Quote: (04-24-2015 10:02 AM)Menace Wrote:
Kai, how does this woman provide face or guanxi to him? I didn't read the article to be fair. If he's ashamed to say she's his wife, how can that provide him with face? Is her daddy wealthy or something?
She gave him huge amounts of face at the beginning by letting him display massive exotic factor. Walking around with a laowai as a Chinese man gets you HUGE face in your city. When he got her, he probably got lots of fist bumps from his peers. Some young Chinese women and sheng nu (on the internet mostly and Weibo) make fun of Chinese men all the fucking time about how their penises are too small to get a white woman or they are too poor to get one. I could go on but you get the point. Same reason why the reaction to the Chinese guy in Ukraine with that smokeshow of a wife, was so strong. Just a bunch of reverse racism really. Some Chinese men are getting Russian gals these days more and more, so the jokes on the idiots.
What he was not thinking about was how badly she was going to age. Lots Chinese men, especially very educated and successful ones, feel the itch to upgrade after a while. Not all of them will. Maybe some. Since they are not punished divorce wise, it's not a big deal to some of them. I met a handful like this my ownself. Pretty women, tossed aside because hotshot husband wanted something younger. Not always prettier, but just younger.
I have seen this blog over the years and even though that woman is ugly to me, at one point she was a 5 or merely average. I notice she has gained some weight too compared to years prior. She used to be fairly skinny back in the day. For a Ohio raised white girl at least.
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Her hair has always sucked but now, it's a complete rats nest. She is disgusting now. A literal 3/10 which is a -2/10 on Travesty444's scale. LOL
That reminds me, I forgot to put skinniness as a factor in the previous post. That one slots ahead of beauty believe it or not. Even though what Suits says is true, most Chinese men gasp at fat women. Many would rather have a 5 faced size 0 bitch over a 7 faced size 2 girl. Are they considering time in the future as a measure or just out of eye pleasure, I have not figured that out yet.
Edit: She provides guanxi to him by being a connection to America. In terms of potential for future business avenue to enter that market using his own guanxi with local factories, family, etc. We can break that part down for hours. I think you get the idea though. Without her he has no way of easily getting into business with America.
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