Your buddy Hank is currently dating a stripper who dances at a high end club. Definitely a solid 8.5, if you're into more petite girls. I actually met her in the club, and it's evolved (devolved?) into yet another mini LTR. I have some random musings about strippers and strip club game. Take it for what it's worth...
1. Strip clubs are actually good for developing game.
Strippers are excellent at small talk and will get your confidence boosted. If you're the type of guy who gets nervous every time you interact with a 5, strip clubs are a great way to get acclimated to talking to hotter chicks. They are masters at small talk. Your game will significantly improve as girls who are only somewhat attractive ask you for dances and you say "sorry hun, not interested."
2. Strippers can extract a lot of cash from unsuspecting betas without a lot in return. If she only wants to see you at the club, this is a waste of your time.
You take a girl into the back, maybe the champaign room. You're a player in development so you ask her for digits. Surprisingly, she complies. Suddenly you find yourself getting texts like "I'm working today, you should come visit!" or something. You go in, she gives you a dance, you chat, but she won't meet you for coffee. Bro, she's using you. Strippers have their "regulars" who they don't bang. If she won't see you outside the club, she's wasting your time.
3. Strippers are actually regular chicks, although they happen to have substantial experience with men.
You know how you game a stripper? Just like you would a school teacher, nurse, or chick who works in HR. The same game you use on a girl who you met on OkCupid works on strippers. At the end of the day they're just regular girls.
That said, strippers are exposed to men willing to pay for their time on a daily basis. Old men, young men, construction works - they are literally inundated with dick all day. And their job is to extract cold, hard cash from them. Oh, and strippers also recognize the relationship between money and sex.
4. On that note, just throwing a bunch of cash at stripper will not get you laid. It will probably do the opposite.
She wants you to buy her a drink? Some dances? Perhaps the champaign room to have a more "intimate conversation?" Nah. Don't throw cash at her thinking it will eventually get you laid. You'll end up broke and horny. Test the water - if she won't let you make out with her or do other shit practically from the get go, she's probably not attracted to you and you're dead in the water. To quote the Rational Male, desire cannot be negotiated.
If your goal is to take a chick home from the club, try and escalate ASAP. If you're rejected, it's most likely a no go.
5. If you go to strip clubs, always try and get digits.
Again, strippers are regular girls. You'll usually get digits if you ask, but I'd say about 75% of the time it will just be a chick with a burner phone trying to get you to become her regular. But, 25% of the time, if you're attractive and interesting, you'll actually be able to pull the chick.
Closing thoughts
Strip clubs are not a good place to meet a girlfriend. However, they're a solid place to develop your game and become comfortable being around hot women. Don't throw too much cash around in a strip club, as strippers are experts at extracting money from the unsuspecting, without giving up anything in return. Remain skeptical.
It's entirely possible to pull strippers from the club, provided your game is strong. Just run standard game, don't throw around cash, and make sure you don't get used.
That said, your time is generally better invested elsewhere. Strip clubs are fun places to conduct business or to get comfortable being around hot chicks. With solid game, however, they're a decent place to go where you're guaranteed to be around hot women - many of whom will demolish the unsuspecting beta. ("OMG! She showed me her tits! And let me touch them! I think she is into me like for real dude!")
Interestingly, strippers deal with pathetic betas and omegas so frequently that they're not really used to dealing with alphas who don't return their text messages, phone calls, or feel like hanging out. There are guys willing to pay them for conversation. Yet you can barely be bothered to return a text message. It's like crack to them.
Strippers make okay girlfriends. Dating a stripper will significantly improve your social circle game, as you'll meet a lot of other strippers and hot service industry chicks. It will also increase your social status as a dude who dates strippers. However, dabble with them at your own risk.
1. Strip clubs are actually good for developing game.
Strippers are excellent at small talk and will get your confidence boosted. If you're the type of guy who gets nervous every time you interact with a 5, strip clubs are a great way to get acclimated to talking to hotter chicks. They are masters at small talk. Your game will significantly improve as girls who are only somewhat attractive ask you for dances and you say "sorry hun, not interested."
2. Strippers can extract a lot of cash from unsuspecting betas without a lot in return. If she only wants to see you at the club, this is a waste of your time.
You take a girl into the back, maybe the champaign room. You're a player in development so you ask her for digits. Surprisingly, she complies. Suddenly you find yourself getting texts like "I'm working today, you should come visit!" or something. You go in, she gives you a dance, you chat, but she won't meet you for coffee. Bro, she's using you. Strippers have their "regulars" who they don't bang. If she won't see you outside the club, she's wasting your time.
3. Strippers are actually regular chicks, although they happen to have substantial experience with men.
You know how you game a stripper? Just like you would a school teacher, nurse, or chick who works in HR. The same game you use on a girl who you met on OkCupid works on strippers. At the end of the day they're just regular girls.
That said, strippers are exposed to men willing to pay for their time on a daily basis. Old men, young men, construction works - they are literally inundated with dick all day. And their job is to extract cold, hard cash from them. Oh, and strippers also recognize the relationship between money and sex.
4. On that note, just throwing a bunch of cash at stripper will not get you laid. It will probably do the opposite.
She wants you to buy her a drink? Some dances? Perhaps the champaign room to have a more "intimate conversation?" Nah. Don't throw cash at her thinking it will eventually get you laid. You'll end up broke and horny. Test the water - if she won't let you make out with her or do other shit practically from the get go, she's probably not attracted to you and you're dead in the water. To quote the Rational Male, desire cannot be negotiated.
If your goal is to take a chick home from the club, try and escalate ASAP. If you're rejected, it's most likely a no go.
5. If you go to strip clubs, always try and get digits.
Again, strippers are regular girls. You'll usually get digits if you ask, but I'd say about 75% of the time it will just be a chick with a burner phone trying to get you to become her regular. But, 25% of the time, if you're attractive and interesting, you'll actually be able to pull the chick.
Closing thoughts
Strip clubs are not a good place to meet a girlfriend. However, they're a solid place to develop your game and become comfortable being around hot women. Don't throw too much cash around in a strip club, as strippers are experts at extracting money from the unsuspecting, without giving up anything in return. Remain skeptical.
It's entirely possible to pull strippers from the club, provided your game is strong. Just run standard game, don't throw around cash, and make sure you don't get used.
That said, your time is generally better invested elsewhere. Strip clubs are fun places to conduct business or to get comfortable being around hot chicks. With solid game, however, they're a decent place to go where you're guaranteed to be around hot women - many of whom will demolish the unsuspecting beta. ("OMG! She showed me her tits! And let me touch them! I think she is into me like for real dude!")
Interestingly, strippers deal with pathetic betas and omegas so frequently that they're not really used to dealing with alphas who don't return their text messages, phone calls, or feel like hanging out. There are guys willing to pay them for conversation. Yet you can barely be bothered to return a text message. It's like crack to them.
Strippers make okay girlfriends. Dating a stripper will significantly improve your social circle game, as you'll meet a lot of other strippers and hot service industry chicks. It will also increase your social status as a dude who dates strippers. However, dabble with them at your own risk.