[mojodrew]

a while back i was telling a friend of mine about how my girlfriend at the time was getting real suspicious of me runnin around with other chicks. at the time i was looking for advice on how to hide it from her but he ended up telling me to do the opposite: "nahhhhh, dont hide that shit. only when u introduce the other girl to the equation will she get her game on-point and start treating u the way u wanna be treated. she has to feel the threat of losing u before she gives in to what u want."
so, with that said, what is the most effective, subtle way to let the girl know that it is u and not her who is the prized commodity? without it coming across as premeditated, of course.....

[thegmanifesto]

Another move is introduce the two girls (over multiple bottles of wine of course), and get them to swoop each other.

And join in of course.

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com

[adrock]

Dating multiple girls is great fun and you should never feel the need to hide that you are dating around. Not hiding earings, etc left by other girls at your place is a nice subtle reminder that you are in demand.

However, _you_ said "girlfriend" which leads me to believe that she probably expects that your relationship is monogamous. I think that dating around in this case without telling her is just plain scumbag.

[College Game]

I disagree, this is not scumbag at all. You should always have options, no matter what your relationship status.

[thegmanifesto]

"You should always have options, no matter what your relationship status. "

Agreed.

You should have options with jobs, places to live, clothes to wear.

Why should girls be anything different?

- MPM
The Guide to Getting More out of Life
http://www.thegmanifesto.com