Hey guys, I haven't used the forum in a while. Been busy with school and just been really tired. I decided to come back since I felt I was really getting worse socially when I wasn't casually reading for like 30 minutes a day.
Anyways, tomorrow ( or today, on friday ) I am going to be going to some bars and clubs with like 6 friends for the first time ever. It might be important to note I'm actually 17 but my friends have done it before and know certain bars and clubs we can get into. We are going to be travelling to another area an hour away or so where they arent as strict on checking for your age and stuff.
Now, I have never read any game regarding clubs and stuff. I am actually a bit nervous because I have no clue what to expect. I haven't really thought about clubs and bars that much since I didn't think I was going to go to one so soon. I'm wondering, how do you actually act in a bar and club setting? What is it like compared to say a house party? I always used to think of bars as these things I saw in wild western movies where people drank whiskey and ocasionally fought and all that jazz. I also thought bars were alot more party like. When I asked my friend what bars are like he said it's alot like a restaurant but instead of food you order liqour or beer and basically just chill out with your buds. Clubs are like one very big party with loud music and drinks and shit. Would this be correct?
And how do I act in clubs and bars respectively? For example, if I'm in a house party I will most likely be familiar with more than half the people there or atleast alot of people are going to be friends with my friends, so I will be going around talking to pretty much everyone and just get to know everyone. Is it the same in clubs and bars? Or do you usually keep to yourself? I don't wanna look like an idiot lol.
Lastly, how do you dance in clubs? I've read a couple of threads and they recommend salsa but I'm not sure that's what I'm looking for hehe. I don't want to be some master dancer but I want to know what the hell to do if someone invites me out to the dance floor.
Also, some very basic tips for game in clubs would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.
Anyways, tomorrow ( or today, on friday ) I am going to be going to some bars and clubs with like 6 friends for the first time ever. It might be important to note I'm actually 17 but my friends have done it before and know certain bars and clubs we can get into. We are going to be travelling to another area an hour away or so where they arent as strict on checking for your age and stuff.
Now, I have never read any game regarding clubs and stuff. I am actually a bit nervous because I have no clue what to expect. I haven't really thought about clubs and bars that much since I didn't think I was going to go to one so soon. I'm wondering, how do you actually act in a bar and club setting? What is it like compared to say a house party? I always used to think of bars as these things I saw in wild western movies where people drank whiskey and ocasionally fought and all that jazz. I also thought bars were alot more party like. When I asked my friend what bars are like he said it's alot like a restaurant but instead of food you order liqour or beer and basically just chill out with your buds. Clubs are like one very big party with loud music and drinks and shit. Would this be correct?
And how do I act in clubs and bars respectively? For example, if I'm in a house party I will most likely be familiar with more than half the people there or atleast alot of people are going to be friends with my friends, so I will be going around talking to pretty much everyone and just get to know everyone. Is it the same in clubs and bars? Or do you usually keep to yourself? I don't wanna look like an idiot lol.
Lastly, how do you dance in clubs? I've read a couple of threads and they recommend salsa but I'm not sure that's what I'm looking for hehe. I don't want to be some master dancer but I want to know what the hell to do if someone invites me out to the dance floor.
Also, some very basic tips for game in clubs would be greatly appreciated. Thanks.