Hey guys, it's been ages since i posted on this particular forum, and I am in real need of some advice right now.
Here's the background - I've been dating this girl for a while and it had its bouts of both incredible and shitty times. On the plus side, she is everything i ever wanted... on paper. She is pretty, feminine, incredibly smart and educated, caring, etc. Every time i go to Roosh's site, or any other sites in the "manosphere", I always found great relief at the fact that there is absolutely no way my girl was like the dreadful american turbo skank (also, she was not american, go figure).
Now, right now we are on a "break", which is an interesting time for be because I need to figure out if i want to get back together with her or not. Because to be honest, A lot of times i feel like i was with her because there was simply no better option. When I went out, all i saw was fatness, stupidity, lack of femininity and an overall lack of good girls suitable for marriage (which is something that i would ultimately like to do). I am not worried about how to terminate this break. Here's what im worried about.
How do i re-enter the dating world?
It seemed like while being with a good girl and simultaneously reading all the manosphere shit made me really really hate random chicks around me, before I really get a chance to know them. How do i get over this mental barrier that good girls dont exist?
Is there an environment which higher concentrations of good girls?
Any other advice for the newly single?
I feel really lost right now. Especially since my usual ultra positive style has become a chick repellent in the months that ive spent with this girl.
My goal is that if i choose to get back together with this girl, it will be because i really do miss her, etc, and not because im a loser that cant meet anyone else.
Here's the background - I've been dating this girl for a while and it had its bouts of both incredible and shitty times. On the plus side, she is everything i ever wanted... on paper. She is pretty, feminine, incredibly smart and educated, caring, etc. Every time i go to Roosh's site, or any other sites in the "manosphere", I always found great relief at the fact that there is absolutely no way my girl was like the dreadful american turbo skank (also, she was not american, go figure).
Now, right now we are on a "break", which is an interesting time for be because I need to figure out if i want to get back together with her or not. Because to be honest, A lot of times i feel like i was with her because there was simply no better option. When I went out, all i saw was fatness, stupidity, lack of femininity and an overall lack of good girls suitable for marriage (which is something that i would ultimately like to do). I am not worried about how to terminate this break. Here's what im worried about.
How do i re-enter the dating world?
It seemed like while being with a good girl and simultaneously reading all the manosphere shit made me really really hate random chicks around me, before I really get a chance to know them. How do i get over this mental barrier that good girls dont exist?
Is there an environment which higher concentrations of good girls?
Any other advice for the newly single?
I feel really lost right now. Especially since my usual ultra positive style has become a chick repellent in the months that ive spent with this girl.
My goal is that if i choose to get back together with this girl, it will be because i really do miss her, etc, and not because im a loser that cant meet anyone else.