucked up nutting in a 31 year old Aussie lawyer, lets hope she's a permanent career woman whos baby crazy last call instincts at 31 aren't overpowering her logical side.
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12-24-2018, 08:48 PM
As of now the only "resources" being asked for are my half of an abortion pill. What I have to send her comes out to $60 USD. So it's too low of an amount for me to feel trolled.
However, naturally "pretending to get an abortion but not actually doing it," this "fake out" would be the naturally first step.
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12-24-2018, 08:49 PM
I actually think she might be testing you for provider traits. She's a lawyer? She's got dough. Tell her you're broke as fuck and you can go ahead and turn in some cans/mow your neighbors lawn/something pathetic and send her like 20USD. You're gonna have to run anti-game. Make her think your genetics are trash and your game is whack
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12-24-2018, 08:53 PM
My god. Is this the dark side to raising your SMV?
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12-24-2018, 08:56 PM
If it helps at all the raw chances of a girl getting pregnant from 1 nut is pretty low. Someone ran the numbers before I'll see if I can find it but it's way less than 10%, especially at her age. If she was not ovulating it's less than 1%. You weren't blasting inside for all those days were you?
Don't nut in girls that aren't on birth control my man. Also yes, if you raise your SMV girls want to fulfill their biological imperative -> Get knocked up by a high value male. Protect yourself
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12-24-2018, 09:05 PM
Did she send you photos of a positive test?
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12-24-2018, 09:09 PM
Pay her the $60.
Sometimes a peace of mind is more important than an ego, especially if it only cost $60.
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12-24-2018, 09:10 PM
OP, I wish you replied "student, 22 yo, atheist" to my questions lol. She does have the profile of someone who'd want to keep a child and raise it. Especially with that type of notch count, she's already had her fun days and if she ever wanted a child, now is a great opportunity. The clock is ticking for her. Girls don't wait for a stable relationship or "the right person" in this day and age, this concept has become utopia and they know it. If they can afford to raise a child by themselves, they'll do it no problem.
The trolling/joking is really weird though, whether she'd want to keep the baby or get the abortion (even more odd if the latter). I mean, if she thinks she's pregnant and willing to get the abortion, why would she be so casual about it? I can tell you one thing from experience: abortion is no joke! It's a rough experience for both the girl and the guy waiting in that room. For the girl obviously it's traumatizing.
Let's hope this is just a big troll job on her behalf.
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12-24-2018, 09:41 PM
For more data - on 12/14/18 I blocked her/ghosted her cause she was acting too crazy.
She sent me a friend request last week, that I denied.
Now this. This reeks of troll job. Imma just send her the $60 and take it from there. Happy I see that she can't get a dime of child support if she isn't a US citizen. But that would be relatively easy for a lawyer to do.
I am never fucking a lawyer again. And I want to be a lawyer. Fuck me.
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12-24-2018, 10:32 PM
Start using condoms. Fearlessly rawdogging and blasting inside a random tourist might sound cool until you get her pregnant.
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12-24-2018, 11:03 PM
Strong antigame, along with sincere, repeated declarations that you will absolutely not be in the picture, would easily solve the problem if she's hoping for a typical family scenario.
However, if she's fine being a single mother, there is absolutely nothing you are able to do to prevent the birth of your child short of the disturbingly illegal. She is clearly financially independent, asking for only $60 when she knew you would've eagerly paid in full. At least this egalitarian mindset possibly implies she wouldn't be especially hurting for alimony, although avoiding alimony simply requires becoming an expatriate, which I'm sure you're familiar with at least in reading as a desirable lifestyle.
As for avoiding your responsibility as a father, there's no shame in preserving freedom when the only other option is to become enslaved in potential hell. It is absolutely unfair to the child, but more importantly, becoming involved in a family you never wanted is unfair to you. You are the most valuable person in your life, the first priority until you decide something/someone else is. And that's not going to be a forced life with some kid and ho.
Meet them on your own terms, not anyone else's.
Due to complications like these, I would recommend not dealing with anyone who couldn't potentially be your wife, but obviously this is difficult and undesirable for the vast majority of men.
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12-24-2018, 11:12 PM
Is it wild for the first time in my life I actually have legit empathy for the father who wasn't in my life?
Like I realized a fair time ago that my father never loved my mother, and then me realizing my mother's own shortcomings and what I've learned about female behavior, and now I'm actually kind of empathetic.
My mother never went after my father for child support either. I kind of have more respect for my mother and more understanding for my father now.
Shit game can be humbling.
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12-24-2018, 11:18 PM
Don't send anything. She's trolling you.
Just be friendly but cold. If she does have the kid, swab its mouth to confirm paternity. 9/10 it's not yours.
She's also a foreigner. If she goes to Oz and raises the kid there, she can't demand support for it.
Wrap it up next time and chalk this up to a lesson. Busting in chicks is dangerous!
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12-24-2018, 11:30 PM
Lucky bastard. The whole procedure in Alabama is roughly $700. $120 for the doctor visit, $450 for the Pill and another $100 for the follow-up appointment.
The doctor was sick during the follow-up day so I had to pay the first $120 twice and drive 2 hours to the only other clinic. Which in my truck is hell. So I was out close to $900 after everything.
If she is pregnant get ALL THE PRICES if she decides she wants to abort it.