I was lying in bed after hooking up with a certain girl for the third time. At some point, the conversation turned to when we each decided we wanted to sleep with the other the first time. For me it was simple: the moment I saw her, as is usually the case. Her answer surprised me, though.
She said that there wasn't a point where she decided that she wanted to sleep with me; instead, she just let events happen as I walked her through them, from our initial meeting at a university hockey game to my suggestion to grab food afterward to my invitation back to my place to my initiation of kissing about a minute after we went inside. From the way she phrased it, she was more or less passive and was willing to go along with whatever I did.
So this marks a new point in my understanding of game: ironclad reinforcement of the principle that just taking charge and moving things forward and not doing anything stupid is sometimes sufficient for the bang.
I'm guessing the repeat bangs were less due to continuing passivity and more due to the fact that I picked up very early on that she likes it really rough while almost no one else in her history did. (related musing: either I seem to mainly attract the ones who like it rough, or most girls actually like being slapped hard/held down/choked/thrown around but don't display this quality unless someone brings it out).
She said that there wasn't a point where she decided that she wanted to sleep with me; instead, she just let events happen as I walked her through them, from our initial meeting at a university hockey game to my suggestion to grab food afterward to my invitation back to my place to my initiation of kissing about a minute after we went inside. From the way she phrased it, she was more or less passive and was willing to go along with whatever I did.
So this marks a new point in my understanding of game: ironclad reinforcement of the principle that just taking charge and moving things forward and not doing anything stupid is sometimes sufficient for the bang.
I'm guessing the repeat bangs were less due to continuing passivity and more due to the fact that I picked up very early on that she likes it really rough while almost no one else in her history did. (related musing: either I seem to mainly attract the ones who like it rough, or most girls actually like being slapped hard/held down/choked/thrown around but don't display this quality unless someone brings it out).