Quote: (03-14-2012 12:43 PM)Samseau Wrote:
Compared to my night game, day game is fucking drudgery. I can go out at night and have an awesome time every time, but day time approaches feel like I'm pulling my teeth out.
Sounds to me like you are not having any fun! It's easy to have fun at night because everyone else is trying to have fun. It's much harder during the day. You have to provide almost all of the action, energy and excitement.
Its a state of mind.
When you are drunk and on the dance floor at midnight you probably feel sexy, strong, and powerful. But what about at 1:30 on a Wednesday afternoon? Can you create that same feeling of masculine power and raw alpha appeal?
At night, the vibe is created for you. During the day, you have to create that vibe, and no one is gonna help you. There is no music, no booze, and no party.
You are the party!
I know daygame is tough. I do it almost everyday. Girls are not used to being approached during the day. That's why they scare easier, and flake more.....but......this can also be an advantage! You can show them a daytime experience that they've never had before. A smooth, handsome man who opens her effortlessly, makes her laugh, and gets her p*ssy wet from subtle flirtatious conversation. A guy who doesn't come on too strong but still leaves her thinking about you for the rest of the day. For the next 48 hours she is waiting for you call...
This can be a challenge during the day but its far from impossible. I've had many insta-dates, same day dates, next day dates, and even taken girls home from day approaches. (i've gotten makeups but no bangs, yet)
You just have to fine tune your vibe and conversation. Find a topic that she is into and use it to hijack her imagination and/or emotions. Pretend the whole thing was an accident and you guys should meet for happy hour later or the next day!
And, here is my biggest tip,
completely and utterly IGNORE girls who are not open to chatting/flirting during the day! You can not let these girls bring down your energy or spirit. Forget them and move on!
What would you do if a girl at night didn't want to dance with you? You would probably just ignore her and keep having fun. Have that same attitude when the sun is up.
Also, as a training exercise, you should do some "Apocalypse Openers". It will blow your mind to see how girls react. I think you will be surprised to learn they don't get all mad and bitchy, in my experience, they often seem flattered and thankful that an attractive man approached them with such ice cold confidence! It will really change your perspective about day gaming.
Stay grinding and HAVE FUN. DON'T LET THESE UPTIGHT, INSECURE, STRESSED OUT CHICKS EFFECT YOUR REALITY!!!