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Lessons You've Learned About Girls
#1

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Anything and Everything.

Ones in my head at the moment:

* Chicks love being manhandled. The more masculine, the more rough lovin they'll need. (I met a chick last night, a feisty type, masculine intellectually. her eyes sparkled most when, with her head lying horizontally, facing to her friend to her left when I was on her right, I took my hand, placed it on her cheek and turned her head to face me.)

* There are three categories of behavior: socially appropiate, edgy, and creepy. Be edgy - you are nonchalant, but not weird. You're funny, but not crazy. Socially appropiate is boring, and creepy scares babes off.

*Never confide in girls an emotional weakness. They will mock and despise you for it, surreptitiously, if not outright. Learn not to feel emotions of weakness.
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#2

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

I can’t tell you how important not giving a shit is. I never met a successful player who cared. The only problem is it’s hard to fake.

Never, ever covet another guy’s girl. You have no idea what he had to go through to get or not get what he is getting.

If you don’t have a method to screen girls, you’re wasting your time.

They’re always more interesting and beautiful before sex. Fantasizing about her before sex will do you no good.

Ice cream dates are cute and sometimes fun, but if you’re going for speed, always get drinks. Just one drink increases the chance of getting laid by at least 50%. Alcohol is sex fuel, whether you like it or not.

Approaching is just one way to get laid, but the one where all you need is the clothes on your back. Always keep your eyes and ears open.

If you can’t close, you’re an entertainer.

You’re not living up to your potential. If you are not approaching at least ten girls a week, you never will.

There’s a girl you like in the bar. What’s your line? If you don’t have one then get one.

Don’t go out if you’re in a bad mood. You’re wasting your time and the girl’s.

You should never compliment a girl, until that time your brain tells you that complimenting her will you in her pants faster. It may take a while for that to happen.

The better you get, the less new notches you get. Your rolodex becomes huge. Sex on demand is all it’s cracked up to be.

If you want average, plain girls, then fit in and go along with current hot trends.

You should be able to talk for hours without stopping. If a crowd wouldn’t form, you’re not interesting. There’s ways to become interesting, but it’s probably not by what you’re doing now.

You don’t need a car, a job, a place, or money to fuck above-average girls. I’m fascinated that some girls have a type that can be described as unemployed but interesting bum.

If there is a possibility you are meeting up with a chick, take two condoms. If not, take one. If you leave your house and forgot a condom, turn back.

There is something you need to fix if there is a girl you are very attracted to but your feet don’t start moving in her direction.

There has to be a moment in the interaction where you think you might lose her, and vice versa. Not caring if things go wrong is attractive.

It’s easier to peel a banana from the bottom than the top.

You have up to a week before you things will go stale. After that it’s probably done.

If you see a guy with a hot girl, it wouldn’t hurt to watch him for a couple seconds. You may notice something.

Be like the soap opera. Master the art of drama and girls will keep tuning in.

Anger is either a huge turn-off or strong aphrodisiac, depending on when and how you show it.

Some girls decide within 3 seconds if she wants to have sex with you. And it’s not only based on your looks. Your stories, experiences, and attitude are broadcasted (or not) as you move through the world.

You must have standards. They can be low but there has be situations where you say, “No I’m not doing it.” In the long run being selective rewards you with more.

You don’t have to dance if you don’t want to, but it sure makes things move a lot faster.

I generally don’t take pictures of girls I like before I get them. I think it sends the wrong message.

If every girl liked the type of guys seen in GQ and Details, the guys you are trying to emulate, I would never get laid.

Once a girl gives up hope that you will get into a relationship with her, she’ll let you fuck her without having to put in any effort.

You’re only as good as your last approach.

Some nights girls throw themselves at you, while other nights you can’t get a beast to give you eye contact. Not everything can be logically explained. Consistency is the hardest part of game.

It’s a pretty good sign when a girl asks you to take her number, but it doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to get anything. There are no guarantees in pick-up, and you’ll be surprised at the girls who do come through.

Always let a girl ask you for your name first.

Your goal should always be at least a make-out, and never the number.

Being a risk-taker or adventurer seems to make up for lack of money or status.

If I’m lazy I like to wait for girls to give me eye contact before approaching. I usually go home empty handed when I’m lazy.

Her friends absolutely hate you, and will do everything in their power, during and after the pick up, to make sure you don’t get it. Having a cool wingman is the only thing that helps.

Girls say I have nice hair, but I wash it once a week… with conditioner. I don’t remember the last time I used shampoo. If a girl likes you and isn’t sure why, she’ll rationalize all sorts of amusing bullshit.

Your game will never stop changing. I remember when I used to grind on girls and dance more than I talked, when I used to pick up girls in clubs and fail miserably in bars. When your game changes, so should your venue selection, or your results will go down.

Don’t jerk off before you go out.

The best way to get her to stop is to gently grab her forearm.

The less educated she is, the more direct you can be. The more educated you are, the harder it is to believe that game works.

I don’t know if I give girls orgasms or not because I never ask. The more I care, the less likely there will be a repeat.

You should have a staple of quick one-liners that make most girls laugh. If you don’t have tested material then you’re just going by luck.

It’s easier to pick up when you are the exotic one. If you look around and all the guys look like you, you might want to try somewhere else.

Some women don’t know how to flirt, so when they insult you or give you advice they are trying to show affection. It’s up to you whether you find that acceptable.

Witty girls who like the back-and-forth banter get old really fast. Sexy and feminine girls never get old.

You’ll bounce back if you care enough.

You may naturally evolve to the point where the more interest you show in a girl, the more she likes you, even though before she’d run away.

Sometimes the best way to get into a girl’s place is to say nothing and just follow her in.

You should have a plan for the most frequent situations, whether it’s approaching, comebacks to common questions, asking girls on dates, getting into the bedroom, and so on. Already know what you’re going to do before you do it.

If you’re running out of things to say, either hang out with a player or read a book.

It’s a myth to think of a certain girl as “end game.” You just age, get tired, and pick one.

I regret I didn’t try harder to get more naked pictures and video. You won’t know unless you ask.

There will be some really bad days, where nothing seems to go right and you forget things you mastered before. It’s okay to beat yourself up about it every now and then.

No guy gets their dream girl, unfortunately. How can she be your dream if you can get her?
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#3

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Thanks for the long post Roosh

You are the prize

You should think about going up to a girl, on approach, like you are going to give her a million $ cheque.

"For the true meaning of victory ask the defeated warrior"
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#4

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

lesson learned last night:

Always have a plan for closing. If you're without one, make one.

Corollary: Game is nothing without the right logistics.
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#5

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Never, ever, ever settle. Life is too short, and chances are: you have'nt even been to Brazil/Colombia yet.
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#6

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

I have a dream that the noobs today search and read for stuff like this first instead of posting threads like i think she looked my way what should i do...
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#7

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote: (12-18-2018 11:11 PM)Off The Reservation Wrote:  

I have a dream that the noobs today search and read for stuff like this first instead of posting threads like i think she looked my way what should i do...

Yeah, but kids these days need constant attention and validation. And guys can't get it via social media so their junk threads and circle jerk posting over the same 5 topics are the male equivalent of the dog filter selfie.
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#8

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

And what ever happened to Basil Ransom? I remember him posting a lot when I first started lurking, but he's disappeared.
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#9

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Even when you think you found "the one" - know, she can betray you at any time!
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#10

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

If only the moderators deleted the double threads, the world would be a better place.
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#11

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Don't love a woman more than yourself.

Keep that last 20% of your heart for you in case shit ever hits the fan
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#12

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

* NEVER go for a dinner date before getting it done. Chances are, you won't or it will take a lot longer than going for 1-2 drinks.
* NEVER write long ass text messages even if she does, always keep them much shorter than hers
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#13

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

There should be a RooshVforum Hall of fame. This should be included in it.

If I spend a couple days researching the best topics and categorize them would you guys be mad if I make a thread about it? There are A LOT of hidden gems on here.
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#14

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

She's not yours, it's just your turn.
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#15

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Women have multiple personalities.

The woman you date is not necessarily the one you'll find yourself married to... and definitely not the same one you'll be battling in divorce court.

Women change — sometimes drastically. How often have you heard a guy refer to his ex-girlfriend/wife as "psycho"? Yet she didn't seem psycho when he first got with her.

This is why it's pure folly ever to seriously commit to a woman. She may be a great girl now... but how will she change, and who will she become over time?
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#16

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote: (09-20-2008 05:20 PM)Roosh Wrote:  

I can’t tell you how important not giving a shit is. I never met a successful player who cared. The only problem is it’s hard to fake.

Never, ever covet another guy’s girl. You have no idea what he had to go through to get or not get what he is getting.

If you don’t have a method to screen girls, you’re wasting your time.

They’re always more interesting and beautiful before sex. Fantasizing about her before sex will do you no good.

Ice cream dates are cute and sometimes fun, but if you’re going for speed, always get drinks. Just one drink increases the chance of getting laid by at least 50%. Alcohol is sex fuel, whether you like it or not.

Approaching is just one way to get laid, but the one where all you need is the clothes on your back. Always keep your eyes and ears open.

If you can’t close, you’re an entertainer.

You’re not living up to your potential. If you are not approaching at least ten girls a week, you never will.

There’s a girl you like in the bar. What’s your line? If you don’t have one then get one.

Don’t go out if you’re in a bad mood. You’re wasting your time and the girl’s.

You should never compliment a girl, until that time your brain tells you that complimenting her will you in her pants faster. It may take a while for that to happen.

The better you get, the less new notches you get. Your rolodex becomes huge. Sex on demand is all it’s cracked up to be.

If you want average, plain girls, then fit in and go along with current hot trends.

You should be able to talk for hours without stopping. If a crowd wouldn’t form, you’re not interesting. There’s ways to become interesting, but it’s probably not by what you’re doing now.

You don’t need a car, a job, a place, or money to fuck above-average girls. I’m fascinated that some girls have a type that can be described as unemployed but interesting bum.

If there is a possibility you are meeting up with a chick, take two condoms. If not, take one. If you leave your house and forgot a condom, turn back.

There is something you need to fix if there is a girl you are very attracted to but your feet don’t start moving in her direction.

There has to be a moment in the interaction where you think you might lose her, and vice versa. Not caring if things go wrong is attractive.

It’s easier to peel a banana from the bottom than the top.

You have up to a week before you things will go stale. After that it’s probably done.

If you see a guy with a hot girl, it wouldn’t hurt to watch him for a couple seconds. You may notice something.

Be like the soap opera. Master the art of drama and girls will keep tuning in.

Anger is either a huge turn-off or strong aphrodisiac, depending on when and how you show it.

Some girls decide within 3 seconds if she wants to have sex with you. And it’s not only based on your looks. Your stories, experiences, and attitude are broadcasted (or not) as you move through the world.

You must have standards. They can be low but there has be situations where you say, “No I’m not doing it.” In the long run being selective rewards you with more.

You don’t have to dance if you don’t want to, but it sure makes things move a lot faster.

I generally don’t take pictures of girls I like before I get them. I think it sends the wrong message.

If every girl liked the type of guys seen in GQ and Details, the guys you are trying to emulate, I would never get laid.

Once a girl gives up hope that you will get into a relationship with her, she’ll let you fuck her without having to put in any effort.

You’re only as good as your last approach.

Some nights girls throw themselves at you, while other nights you can’t get a beast to give you eye contact. Not everything can be logically explained. Consistency is the hardest part of game.

It’s a pretty good sign when a girl asks you to take her number, but it doesn’t mean you’re guaranteed to get anything. There are no guarantees in pick-up, and you’ll be surprised at the girls who do come through.

Always let a girl ask you for your name first.

Your goal should always be at least a make-out, and never the number.

Being a risk-taker or adventurer seems to make up for lack of money or status.

If I’m lazy I like to wait for girls to give me eye contact before approaching. I usually go home empty handed when I’m lazy.

Her friends absolutely hate you, and will do everything in their power, during and after the pick up, to make sure you don’t get it. Having a cool wingman is the only thing that helps.

Girls say I have nice hair, but I wash it once a week… with conditioner. I don’t remember the last time I used shampoo. If a girl likes you and isn’t sure why, she’ll rationalize all sorts of amusing bullshit.

Your game will never stop changing. I remember when I used to grind on girls and dance more than I talked, when I used to pick up girls in clubs and fail miserably in bars. When your game changes, so should your venue selection, or your results will go down.

Don’t jerk off before you go out.

The best way to get her to stop is to gently grab her forearm.

The less educated she is, the more direct you can be. The more educated you are, the harder it is to believe that game works.

I don’t know if I give girls orgasms or not because I never ask. The more I care, the less likely there will be a repeat.

You should have a staple of quick one-liners that make most girls laugh. If you don’t have tested material then you’re just going by luck.

It’s easier to pick up when you are the exotic one. If you look around and all the guys look like you, you might want to try somewhere else.

Some women don’t know how to flirt, so when they insult you or give you advice they are trying to show affection. It’s up to you whether you find that acceptable.

Witty girls who like the back-and-forth banter get old really fast. Sexy and feminine girls never get old.

You’ll bounce back if you care enough.

You may naturally evolve to the point where the more interest you show in a girl, the more she likes you, even though before she’d run away.

Sometimes the best way to get into a girl’s place is to say nothing and just follow her in.

You should have a plan for the most frequent situations, whether it’s approaching, comebacks to common questions, asking girls on dates, getting into the bedroom, and so on. Already know what you’re going to do before you do it.

If you’re running out of things to say, either hang out with a player or read a book.

It’s a myth to think of a certain girl as “end game.” You just age, get tired, and pick one.

I regret I didn’t try harder to get more naked pictures and video. You won’t know unless you ask.

There will be some really bad days, where nothing seems to go right and you forget things you mastered before. It’s okay to beat yourself up about it every now and then.

No guy gets their dream girl, unfortunately. How can she be your dream if you can get her?

This post has more than ten years old and it is pure gold. So many amazing stuff writen all over the years in this forum. Thank you Roosh!

Lately is hard to find something with this kind quality. Though is out here so many knowledge dropped in the depths of time of this forum.

It would be nice if there could be an index of threads by year that they where created, plenty of amazing stuff in the begginings of this forum, that are in the "dead archive"...
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#17

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

All women lie.
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#18

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

With women, you're only as good as your other options.

The corollary to this is that your women will actively attempt obscure this reality in any way they can.
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#19

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote: (12-20-2018 02:30 PM)lunchmoney Wrote:  

All women lie.

Say it again for the men in the back that think even the most virtuous woman isn't capable of deceit
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#20

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Amazed there was a gap of ten years between posts on this thread.


What parts of Roosh's post would he change, if any?
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#21

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote:Roosh Wrote:

It’s easier to peel a banana from the bottom than the top.

[Image: tumblr_o3qwxoGCls1udh5n8o1_400.gif]

A man who procrastinates in his choosing will inevitably have his choice made for him by circumstance.

A true friend is the most precious of all possessions and the one we take the least thought about acquiring.
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#22

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

^^^ I dont get it [Image: sad.gif]
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#23

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote: (12-20-2018 03:57 PM)Investment Bro Wrote:  

The corollary to this is that your women will actively attempt obscure this reality in any way they can.

can you elaborate on this?

Civilize the mind but make savage the body.
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#24

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

Quote: (12-20-2018 11:09 PM)Zoso Wrote:  

^^^ I dont get it [Image: sad.gif]

“Peel a banana” = taking her clothes off.

HSLD
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#25

Lessons You've Learned About Girls

1. Disregard everything a woman says about anything that is not an objective fact (the Earth is round, fish live in water, etc.) such as anything she says about her religious beliefs, morality, etc. I estimate that at least 80-90% of everything that a typical woman says about anything that is not an objective fact is a lie. Ignore what they say and pay close attention instead to what they actually do. That will tell you all that you need to know about who they really are and what they really believe.

2. Man evolved to beat the hell out of our problems. Women evolved to manipulate men into beating the hell out of their problems. Don't let a woman bait you, lead you, play games with you, or pit you against other men for her amusement. Take the lead always and don't let her use manipulation tactics on you. In other words, maintain a solid frame at all times.

3. Have a clear set of rules and boundaries that you will not tolerate her crossing. This gives her reason to respect you while also giving you a way to measure when it is not worth it anymore and you should just ditch her.

4. If society and the legal system will permit her to abuse you and not stigmatize or seriously punish her for doing so, most of them will eventually do it. When social and legal checks on the behavior of women are removed, they show their true colors and it becomes clear which is, on average, the more vicious and treacherous sex.

5. There are decent women out there with whom you can build something but assume that the one you have is not one of them until she proves herself to be otherwise and take steps at all times to protect yourself from #4.

6. Hypergamy does not, never did, and never will care.
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