Hi guys. I was thinking about creating a new thread in the Newbies forum but figured my situation is probably more related with this one so...
Backstory:
Met this chick on OKC, 18 y.o., I'd say close to 6.5 or 7. Got the number after one opener and two banters.
I tried to set up a drink date with her after and she turned me down twice. On the third time I finally succeeded and I'm still not really sure how that happened, below is the history
Monday, April 28th at 7:26 pm
Me: ?
Her: Hey
Me: Drink?
Her: Sorry I haven't gotten back to you, just have been sick so also haven't felt like drinking
Me: Huh you can't drink coffee?
Her: Really so is coffee? Because you were talking about alcohol from when I remember
Me: That's last week? Feeling coffee today
Her: Oh well if is coffee sounds great
Me: Cool you in the city right now
Her: No I'm in the Bronx
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Me: Come to Union Square
Her: Are you always around there?
Me: You coming?
Me: ?
Her: Not sure since it takes like two hrs why didn't you tell me earlier
Me: Take the cab and I'll reimburse you
Her: No I rather just take the bus
Me: Cool see you in 2 hours
Her: Hahah oh god okay
Me: Text me when you leave
Me: ?
Her: Almost
Me: Leaving? Or here?
Her: I'm 8 stops away
10:27PM
Me: Ok
As you can see I broke almost all the rules in text game (being needy, sent out multiple texts, didn't play the queue time etc) We did end up meeting at 11PM. We went to Starbucks, I bought both coffee, then sat in the park, talked, asked me personal questions, made out after 45 minutes. I'll point out some interesting things I learned during our date with my thoughts in parentheses:
1. She told me she was pretending to be sick because she didn't feel comfortable drinking alcohol with me. How guys only think about sex when they ask girls to get drink. (Yup)
2. Guys her age are immature, the way they look at her creep her out thus she prefers older man. (Older man game?)
3. Had a boyfriend, broke up with him (Going to assume they fucked so I don't need to treat her like an innocent girl)
4. Met up with another guy a week prior, didn't go well according to her (Maybe he didn't escalate enough)
5. Moved to the U.S. when she's 10~12, living with her mom and has a step-dad living in the city (Going to assume her relationship with her step-dad isn't good since the family doesn't even live together. Daddy issue?)
6. Has piercings other than on her ear, cursed a few time (Slut signs?)
The 'date' lasted about 90 minutes during that time we made out maybe 3 more times. Walked her to the subway station, groped and made out again in a well lit space with people watching. So I'm going to assume the attraction is there. Received text from her that night telling me she got home safe. I could tell the dynamic changed because she was more enthusiastic. Texted her the next day (Tuesday April 29) and tried to arrange another meet up later that week which she responded with "mmm hopefully" < Not really sure what happened here because it seemed like she lost all the momentum within 24 hours. Also mentioned she "dislike guys who just make plans to meet up but show little interest in also having conversations over the phone." I told her "ok so I'll call you now"
^Also not sure if she was trying to qualify me and I fell right into it :/ Talked for 39 minutes which I also found out
1. She's texting 3 guys (Not sure if that includes me or not)
2. Her cousin lives few blocks away from where I live and she would visit and stay over at her place every now and then. (Good logistic?)
Ping her with restart text Friday night, didn't get any response. Received a message from her Sunday morning on OKC ("my phone drowned lol") and she disabled her account before I had the chance to respond.
Found her tumblr account Tuesday and sent a tease message. She asked for my number and I replied 7 hours later (Another shit test? Maybe I should've asked for her number.) Didn't receive any text so I messaged her again last night for her number. Fast forward to now she replied with "text ##########" Haven't text her yet.
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Thoughts? Not sure how I should proceed from here because she's the youngest and hottest I've game thus far. I've only game 25-33 y.o. that are somewhere between 4 to 6 up to this point. And this one is a bit unconventional. I know I should probably isolate her, have alcohol ready and close. But I don't want to scare the cat since I've been doing a lot of pulling and chasing recently with the googling her tumblr account and asking her number even though she has mine...