Quote: (08-23-2015 01:20 PM)Chevalier De Seingalt Wrote:
Quote: (08-23-2015 11:40 AM)coverdoc Wrote:
No not all of Mexico, i'm sure people who have been can tell you that each region is itself like it's own country. And taking into account the age range of it's different as well. For example: a 22 year old from Northern Mex will be completely different on average than a 22 year old from DF. Not 80% are sluts, i'm saying realistically if you meet 5 chicks in Northern Mex you'll probably mesh well with at least one. Depends on what personality you like. There is still a variety, but most sway in the direction of femininity, letting a man lead, keeping up personal appearance.
Hope this is making more sense now.
-CD
In the apartment building where I live now in the U.S. there's an engaged couple from Aguascalientes. I've never seen the fiancee not dressed up ultra-nice even when just getting groceries, she's always pleasant and polite with everyone, and when I've been out with them once or twice is always very respectful to her fiance. In other words seems like that perfect wife material, even after having been in the U.S. for several years there's no sign of any Americunt attitude.
Based on your experience in Northern Mexico if a girl is in the 22-25 age range how old of a guy is it generally "socially acceptable" for her to be settling down with? Of course game, lifestyle, resources etc will drastically effect the answer (e.g. el chapo) but for a well put together guy, is a 40ish y.o. man with an early to mid 20's girl way outside the norm?
From my experience it's not really a biggie anywhere from 20s up to mid 40's maybe even 50s. They tend to not care about dating up, but really hate dating down age wise. My chick at the time and I were leaving Monterrey flying to Queretaro when I saw an older dude from U.S with his wife/girlfriend and she was fucking banging. They were headed to Sanfran, he was clearly in his very late 30's early to mid 40s and she in her mid 20s. I ask my girl if she was a native and she said yeah. Chick was respectable, dressed the part and had a smile on her face the whole time.
Side note: for some reason mexican chicks love dressing up to catch a flight, you'll see some real stunners just walking around the airport.
In hermosillo, I saw a few older dudes with younger chicks. Thing is these dudes all gave off the demeanor that they weren't some sugar daddy chumps, dressed well, looked in shape and had money. I've seen plenty of instances where younger hot chicks with older guys. Go to Main entrance on a friday Night in Monterrey and check out all the older dudes with banging ass younger chicas. Can't do nothing, but bow my head in respect.
Quote: (08-23-2015 01:37 PM)Travesty Wrote:
Quote: (08-23-2015 01:20 PM)Chevalier De Seingalt Wrote:
In the apartment building where I live now in the U.S. there's an engaged couple from Aguascalientes. I've never seen the fiancee not dressed up ultra-nice even when just getting groceries, she's always pleasant and polite with everyone, and when I've been out with them once or twice is always very respectful to her fiance. In other words seems like that perfect wife material, even after having been in the U.S. for several years there's no sign of any Americunt attitude.
I was planning on visiting DF and GDL initially. I haven't researched safety outside major cities in MEX.
Now this seems like it may be a bad idea. DF at least.
Anyone have insight on the current safety of Northern Mex (Monterrey and Hermosillo mentioned by coverdoc)?
I'll give you my $0.02 on the matter as i'm as gringo as it gets. I don't speak spanish well at all and I didn't know anybody when I first arrived to those cities. In hermosillo the chicas I went out on dates with were telling me that it's safe because no competition over drug territory, think i have that right as she was speaking spanglish. What I always always do whenever I travel to a new region is book one of the top 10 best rated hotels via trip advisor. These are usually in the safest area of town, and from there you can get a feel for the city. I always have a chica show me around and these girls will tell you which places are in town are safe and not. The city felt safe, just fucking hot as hell, average was like 107 in the shade. Midwest has a good write up that I followed and it was accurate.
As far as Monterrey, I only stay in San Pedro. Depending on who you talk to will determine your outlook on things. Some of my girls say places like centro MTY is dangerous at night while others say it's totally safe. The crime/drug related problems in monterrey has calmed down a bit in recent years but I still play it safe. If i'm unsure about somewhere I either don't go or ask like 2 or three people before I go. Kidnappings do occur, but from what my chica told me, is that they'd rather target the mexican businessman than an American visitor. Still just play it safe, I don't go to ATMs at night unless my hotel has one, i only frequent bars/clubs in nicest areas and i reach out to expats/couchsurfers for advice. I also only travel in the major Mex cities via Uber, it's more expensive than taxis but it's super safe as it's not regular people driving but actual companies that have drivers, who are required to wear button up/tie. This came in handy once here in DF, when my friend and I went to a titty bar by mistake thinking it was a night club and the uber driver told us to stay in the car and not to go in because they will scam us out of our money. Most also wait for you to go into where ever they dropped you off before driving away.
GDL i only spent 3 days in as I found it boring and my boy had to work. I hear it's getting dangerous, but honestly would punt this question to one of the other forum members who've been recently.
-CD