How to deal with them?

I banged this hot girl last weekend, but even though she's very hot I don't want to be dealing with her sms and calling 24/7 .

It's been a tsunami of "good morning" "good night" and "what are you doing" msgs so far.

At the same time , I don't want to be a complete jackass (she's 19) and I would like to keep the door open for more sex in the future (She's a 8.5 in my book).

Is it possible ?

Quote: (02-22-2012 08:08 AM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

How to deal with them?

I banged this hot girl last weekend, but even though she's very hot I don't want to be dealing with her sms and calling 24/7 .

It's been a tsunami of "good morning" "good night" and "what are you doing" msgs so far.

At the same time , I don't want to be a complete jackass (she's 19) and I would like to keep the door open for more sex in the future (She's a 8.5 in my book).

Is it possible ?

Young chicks get attached real quick and real hard. You probably did more than just sleep with her...sex was prolly just a minor part of what you did to her and her world.

Beta Options
- girlfriend her up!

Possible player options
- be honest with her and say you're playing the field, give her the option
- fuck her a lot and deepen your mental hold on her, and *then* tell her you're playing the field, and give her the option to stay or roll
- don't tell her shit, fuck her sporadically and just ignore her contacts.
- lie your ass off, string her along, and cheat as much as possible

Quote: (02-22-2012 10:21 AM)WestIndianArchie Wrote:  

Quote: (02-22-2012 08:08 AM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

How to deal with them?

I banged this hot girl last weekend, but even though she's very hot I don't want to be dealing with her sms and calling 24/7 .

It's been a tsunami of "good morning" "good night" and "what are you doing" msgs so far.

At the same time , I don't want to be a complete jackass (she's 19) and I would like to keep the door open for more sex in the future (She's a 8.5 in my book).

Is it possible ?

Young chicks get attached real quick and real hard. You probably did more than just sleep with her...sex was prolly just a minor part of what you did to her and her world.

Beta Options
- girlfriend her up!

Possible player options
- be honest with her and say you're playing the field, give her the option
- fuck her a lot and deepen your mental hold on her, and *then* tell her you're playing the field, and give her the option to stay or roll
- don't tell her shit, fuck her sporadically and just ignore her contacts.
- lie your ass off, string her along, and cheat as much as possible

This stuff is too much work in my opinion, (although they are options for sure).

This happens with every girl that I deal with more or less.

Here is what I do:

I don't respond to texts or calls during work hours. I just don't.

Respond to calls and texts hours later. I mean like 5 - 10 hours later.

Slow play things.

Slow down the pace and problems solved.

Side note:

This is probably harder for some of you young guns to pull off, because you were probably texting her like a Rhesus Monkey on Meth during the courting process. (Another reason why you should pick up the horn).

Either way, slow it down.

Another side note:

This isn't really "stalking".

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Quote: (02-22-2012 08:08 AM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I would like to keep the door open for more sex in the future (She's a 8.5 in my book).

This is what I always preached makes players and my competition weak, and makes other players' game weak. Wanting to continue the (FAKE) "friendship" for more sex. You see, if you were to cut her off, you become the MOST DANGEROUS PLAYER ON THE STREETS: YOU DO NOT GIVE A FUCK.....you become like Mixx.

Your balls would be tied in a knot if I were to show you the pictures of women I cut-off after ONE SEXUAL ENCOUNTER.

I have studied for over 10 years why I should consider repeat bangs, and if it helps me get the ultimate adrenaline rush of NEW PUSSY. It does not! It fucks with your head, your posting on forums on how to keep HER happy, and you stop chasing (or get really lazy/passive) other women because you have "a steady supply of pussy" from a girl you do not even care to know personally outside of sex because she is annoying...like all women!


WEAK, WEAK, WEAK!!!

Text her today, and tell her "You were only a fuck, granted the sex was good, take solace in that I found you pleasing....now run along"


It makes me feel powerful, why? because 90% of my bangs are from NEW PUSSY; 90% of your bangs will be from OLD PUSSY - the fact she is an 8+ has got you on your knees like Kryptonite!

Which one do you think would make you a happier, stronger man overall? Constantly fucking new pussy, or constantly fucking the same cycle of pussy?


Mixx

Mixx is right. You get a lot more inspired to get more pussy if you get rid of them after sex. Sometimes its hard when the girl looks fine though.

Quote: (02-22-2012 11:37 AM)houston Wrote:  

Sometimes its hard when the girl looks fine though.

Actually that is not true. It only seems hard because you feel that is the BEST you will do for a long time, and you may not get another 8.5+ for another 6 months. So, you think, let me keep this 8, and then I can easily fuck 6's in between! SERIOUS?

Why not continue fucking 8's only? Because you do not truly believe that you can!

You can thank women for making you feel like that, they beat you!

See how this fucks with your head?


Mixx

Quote: (02-22-2012 08:08 AM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

How to deal with them?

I banged this hot girl last weekend, but even though she's very hot I don't want to be dealing with her sms and calling 24/7 .

It's been a tsunami of "good morning" "good night" and "what are you doing" msgs so far.

At the same time , I don't want to be a complete jackass (she's 19) and I would like to keep the door open for more sex in the future (She's a 8.5 in my book).

Is it possible ?

That's not stalking. Girls who lock their keys in the car in your driveway and calls 911 because they see another girls car in the driveway are stalkers.

Either way..I would string it along until it implodes for booty calls. She'll ditch after she figures it out or gets sick of being your cum dumster. Meanwhile you plow forward into an uncharted sea of pussy

I agree that the term "stalk" was a bad choice of words from my part. (im not a native english speaker)

anyway, I'm totally commited to this lifestyle so LTR is not an option.

However , although I agree with what Mixx said (and that's how I want to roll) I'm not in the place where I'm banging very hot chicks consistently yet.

If it makes clearer to use the 0-10 scale , lets just say that I bang girls in the 6-7 range quite easilly and regularly , with the occasional 8+.

I'm learning to "let it go" those ones , but I confess that its still kinda hard (like Houston mentioned)

anyway , like G said probably the best way to go is to slow things down until she starts to cool of.

Quote: (02-22-2012 12:29 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I'm not in the place where I'm banging very hot chicks consistently yet.

....and this is coming from a young player living in Brazil.


take note all those gringos in-love with Brazil thinking it's a beautiful girls paradise willing to fuck you at the drop of a hat!


Mixx

yeah just seems like shes needy.

Speaking of needy chicks. I have a fb who i bang only during dry spells. (a 6) I seriously ignore her or say (STOP FUCKING TEXTING ME) the rest of the time. After I fuck her theres a cycle. She texts me like im her BF ALL DAY like every hour, if I don't reply she'll send another text an hour (on the dot) asking why I didn't reply. Eventually she'll blow up and call me an asshole and say shes never fucking me again. A week or so later I'll tell her we're fucking, go to her place, fuck her (dont even kiss her) and leave right after eating some of her food. She still acts like I'm prince charming. I had a nightmare about this bitch, she stalked the hell out of me and did crazy shit. I fucked her and when she left she turned into a hot redhead. Regardless this bitch has threatened to tell my other girls, my friends, and other fucked up shit. Literally the only thing that might work is a restraining order. I can do ANYTHING I want and she still wants me. what should I do? Ignoring her is out of the question.

Quote: (02-22-2012 12:46 PM)WesternCancer Wrote:  

After I fuck her theres a cycle. She texts me like im her BF ALL DAY like every hour, if I don't reply she'll send another text an hour (on the dot) asking why I didn't reply.

Oxytocin!!! Oxytocin my friend!!

That F-in hormone in females will be the death of me one day!

Mixx

Well Mr GM, it's time to bestow upon you an age old players secret. It's passed down from the generations, and now, once again, to a new generation....which is you....so pay attention.

The secret is called short-stroking. See, the problem is, you're going balls deep. Of course she is going to pester you afterwards. When your balls smack her taint is when the oxytocin is released to her brain. Like hitting a magic button. It's a physiological anomaly, that is too taboo to speak of in the medical field.

So now you know, keep it to a half-stroke, and you'll be fine.

Quote: (02-22-2012 01:13 PM)Aliblahba Wrote:  

Well Mr GM, it's time to bestow upon you an age old players secret. It's passed down from the generations, and now, once again, to a new generation....which is you....so pay attention.

The secret is called short-stroking. See, the problem is, you're going balls deep. Of course she is going to pester you afterwards. When your balls smack her taint is when the oxytocin is released to her brain. Like hitting a magic button. It's a physiological anomaly, that is too taboo to speak of in the medical field.

So now you know, keep it to a half-stroke, and you'll be fine.

THIS POST WAS TOO FUNNY!!! (Very true)

Quote: (02-22-2012 12:34 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Quote: (02-22-2012 12:29 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

I'm not in the place where I'm banging very hot chicks consistently yet.

....and this is coming from a young player living in Brazil.


take note all those gringos in-love with Brazil thinking it's a beautiful girls paradise willing to fuck you at the drop of a hat!


Mixx

Exactly Mixx you've lived here in SP and you know how it is.

I'm sure it is a lot better than places like DC , but it sure ain't all sunshine and rainbows. You need to put a lot of work if you want to fuck top tier talent.

that is , unless you are the Brad Pitt looking gringo.


hahaha good info on the oxytocin , I'll try the half-stroke then

Quote: (02-22-2012 11:42 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

Quote: (02-22-2012 11:37 AM)houston Wrote:  

Sometimes its hard when the girl looks fine though.

Actually that is not true. It only seems hard because you feel that is the BEST you will do for a long time, and you may not get another 8.5+ for another 6 months. So, you think, let me keep this 8, and then I can easily fuck 6's in between! SERIOUS?

Why not continue fucking 8's only? Because you do not truly believe that you can!

You can thank women for making you feel like that, they beat you!

See how this fucks with your head?


Mixx

Wow. I never thought about it like that. I've been "player baptized" once again and can see more light shining down

I wish an 8.5 would stalk me!!!

Yeah this is what I'd call a "high quality problem"

Quote: (02-24-2012 07:43 AM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  

I wish an 8.5 would stalk me!!!

Hold your tongue young man, you have NO IDEA what you are asking for!!

A stalker, is a stalker, wether she is an 9 or a 3!!

The prettier she is, the more dangerous she is!

Mine broke my windows, wrote asshole on my front door with spray paint, and called the cops on me after she beat herself up, I was in custody fro close to 13hrs!

You have NO IDEA what these bitches are capable off, and my last stalker was this bitch I hope I never see again. what a nightmare!

Mixx is right , I understand that looking from the outside "being stalked" by an 8.5 may sound great , but in reality is a pain in the ass and I can't stand girls sufocating me , following my footsteps 247 and texting all the time.

Even hot pussy gets old.

Quote: (02-24-2012 01:23 PM)Mr.GM Wrote:  

Even hot pussy gets old.

You need to re-read post #5.

ALL PUSSY GETS OLD AFTER 1 BANG!!

Quote: (02-24-2012 10:49 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

Quote: (02-24-2012 07:43 AM)Pilgrim37 Wrote:  

I wish an 8.5 would stalk me!!!

A stalker, is a stalker, wether she is an 9 or a 3!!

The prettier she is, the more dangerous she is!

Mine broke my windows, wrote asshole on my front door with spray paint, and called the cops on me after she beat herself up, I was in custody fro close to 13hrs!

You have NO IDEA what these bitches are capable off, and my last stalker was this bitch I hope I never see again. what a nightmare!

Hell hath no fury like a woman's wrath.

Maybe you could avoid that whole thing Mixx if you didn't send them messages like:

"You were only a fuck, granted the sex was good, take solace in that I found you pleasing....now run along."

That is a pretty self-centered, fucked up thing to send someone. Don't you have a mother or sister?

Mr.GM, I like G's approach of slowing it down. Be honest with her and let her know you are not looking for a girlfriend, but if she's down for a little fun every now and then you'll call her. Your a busy guy, right? If you handle it right I bet you'll have an 8.5 on call who want's a little adventure and day dreams about getting a call from you.

Living the life is about class and style.

Quote: (02-24-2012 04:28 PM)durangotang Wrote:  

Quote:Mixx Wrote:

"You were only a fuck, granted the sex was good, take solace in that I found you pleasing....now run along."

That is a pretty self-centered, fucked up thing to send someone. Don't you have a mother or sister?

I don't believe what I just read from you Durangotang. (I had to read it 3x)

Yeah, it is self centered, so what? Can't believe you are secretly defending (white knighting) psycho women from "self-centered jerks" like me. What the fuck does my mom or sister have to do with a bitch going psycho?

Wait, let me guess, you mean " I would never want anyone treating my sister that way...right?"...psss.

Even if I did send that text message to her, no fucking reason to call the cops on me, claiming I beat her up, and vandalize my apartment!! If a man did that shit he'd be castrated for it, and called an UBER BETA!

For the record, I merely never called this girl back....she got angry when she heard I used to fuck her cousin...way before she and I ever had sex.

Bitches will go Psycho for no fucking reason, so stop white knighting man!


In the famous words of Gmanifesto, who has recently posted this signature on his posts:

Wait, Was this Beta? That I had sex with her cousin and never told her?

Mixx

Some women can certainly go psycho for no reason. What did Jack Nicholson's character say in As Good As it Gets when he was asked how he writes women so well? "I think of a man and I remove reason and accountability."

All I was saying is there's no reason to treat someone like shit right after you get what you want from them. To me texting "You were only a fuck, granted the sex was good, take solace in that I found you pleasing....now run along" is a shit way to treat people. If not treating people like shit is white knighting, then I am guilty. Apparently, paying for anything for a girl when you ask her out is beta according to the forum too.

A big part of why I like this forum is because we have a group of guys here of all different backgrounds who help each other out with knowledge. Knowledge about living a better life - traveling, style, swooping chicks. I am not trying to be a judgmental prick Mixx - you have a million awesome posts on the forum.

I just didn't like what you wrote. To me, it's incongruent with the forum. That's why I said class and style.

Quote: (02-24-2012 04:58 PM)durangotang Wrote:  

A big part of why I like this forum is because we have a group of guys here of all different backgrounds who help each other out with knowledge. Knowledge about living a better life - traveling, style, swooping chicks. I am not trying to be a judgmental prick Mixx - you have a million awesome posts on the forum.

I just didn't like what you wrote. To me, it's incongruent with the forum. That's why I said class and style.

Fair enough. I'm a player, not a saint.

Mixx