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01-06-2012, 12:13 AM
2012 no no.
Are you flush with cash? Do you anticipate that your future earnings potential will increase in the future? Have you been working out hard, taking care of your skin , hair, and overall health? Are you a handsome man that women drool over? If any of the above applies to you, why would you consider leftovers? Never!
Never consider leftover whores if you decide to take the plunge into the abyss knows as "love".
What are leftovers? Have you ever had to heat up a meal , and for some reason thought it tasted better because you ate it a few days later? Don't be fooled when it comes to these whores. What you see is what you get! It's the same fucking meal! Can a leopard change its' spots? Not one African bushman, would tell you the answer is yes, and you shouldn't attempt to change nature itself.
Left over whores, are of such:
1. She's on the rebound, and you, are the next in line. ( take a break bitch).
2. A history of wretched relationships , yet, professes new found knowledge of how relationships should be.
3. Fucked over by many , yet, dedicated to you.
4. Way too experienced sexually, (sucking dick while making porn sounds, as an example) yet, appears as the virgin mary , complete with "unstained sheets", when she's ready to pry the puss open for you.
5. Psychological disaster, needing repair and constant attention.
6. Sexual partners that rivals that of a thai prostitute .
7. She was married.
8. She has crumb snatchers.
9. Maintains contact with past lovers, boyfriends, ex-husband(s).
10. You're part of her rotation.
This is just the tip of the iceberg........
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01-06-2012, 12:41 AM
Sounds like you're describing my BPD ex-GF, which is painful to admit now. Often times, these women will put on the mask and pretend to be someone they are not, but all of the things you mentioned are lurking under the surface. That is why it's important to see through the illusion that they create, and be very careful and mindful to pick up on all the subtleties of what they say and do.
Unfortunately I learned from the "school of hard knocks", but I now know a lot more than I did before, and I vow to myself that I will never, ever, ever "fall in love with leftovers" ever again.
Good list, I'm sure a lot of guys can add to it.
One thing I will say, is be careful of female flattery, not that this directly relates to your post, but found that I was really suckered in and "buttered up" when my ex professed her "undying love, devotion, etc." to me, when really she probably said that to ever guy she tried to lure and trap in her web. Fucking black widows!!
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01-06-2012, 02:48 AM
If you are not her first then she is leftovers
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01-06-2012, 02:49 AM
A few more things to add to your list.
11. She's older than you are.
12. She's past her prime; she's over 25 years old.
13. She's a single mother.
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01-06-2012, 05:04 PM
Get rid of number 4 G, if the bitch cant suck a dick properly, i cant date her..for real
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01-06-2012, 08:50 PM
Quote: (01-06-2012 12:38 PM)basilransom Wrote:
Quote: (01-06-2012 12:13 AM)Pusscrook Wrote:
9. Maintains contact with past lovers, boyfriends, ex-husband(s).
Definitely.
14. Has ever 'monkey-branched:' started dating a future boyfriend while still dating her current one.
15. Has ever cheated.
Chicks frequently monkey-branch, especially the ones that can't stand to NOT be in a relationship. Even if they aren't already seeing the next boyfriend, they have their eye on their intended target.
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01-06-2012, 10:54 PM
Quote: (01-06-2012 07:18 PM)The_CEO Wrote:
I met a woman like this who was extremely attractive, i think she was histrionic, not BPD, which is similar. She pulled the same sh-t, and if you're not equipped to deal with it you're done
I just looked up HPD, and I'm shocked that its not more common. As i read the symptoms, a number of very popular TV characters/personalities came to mind. This society glorifies HPD-like behavior.
Kim Kardashian is one obvious example, as are Paris Hilton and most popular female reality show stars. Shows like Gossip Girl feature HPDish female characters as
main characters.
With influences like this, its no wonder we run across so many of these disorders. That type of behavior is integrated into our culture.
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01-07-2012, 12:38 AM
Any chick with a bad temper, for whatever reason, is generally not worth it. Just remember that angry people always say YOUR BEHAVIOR is the ONLY reason they are angry.
Normal people get irritable, if you're in an LTR that will happen, but often getting REALLY mad is a sign of primitive development and someone who's not going to help you much.
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01-07-2012, 02:30 PM
Quote: (01-07-2012 12:26 AM)The_CEO Wrote:
That's true. After my experience i read up on it and it turns out that many women that have it are very attractive. These disorders tend to be very difficult (impossible) to treat and BDPs and histrionics will often manipulate the psychiatrist/psychologist. in some ways they are like psychopaths but are not physically violent.
I read somewhere that BPD has
nine specific traits/components, and that to be considered officially BPD a person needed to have been diagnosed with at least 5 of them.
I'd be willing to bet that close to half of the women in this country have at least two or three of those nine traits. Once you also account for the histrionics and other crazies, it might be reasonable to assume that most chicks you run into have something off.
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01-07-2012, 07:23 PM
I fucking love this forum. We've all been there I hope, not just me...
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01-08-2012, 02:04 AM
Quote: (01-07-2012 07:10 PM)The_CEO Wrote:
Quote: (01-07-2012 05:15 PM)mofo Wrote:
I think you should avoid falling in love altogether.
The other issue: I am against psychiatry. I am against diagnosing people with these mental illnesses. It's horrible. Bullshit.
Cool. Tom Cruise is a forum member.
Haha.
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01-08-2012, 02:58 AM
Holy shit my megaslut locker buddy is spot on for Histrionic. She broke down crying in my arms once before an English exam (not even an important one), made a false rape story against an imaginary ex-boyfriend, pretended she caught some tropical disease when was vacationing in the Middle East, constantly trying to be what everybody's talking about.
My ex-girlfriend ticks a couple of the criteria too, but I think she's BPD which is similar but a lot more messed up.
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01-08-2012, 09:59 PM
hopefully i've never been in a situation like this
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01-09-2012, 02:00 AM
Date enough and you start to build a list of what you will and won't put up with. Both for purposes of risk and stress aversion. This doesn't generally apply to one night stands, obviously.
Who I won't date, beyond a 1-3 night night stand:
1. Divorced women
2. Women with kids
3. Women who do anything harder than MJ as a matter of habit.
4. Women who are feminists or who have obvious feminist tendencies that i can't abide.
5. Women who have expensive taste (can be a sign of narcissist personality disorder - everyone likes nice things, and so a case by case call needs to be made. "I have a thing for diamonds" is an obvious red flag. Thats the kind of thing that I look for.)
6. Women with short hair - unless incredible potential exists.
7. Women who offer anal the first 1-2 times we have sex - fucking disgusting. Have some pride, ladies.
8. Women who have sex on the first date (I like it , and I'll take it, but its a disqualification for me taking her serisously and not treating her like she's STD infested).
9. Women who show anything beyond a mild sign of needing to be the center of attention (I know, this is a lot of women, but this is one of the primary symptoms of NPD. A lot of modern women have NPD). Needing to go to karaoke every week, excessive self centered facebook posting (the easiest to notice immediately), etc.
10. I hate, hate, hate women who fart in front of me. But these modern western bitches think that behavior is normal these days. so, if you do it, you better be the hottest vagina on two legs - otherwise your stinky ass can lose my number.