[esperar]

There are two chicks on facebook who are friends of friends. I've met them before in person, but forgot to ask them for their details. How should I go about contacting them, if at all?

[BadgerHut]

(12-18-2011 04:55 PM)esperar Wrote:  

There are two chicks on facebook who are friends of friends. I've met them before in person, but forgot to ask them for their details. How should I go about contacting them, if at all?

You've met them in person, so it's totally natural (heh) to drop them a quick line. Say you remember meeting them at [event with friend] then drop some superficial commonality or refer to something that happened at that event, something they can respond to because they won't respond unless they're prompted. Like online dating *puke*.

Do you have a house party, pub night or other non-exclusive group event coming up? Better get one. If they don't respond it's dead, but if they do your followup message is inviting them to that event.

[kbell]

Is there a way of finding house parties on facebook?

[esperar]

One of the chicks doesn't allow personal messages, and will only allow friend requests. I think I'll wait until next month because she said we would probably see each other again at the same place. She said she has a boyfriend after about 50 minutes after talking with her, but only because I asked her if she was by herself in the country. (She is also from Spain) I don't let that stop me from trying though personally.

[drymarro]

(12-19-2011 03:46 PM)kbell Wrote:  

Is there a way of finding house parties on facebook?

lol offtopic much?
add people that look like they have good social lives and you can see events people are attending on the left side. that's one way to do it. If anything, you can try making a fake profile and have that girl go to the school you go to. Then just add mad people and you'll find some.

[esperar]

What should I do for hot chicks who are friends of friends, but who I've never spoken to before? There's a hot chick from Colombia like this, but I don't have any good reason to say anything to her.

[drymarro]

(12-21-2011 07:13 PM)esperar Wrote:  

What should I do for hot chicks who are friends of friends, but who I've never spoken to before? There's a hot chick from Colombia like this, but I don't have any good reason to say anything to her.

I think you misunderstood me. Make a fake profile with some pictures of a hot girl and just add guys but don't let them see your friends. Get creative.

[esperar]

No, I was just asking in general. I wanna say something to her, but I don't have a reason to.

[esperar]

A chick I've met several times before and had a good time with has all of a sudden gone quiet. When she went back to Spain on vacation, as soon as she got back, she let me know she was there, so I said to her it was nice to hear from her, but I was busy getting ready to meet "una amiga" soon. I think she may have got upset as she left very quickly after me saying it.

We have spoken since, but very briefly. She'll be back in the country next month, so I sent her a message saying that we will be going out somewhere when she is back, and she hasn't responded yet after days even though I know she has been online.

I don't want to appear needy, so should I just leave this one as it is, and wait for a response, or should I ask her if I've upset her?

[Parlay44]

Just send the friend request. Fuck it. It'll show her who you know in common before she accepts.

If she doesn't remember you or declines who cares. You didn't lose anything.

[esperar]

What about the chick who I think I upset? I spoke to a mutual friend of hers online, and I'm now convinced she is ignoring me. I sent a Colombian chick a friend request online. Very very sexy. I think she'll reject it though, even if we do have mutual friends.

[esperar]

The Colombian 8 accepted my request. What now? Should I message her in a few days? Says on her profile she has a boyfriend, but I don't take any notice of that.

[esperar]

There's an English chick who is dressing really slutty at the hotel I'm staying at. She is wearing really short shorts, and showing as much cleavage as you possibly can. She's about 16 or 17, what should I do? I have no idea how to approach, and I see her everyday.

HELP ME!!!!!! I haven´t even said anything to her yet!!!

[el mechanico]