Washington Post Article

Sam Wei, a 26-year-old financial analyst in Chicago, has not had sex since her last relationship ended eighteen months ago. She makes out with guys sometimes, and she likes to cuddle.

“To me there’s more intimacy with having someone there next to you that you can rely on without having to have sex,” she said. “I don’t want to do anything that would harm the relationship and be something that we can’t come back from."

Noah Patterson, 18, likes to sit in front of several screens simultaneously: a work project, a YouTube clip, a video game. To shut it all down for a date or even a one-night stand seems a waste. “For an average date you’re going to spend at least two hours, and in that two hours I won’t be doing something I enjoy.”

It’s not that he doesn’t like women. “I enjoy their companionship, but it’s not a significant part of life,” said Patterson, a web designer in Bellingham, Wash.

[The end of sex? More and more young people avoid it]

He has never had sex. “I’d rather be watching YouTube videos and making money.” Sex, he said, is “not going to be something people ask you for on your resume.”

Full article here:https://www.washingtonpost.com/local/social-issues/there-isnt-really-anything-magical-about-it-why-more-millennials-are-putting-off-sex/2016/08/02/e7b73d6e-37f4-11e6-8f7c-d4c723a2becb_story.html?hpid=hp_hp-top-table-main_millennialsex-855am%3Ahomepage%2Fstory

Cliff notes:

As the society changes (changed?) to being more feminized, with more resources and choice for women, the corresponding percentage of women (most women aren't that hot and they are certainly less sweet and less feminine) and men (more drastically hit, the number was 20% and now is probably 15% or fewer) that have sex will be less.

Other factors have been shaping the realities, and it's not really a conscious choice as these articles try to point out.

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:19 PM)Kid Twist Wrote:  

Cliff notes:

As the society changes (changed?) to being more feminized, with more resources and choice for women, the corresponding percentage of women (most women aren't that hot and they are certainly less sweet and less feminine) and men (more drastically hit, the number was 20% and now is probably 15% or fewer) that have sex will be less.

Other factors have been shaping the realities, and it's not really a conscious choice as these articles try to point out.

True,

Theres alot of ugly and out of shape girls in LA, and I feel really weird saying it, but its true. Look at SF, its a nightmare, consider the wealth and how kool that city is.

Here's a quick summary of what's going on, in no particular order:

1. Women are so fat these days, that many men just can't be bothered. Fat kills desire.
2. Rape hysteria and the associated laws act as a disincentive.
3. Men are being taught to be wimps, single mothers can't teach men how to be desirable.
4. Free, easily available online porn and video games offer men huge outlets for their energy that require no risk, all reward, no matter how fleeting.
5. Technology addiction via cell phone and "social" media are killing real-life social skills, increasing awkwardness around the opposite sex.
6. The economy is still crap, and dating/mating/having kids is expensive.
7. The globalist propaganda says global warming and overpopulation is rampant, discouraging people from having children.
8. Slutty women and their STD's, pregnancy scares and personal drama make a man think twice about chasing tail.

The bottom line? Each man needs to work even harder on self-improvement instead of wallowing in the status quo.

Just finished reading the article.

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“Third-wave feminists seem to be crazy, saying that all men are participating in this rape culture.” He opts for porn instead. “It’s quicker. It’s more accessible. What you see is what you get.”

Isn’t he curious about actual sex? “Not really,” he said. “I’ve seen so much of it. . . . There isn’t really anything magical about it, right?”

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“I’ve overheard conversations where every detail was given — ‘We were in this position for this long, and then we were in that position’ — and that’s a major turnoff for me,” he said. “There’s a lot of people my age who have no filter in terms of how they express themselves in public.”

Isn’t he curious about what sex is like? “I’m curious on a physical level, like I’m curious about how a new sandwich would taste, but it’s not like a driving curiosity.” Besides, he said, “I don’t particularly like not being in control of myself.”

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So has sex declined because people are not meeting in person? Perhaps in part. But online life can also affect offline life in more subtle ways, especially when potential mates can disappear forever with the swipe of a thumb.

“It ends up putting a lot of importance on physical appearance, and that, I think, is leaving out a large section of the population,” said Twenge, who teaches psychology at San Diego State University. “For a lot of folks who are of average appearance, marriage and stable relationships was where they were having sex.” Unlike in face-to-face meetings where “you can seduce someone with your charm,” she said, dating apps are “leaving some people with fewer choices and they might be more reluctant to search for partners at all.”

Feminism, technology and post-modernism are ruining the nation's collective sex life. People are finding the basic aspects of life to be pointless.

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:14 PM)Tyroc7 Wrote:  

Sam Wei, a 26-year-old financial analyst in Chicago, has not had sex since her last relationship ended eighteen months ago. She makes out with guys sometimes, and she likes to cuddle.

   

Regarding the Chinese girl above, she's of middling attractiveness. Not ugly, but not a looker. Most likely, she realizes, correctly, that she can't snag one of Chicago's Loop's high-end men and isn't easily satisfied with a middling attractiveness beta males. Instead, she chooses Netflix and other emotional wound covers. I feel sad for her almost, as I spent a lot of time in Chicago and know her type so well.

It's more common than people realise, plus that masculine/feminine dynamic just isn't common anymore in big liberal cities. Men and women are essentially the same and what is sexy about being androgynous. Plus the lack of pair bonding and hook up culture inflicts irreversible damage on women and I would say men as well. It ends up deadening their ability to connect or feel comfortable sexually with a person from the opposite sex.

That girls isn't anything crazy but for America she'll have her choice of suitors.

Anyways part of millennials have less sex, is also that none of them are in relationships. One night stands means no one is having consistent sex, which means they are having less sex.

I think she's hot, chinese hot. She also has a nice body. She's probably lying about not having sex for 18 months, for numerous reasons.

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“To me there’s more intimacy with having someone there next to you that you can rely on without having to have sex,”

Her poor future husband. She's the type to say:

Saw this earlier thanks for posting.

Virgin-Bro with the "Post of the Day" in this article:



“Third-wave feminists seem to be crazy, saying that all men are participating in this rape culture.”

Dude is still very young, has a chance to evolve, especially after he reads some red pill truths left in the comments section.

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:47 PM)Penta Sahi Wrote:  

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:14 PM)Tyroc7 Wrote:  

Sam Wei, a 26-year-old financial analyst in Chicago, has not had sex since her last relationship ended eighteen months ago. She makes out with guys sometimes, and she likes to cuddle.

Body looks serviceable. Hard to say with clothes on but I bet the tits would be a sheer disappointment.

Face is pretty busted though. She has one of those food stall lady faces. Not quite an asian auntie face yet but in another 5 years that's what she'll look like.

A drunken night bang at best. Relationship material? Fuck no.

A couple thoughts...

Wealth provides a lot of really interesting other things we could all be doing. It doesn't make sex less fun or exciting, there's just a lot more other fun exciting things competing with it...albeit on a lower level in my opinion.

Glad they hit on antidepressants, but they missed all the other drugs. Alcohol, speed (adderal, etc)...any and all mood altering medications.

Birth control does more than just allow the woman to control pregnancy, it allows her to control her hormones and mood swings. I've been in relationships where women went on or off BC...they get much hornier when not drugged up (along with negative emotions).

I know they posted bargraphs and shit like that from studies that show some kind of downward trend in sexual activity among youth these days... but from the ground level I certainly don't see it. We live in the most "sex positive" time in American history, and hookup culture (unlike rape culture) is real and rampant. The technology available now to avoid unwanted pregnancy and abort them in the event they happen is incredibly accessible and widely available for everyone. I find it very hard to believe millennials are having "less sex."

I will admit we live in a time where more men are emasculated so there are a lot more men who aren't having sex or end up virgins well into their 20's (or beyond).

That is the very definition of an average looking woman. She's not overweight, she has at least one good attribute (Pretty hair), and there's nothing particularly wrong with the rest of her. Even if she's not relationship material for a dedicated player, if a girl like that isn't in a relationship with some guy, something is deeply wrong with our society.

I'm starting to wonder if it's something in the water.

I don't know about you guys, but sex is a whoop di do thing for me.

It's fun, i enjoy doing it but i don't need it.

Instead of chasing tail and banging lots of random girls i'd rather be professional, work on myself, and heads towards a better future.

Everything is so sex sentric. TV, movies, egad music is just men being sappy shits and women singing, "How long is your love?"

I'm tired of it and it makes sex such an over rated thing. Yes it's fun. There's more out there.

I'd like a culture that acknowledges it and moves onto other things. Why does it always have to be about sex?

Quote: (08-02-2016 02:23 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I will admit we live in a time where more men are emasculated so there are a lot more men who aren't having sex or end up virgins well into their 20's (or beyond).

This hits home, I had sex a few times when I was 18, I jerked off so damn much that I really didn't enjoy the sex, after that I really, really didn't care for it, spent 6 years in college, didn't get laid once, because it was so much easier to jerk off and go to class/work/study repeat. At 28, I finally got my shit together and started going for the vagina, haven't looked back.

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:53 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Regarding the Chinese girl above, she's of middling attractiveness. Not ugly, but not a looker. Most likely, she realizes, correctly, that she can't snag one of Chicago's Loop's high-end men and isn't easily satisfied with a middling attractiveness beta males. Instead, she chooses Netflix and other emotional wound covers. I feel sad for her almost, as I spent a lot of time in Chicago and know her type so well.

I bet she wants the following so can feel "attracted" to someone and put out.

• Caucasian
• Over 6 feet
• 10% body fat
• Lives inside Chicago's Loop
• Ivy League Degree
• Mid-6 Figure Income, 6 figs won't cut it.
• 1M+ Net Worth
• 12-inch cock
• Body like Zyzz
  

Quote: (08-02-2016 02:37 PM)Cattle Rustler Wrote:  

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:53 PM)John Michael Kane Wrote:  

Regarding the Chinese girl above, she's of middling attractiveness. Not ugly, but not a looker. Most likely, she realizes, correctly, that she can't snag one of Chicago's Loop's high-end men and isn't easily satisfied with a middling attractiveness beta males. Instead, she chooses Netflix and other emotional wound covers. I feel sad for her almost, as I spent a lot of time in Chicago and know her type so well.

I bet she wants the following so can feel "attracted" to someone and put out.

• Caucasian
• Over 6 feet
• 10% body fat
• Lives inside Chicago's Loop
• Ivy League Degree
• Mid-6 Figure Income, 6 figs won't cut it.
• 1M+ Net Worth
• 12-inch cock
• Body like Zyzz
  

Ding, ding, ding. Her natural mate is probably a shorter Chinese guy with high 5 figures income. The problem is, she just isn't attracted to him. So many Asian girls like this are some of the biggest stealth racists around. They will only date (aka sleep with in hopes of commitment) with white guys out of their league. She's representative of the bigger, better deal so many of this generation have. It affects men too. We see nothing but an endless stream of 18 year old 9's and 10's and via porn, and then we look at this Chinese 5 or 6, and think, meh, not exciting. Technology is having an impact on all but the most desirable of people, and I think is killing a bit of our humanity in the process.

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:47 PM)Penta Sahi Wrote:  

Quote: (08-02-2016 01:14 PM)Tyroc7 Wrote:  

Sam Wei, a 26-year-old financial analyst in Chicago, has not had sex since her last relationship ended eighteen months ago. She makes out with guys sometimes, and she likes to cuddle.

Didn't even need a picture, I just read "Sam Wei" and all was clear

Quote: (08-02-2016 02:14 PM)heavy Wrote:  

A couple thoughts...

Birth control does more than just allow the woman to control pregnancy, it allows her to control her hormones and mood swings. I

I think it suppresses mood. My wife went of birth control the first time in her life a few years ago (it is part of the IVF process). It negatively affected her mood and she was happy to be off the stuff.

Quote: (08-02-2016 02:23 PM)General Stalin Wrote:  

I know they posted bargraphs and shit like that from studies that show some kind of downward trend in sexual activity among youth these days... but from the ground level I certainly don't see it. We live in the most "sex positive" time in American history, and hookup culture (unlike rape culture) is real and rampant. The technology available now to avoid unwanted pregnancy and abort them in the event they happen is incredibly accessible and widely available for everyone. I find it very hard to believe millennials are having "less sex."

I will admit we live in a time where more men are emasculated so there are a lot more men who aren't having sex or end up virgins well into their 20's (or beyond).

The short version is there's a lot more guys that aren't getting laid.

Once you give narcissists the ability to have narcissistic supply pumped into their head via fiber optic, I suppose there isn't much reason to leave one's bedroom.

Hopefully we'll invent some kind of benevolent machine intelligence that will kindly give them the option to swallow the "blue pill" whole with a nice cold glass of water, and get put in vats for eternity. They'll probably be happier, and the rest of us will too.

Millennials not having sex as much as older generations? Complete bollocks.

Its just that fewer men are fucking more women and the women who aren't getting fucked are either fat lesbian dykes, lipstick lesbians, man haters, low sex drive women or virgins who are scared some guy wants to shove his dick up her anus on the first date.

I know 2 guys who have run through a couple dozen girls in the past year in my gym. The rest of the guys just aren't getting it. Same goes for society.