[JoyStick]

i only tried choking one girl before and i didn't really apply any pressure because i wasn't sure how hard i can go without freaking her out. so i'm curious to know how hard do y'all choke girls during sex and if any of them ever get caught off guard.

[JoyStick]

fuck! that thumb down was on accident. i clicked on the wrong image.

[Cr33pin]

ive choked many of women in my time... but mainly with my memeber down thier throat

[Vitriol]

[Sly]

My ex-girlfriend loved being choked and slapped in the face. I got accustomed to doing this as we were together for about 8 months. When things ended, I got really drunk one night and got a girl i'd known for a while back to my place. We were both trashed and i was playing house music so things got pretty rough (choked and slapped her as if she was my ex). A few days later when i met up with her at a bar she brought up the fact that i choked her and slapped her. She said she was thinking about it for a while and was in shock that a guy would actually do that to her. I couldn't get a clear read on whether she liked it too much but the fact that she kept fucking me for a while meant she didn't mind it too much. I never slapped her again after that but i did give her slight chokes.
I think choking is definitely acceptable to all females (especially if they have some liquor in them).
However, you might want to think twice before slapping them. Writing this makes me miss my ex lol. I loved slapping that bitch in the face and she would slap me back lol

[Timoteo]

I have to admit...the choking/slapping thing is a bit much for me. Now I've slapped and ass or two in my time, but never in the face. I do enjoy grabbing a fist full of long hair and giving it a good tug when I'm beating it up doggiestyle. The asphyxiation thing makes me a little uncomfortable. For you guys that do it, do you discuss your "safe word" before-hand, or does she do a UFC-type tap-out if you're choking too hard?

[Cr33pin]

(12-08-2011 06:04 PM)Timoteo Wrote:  

For you guys that do it, do you discuss your "safe word" before-hand, or does she do a UFC-type tap-out if you're choking too hard?

when shes passes out you may have been choking to hard... or maybe just right

[Khaleth]

Haha Dont just straight up start choking her out of nowhere man!

It's gotta be a lead up. I usually start with hair pulling during some rough doggy style to gauge how into it she is. Then you can go from there. Its gotta be comfortable and seem natural. Whisper some dirty shit in her ear when your doing it too. I'm gonna say about 80% are into it... and after it becomes a regular part of your routine its hard not to do it with every chick.

[drymarro]

This is irrelevant but I just thought you had some homicidal thoughts before I read the 1st post. LOL

[kosko]

Yea I slap and pull hair. Chocking I haven't done but I want to try it. I think deep down 80% of Women would be down, it would just be a initial shock to them at first since their head would automatically throw up red flags but their kitty would be breathing fire. It would go against all 20-20 years of indoctrination she has been exposed too.

Best lay I ever had was a with a nutso french girl we practically boxed it out in bed. It pound her then toss her like a rag doll she lung at me like a damn cat and try and slap me and shit lol! After that I was kinda in shock she was red and had scuff marks and shit, I toned it down after that but now I realize that Women deep down want that rough shit.

Go hard bro. I don't know how hard you chocking though, I've never applied "pressure", only a "firm" grasp on that neck.

[Screwston]

I don't really like choking. I only do it when a girl requests it. I do like slapping them though. The thing that gets every girl really hot is pulling her hair hard (make her head come up with it) when you're hitting it from the back as hard as you can. Its game over if you do that move and have your dick in her ass.

[scotian]

You'd be surprised at the amount of girls that like it a bit rough, I find most at least like a bit of biting, hair pulling, arse slapping, etc. Usually they won't out right say thats what they want, but if you're into it, give it a try!

[Yams]

I choked a girl once and she didn't get pissed off but she went ahead asked a female friend if it was acceptable or not. Her friend proceeded to tell her that she gets choked and slapped all the time and its normal.


I still don't know how to work in slapping though especially if its to the face. There is nothing subtle about that.

[Sly]

I find that girls with daddy issues like it a bit more rough.. The 3 girls I've gotten close enough with to find out their dad was never there for them always liked it rough. And by rough, i mean ANYTHING goes (except maybe anal) I think they like to be dominated by a male since they were never disciplined by one growing up or something along those lines.

[Johnnyboy]

ive known lots of girls (probably the majority of them) like to be choked, spanked, dominated, tied up, slapped and like it rough and also tend to be also into girls (although ive never benefited from the latter) maybe its just the type of girl i happen to be attracted to or something. Im starting to think that all girls have some weird fucked up rape fantasy complex or something.
Anyway, i usually just put my hand there for a sec, maybe cut off their air for a second and guage their reaction then go from there.
...sluts

[WestIndianArchie]

(12-09-2011 10:02 AM)Yams Wrote:  

I choked a girl once and she didn't get pissed off but she went ahead asked a female friend if it was acceptable or not. Her friend proceeded to tell her that she gets choked and slapped all the time and its normal.

lmao

[tenderman100]

(12-09-2011 04:16 PM)Sly Wrote:  

I find that girls with daddy issues like it a bit more rough.. The 3 girls I've gotten close enough with to find out their dad was never there for them always liked it rough. And by rough, i mean ANYTHING goes (except maybe anal) I think they like to be dominated by a male since they were never disciplined by one growing up or something along those lines.

This is true. I am banging this married chick now whose Dad left her family for the woman across the street. She has never really gotten over it. She loves it tough.

With the choking, sometimes all you need to start is just wrap your hand around her throat, and always do it while you are fucking her, particularly when you are on top...don't apply any real pressure at first but just give her the sensation of your hand there...and then push your hand up her neck toward her chin, then watch her eyes...if she has the look of submission, of complete abandonment, then apply a little more pressure...

I like to push hard up the chin and then kiss her neck and the nape of the neck...the combination of the kissing of a lover, and dominance of the man, can be really thrilling to her...

Deep down, women love the rape fantasy, being completely dominated and ravished, being on the edge...explore that fantasy, find out what's there...and give it to them.

[tenderman100]

(12-09-2011 10:02 AM)Yams Wrote:  

I choked a girl once and she didn't get pissed off but she went ahead asked a female friend if it was acceptable or not. Her friend proceeded to tell her that she gets choked and slapped all the time and its normal.

I still don't know how to work in slapping though especially if its to the face. There is nothing subtle about that.

Slap her face with your cock first. Don't let her suck you at first...just whack her in the face with it a few times. Then when she starts sucking you (because you let her) move you hand along the side of face and just do a gentle tap...see how she reacts...if she moans a little or jumps a bit...she's into it..

Slapping and rough stuff requires escalation...and rythym...you can just start rough..you have to build up to it...

[JoyStick]

wow.. tenderman.. you're a fuck'n G. good stuff.

[Riker]

(12-10-2011 01:59 AM)JoyStick Wrote:  

wow.. tenderman.. you're a fuck'n G. good stuff.

I second that. Nice posts tenderman.

[Giovonny]

I've been surprised how many girls are into this stuff. I thought it would be hard to find a girl down for some rough sex but boy was I wrong. Almost every girl I have messed with in the last few years has been down to be tied up, chocked, slapped, gagged, etc. You name it! I am now convinced that a good percentage of the girls out there like being dominated. Maybe there is something in their DNA that makes them submit to a man who is dominating them? I heard "Dr. Drew" one time, discuss a theory that said, during the cave man days rape was so common that maybe womens brains evolved to actually accept what was happening to them and not fight back, as a way to survive?


Of course, like anything, you have to build up some comfort with them. I just gradually increase the level of abuse. These hoes got off on this stuff. The daddy stuff and rape fantasies are generally true imo. This shit is way down the rabbit hole of Game. You might not think that a pretty young college girl would want to be slapped around and chocked and called a little whore while you videotape her gagging on your cock and taking your load in her face but many of them like that shit. They want a man superior to them to push their boundaries and test their limits, I think its fun, interesting and exciting for them to explore their own sexuality and fantasies.

Thanks again Tenderman for the tips.

Also, I have lost a few girls because I got too rough, too early. You gotta ease into it gradually and not force it. Its an artform haha

[TheAntiWhiteKnight138]

I think the poster who said girls w/ daddy issues love it is spot on

My ex hated being choked, she had a very strong father figure in her life

The ex before her would literally put on a schoolgirl outfit, and want to carry out a rape fantasy, her father was completely absent.

coincidence???