I really admire Roosh's website and this forum has some really amazing members. I brought and read Bang, but apparently not enough to fully apply the principles.
Before I describe to you my epic failure tonight, some background: I'm in my late 20s, fairly tall, athletic, of Pakistani/Persian heritage. I don't think that I look good, maybe average on a GOOD day. I do make enough money to to be going out a lot more. I have dated girls off and on, however my current dry spell dates back to Feb 2009, when I last dated a college girl.
Onwards to this evening: One of my friends, a really outgoing guy (does not know the Game) invited me out to party. I was pretty tired coming home from working but really tried to step out of my 'safe' element and took a shower, got dressed, headed out. It took me a while to find out where my friend was so I pretty much meandered through the club, not entirely uncomfortable but not opening with women either.
When I found him on the dance floor he introduced me to his friends (2 girls, 1 guy), I politely said hello to them and went of to the bar to get a drink. On my way there I noticed this hottie who was with a friend. After getting my drink, I made my way back on the dance floor, saw an opening when her friend was dancing with this dude. I went up to her brought out my hand as to reel her on the dance floor..she shook her head and said no. Right then and there I felt like the spotlight was on me and the whole world was watching. Mind you, I don't think I can dance but really wanted to make an effort.
So after that I felt so dejected that I went back to the bar ordered a strong drink, finished it and went to falafel place for some food, hopped in a cab and went home. I feel like a little b!tch for doing all of this.
Now I know you guys are very much advanced in your abilities to pick up women, but please give me some constructive criticism for next time (oh yes there will be next time). I know how much I sucked tonight, so I am thinking of doing a few things:
- I'm athletic, as in thin but I should be hitting the gym.
- I don't know how to dance, so should I take classes? I'm embarrassed to say that I think I might be the worst student.
- Should I start making friends with girls? just friends who I can go out with, try to improve my game with them. Friends I can make oh yea, it's a different story finding girls to bang.
To encapsulate everything: Help!
Before I describe to you my epic failure tonight, some background: I'm in my late 20s, fairly tall, athletic, of Pakistani/Persian heritage. I don't think that I look good, maybe average on a GOOD day. I do make enough money to to be going out a lot more. I have dated girls off and on, however my current dry spell dates back to Feb 2009, when I last dated a college girl.
Onwards to this evening: One of my friends, a really outgoing guy (does not know the Game) invited me out to party. I was pretty tired coming home from working but really tried to step out of my 'safe' element and took a shower, got dressed, headed out. It took me a while to find out where my friend was so I pretty much meandered through the club, not entirely uncomfortable but not opening with women either.
When I found him on the dance floor he introduced me to his friends (2 girls, 1 guy), I politely said hello to them and went of to the bar to get a drink. On my way there I noticed this hottie who was with a friend. After getting my drink, I made my way back on the dance floor, saw an opening when her friend was dancing with this dude. I went up to her brought out my hand as to reel her on the dance floor..she shook her head and said no. Right then and there I felt like the spotlight was on me and the whole world was watching. Mind you, I don't think I can dance but really wanted to make an effort.
So after that I felt so dejected that I went back to the bar ordered a strong drink, finished it and went to falafel place for some food, hopped in a cab and went home. I feel like a little b!tch for doing all of this.
Now I know you guys are very much advanced in your abilities to pick up women, but please give me some constructive criticism for next time (oh yes there will be next time). I know how much I sucked tonight, so I am thinking of doing a few things:
- I'm athletic, as in thin but I should be hitting the gym.
- I don't know how to dance, so should I take classes? I'm embarrassed to say that I think I might be the worst student.
- Should I start making friends with girls? just friends who I can go out with, try to improve my game with them. Friends I can make oh yea, it's a different story finding girls to bang.
To encapsulate everything: Help!