[Gmac]

1. Take care of yourself, you only get one shot at life -- Build and maintain a great body by eating right, working out often, and not drinking too much.
2. Be social and adventurous -- Become a great conversationalist and storyteller.
3. Stop giving a fuck, the only disappointment should be when you chose not to take action -- Become a man of action.

[Neo]

(10-20-2011 11:41 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

The comfort of having a steady stream of pussy, although the same pussy you already fucked, will be your demise.

Mixx

^^

True and great advice.

[Batata]

Don't take inner-game for granted. Build a pristine body, get haircuts, pursue an endeavor, succeed in the capitalist system, and everything should fall into place.

At the same time, keep working on game, becoming a conversationalist, and stay focused.

Life's short.

[afronoob]

(10-23-2011 06:03 PM)Batata Wrote:  

Don't take inner-game for granted. Build a pristine body, get haircuts, pursue an endeavor, succeed in the capitalist system, and everything should fall into place.

At the same time, keep working on game, becoming a conversationalist, and stay focused.

Life's short.

Let me add,actually reinforce what others have said:
1. Don't give a fuck what bitches think. Few of them, from 9s to ugloid 3s truly have any worthwhile originality in their skullspaces.
2. Don't pedestalize
3. Try to have at least 3 on rotation. Bitches go AWOL-they disappear,get married, even die on occasion!

[Amour Fou]

There will always be epiphanies and game insights as you progress. Here I share some of my most recent:

-When your desire for pussy outgrows the need to protect your ego in its safe comfort zone is when you'll really start pushing and taking the necessary actions to reach your goals. Whenever you have moments of self-doubt and insecurities, remember that what should be speaking louder to you is your unabashed horniness and desire, not your ego-drama. Let that be your constant guide and reminder of what really is important: putting your ego to the side and taking the necessary steps AND ACTION to get some.

-I had some insights on the depths of what "putting the pussy into the pedestal" is really about. It might come of as "psychobabble" but I share it because as it made sense to me, it might make sense to others too. This might not apply with such intensity (but it surely applies in different ways) to more experienced players.

The immediate, knee

[ccurtis189]

(10-20-2011 11:41 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

Stick and move..seriously.

Too many guys I see start having success with a hottie, and stick to her without approaching new women.

The comfort of having a steady stream of pussy, although the same pussy you already fucked, will be your demise.

Mixx

what if one girl's all we want though? I'm not interested in banging different girls cause I'd have to wear condoms each time. I just want girl who will let me hit it raw each time.

[Gmac]

(11-08-2011 02:48 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

(10-20-2011 11:41 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

Stick and move..seriously.

Too many guys I see start having success with a hottie, and stick to her without approaching new women.

The comfort of having a steady stream of pussy, although the same pussy you already fucked, will be your demise.

Mixx

what if one girl's all we want though? I'm not interested in banging different girls cause I'd have to wear condoms each time. I just want girl who will let me hit it raw each time.

You get rusty if you focus only on one women. You don't have to be banging others (you can still practice your game) but it sure as hell doesn't hurt.

Why not just bang one raw and bang others with a condom?

[XXL]

(10-20-2011 11:22 AM)KingofScotland Wrote:  

For everyone just getting started out there wondered if the seasoned pro's would care to share their best bits of advice and tips.

1. GO HARD OR GO HOME
going hard creates attraction and sets the right tone. it means.. solid eye contact, voice projection, stepping up, getting closer, holding tension etc. even if on verbal level i suck so much that i can's even say nothing more than "hey what's up" i know that rock solid nonverbals can carry the interaction. when guys complain that their interactions don't hook it means they don't go hard enough aka girls straight up ignore them or everything just fades out fast cause playing safe is simply too wattered down to hold that interaction. girl can't ignore the approach! she can excuse herself or let me know that she's not interested at all and it's all fine but never ignore.


2. LEAD
women need to be led. period. sex doesn't just happen. it seems like it "just happened" but only to the girl who was submitting and letting the guy be in control. you only have so long to SHOW her you’re the man who can lead. so do it right away. setting up mettings, moving her around, leading conversationally, logistically, sexually, in bed.

when girls pushes me away saying "it's too fast for me" it doesn't mean i fucked up. no no no. it only gives me social cue to slow down a bit, make her comfortable, keep going and speed it up later. but never ever stop. as soon as i stop completely the whole chemistry will start to fade out. of course when she's serious about it then yeah she's just not ready. so common sense.

when you start actively leading the interaction that's when everything starts getting really clear and easy. all of the confusion about how to get girls and what to do next disappears.



3. LEARN WHY SOMETHING WORKS
this allows you to understand why some moves/lines/techniques work so you become independant of any particulat scripted thing. guys use same routines again and again cause they don't know why they work. there are underlying principles and universal social dynamics that make some it work. ie classic "can you cook? oh yeah? that's bad we're so broken up, we will never get along.. now way". why this usually "works"? cause you are screening her, you're the judge, you lead conversation where you want, you're unapologetic and apparently not afraid to lose her which makes it seem like you already fucking hot girls so of course you're not trying to convey any value.

understanding these things will really help. these are not exclusive btw they complement each other.
assuming value vs demostrating value
abundance vs scarcity
screening vs chasing
leading vs following
unapologetic vs giving a fuck

[MiXX]

(11-08-2011 02:48 PM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

what if one girl's all we want though? I'm not interested in banging different girls cause I'd have to wear condoms each time. I just want girl who will let me hit it raw each time.

Then you're on the wrong forum hombre. This is not a forum of men looking for relationships with one woman...if you have not noticed.



Mixx

[Giovonny]

(11-08-2011 04:26 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Then you're on the wrong forum hombre. This is not a forum of men looking for relationships with one woman...if you have not noticed.

I don't mind these guys asking for advice. They need help too. Some guys don't have the "player gene". It is not in their nature to pursue and bang multiple women at the same time. They are just good old fashioned "one woman" guys. Some of these guys have no Game. They just want to meet a girl and be with her. But they can't even get one. So, they come here, looking for help on how to get a girl.

It is the "newbie" forum.

[ccurtis189]

(11-08-2011 05:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

I don't mind these guys asking for advice. They need help too. Some guys don't have the "player gene". It is not in their nature to pursue and bang multiple women at the same time. They are just good old fashioned "one woman" guys. Some of these guys have no Game. They just want to meet a girl and be with her. But they can't even get one. So, they come here, looking for help on how to get a girl.

It is the "newbie" forum.

Hehe, well some have told me I have the 'potential', as I've managed to hook up with plenty of girls while at bars and clubs, perhaps using my looks alone as they did the approach most of the time, but one night stands is not what I want. I just want one girl so I can avoid having to use condoms and what-not.

[MiXX]

(11-08-2011 05:11 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

(11-08-2011 04:26 PM)MiXX Wrote:  

Then you're on the wrong forum hombre. This is not a forum of men looking for relationships with one woman...if you have not noticed.

I don't mind these guys asking for advice. They need help too. Some guys don't have the "player gene". It is not in their nature to pursue and bang multiple women at the same time. They are just good old fashioned "one woman" guys. Some of these guys have no Game. They just want to meet a girl and be with her. But they can't even get one. So, they come here, looking for help on how to get a girl.

It is the "newbie" forum.

Ok. Cool. So what's your advice to ccurtis189 then? I'm curious now.

Mixx

[Nonpareil]

I'm also having my best year ever, not doing Mixx or G or Roosh amounts of volume, but significantly more than the average dude.

- Opportunity is everywhere. You think the only place to pick up a girl is at the club? You're wrong, they're everywhere.

- Develop a thick skin. Unless you're super famous and attractive, if you approach a lot, you're going to get rejected a lot. As G said, icy veins.

- Stop being so damn nice. There's a difference between being a doormat niceguy and a guy who's nice until you cross him. Be the latter, avoid the former, call girls on their shit.

[soup]

Make sure her clothes are off before yours come off.

Also, if you find that you are drinking more than she is, you are probably going for a lower value girl.

[Giovonny]

(11-09-2011 10:24 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

So what's your advice to ccurtis189 then?

Well, I thought he was a beta-noob who was just looking for GF. So, I was gonna say just keep working on your G and approaching alot of girls.

But then he said this...

(11-09-2011 01:37 AM)ccurtis189 Wrote:  

Hehe, well some have told me I have the 'potential', as I've managed to hook up with plenty of girls while at bars and clubs, perhaps using my looks alone as they did the approach most of the time.

So now i don't know wtf his problem is. He gets girls, but he can't get a gf...???

I was trying to help a beta. Maybe I got trolled.

[MiXX]

(11-09-2011 12:52 PM)Giovonny Wrote:  

So now i don't know wtf his problem is. He gets girls, but he can't get a gf...???

I was trying to help a beta. Maybe I got trolled.

I think you got trolled too. Ccurtis189's post did not sound sincere as I read it.

Your original advice to keep on approaching a lot of girls was a mute point, as he said he does not want to bang or chase many women, and only wants to be with one!

Its not normal for a guy to purposely not want to bang many women, it's in our genes to hunt and conquer. It sounded like he was just lazy (which I don't sympathize men for being), or a troll.



Mixx

[Andreas]

@MIXX : So do you plan on making more videos this year, or are you going to abort the mission? There aren't many (if any) people who actually show how to score models and analyse a bit.

[MiXX]

(11-10-2011 08:41 AM)Andreas Wrote:  

@MIXX : So do you plan on making more videos this year, or are you going to abort the mission? There aren't many (if any) people who actually show how to score models and analyse a bit.

The short answer is yes, I will.

However, I learned A LOT about making short documentaries. You see, I'm not trying to make videos that look they were shot with an iphone camera on Youtube - I need my shit to look cool if my name is on it.

I also realized that women do not like being shot on camera purposely when doing sexual escapades, so I, unfortunately will have to rely on a hidden camera as most girls ran away at the thought of being on camera. Nobody wants to end up all over Facebook and Youtube doing shit others will talk about unless they are nicely paid $$$ for it..which is not what my vision is about.

So, I need more $$$ for production and post-production costs, and I need to hit places when there are major events happening - like Colombia Moda in Medellin every July instead of September/October.

I had to cut my time short as the Colombian contacts I was working with tried to jerk me around and stiff me with some shit...all over a fucking woman! What else is new?

I still have a lot of raw footage I have not cut, and edited yet for publication, but as time permits, and I organize my plans in other cities/countries, I'll start releasing some.

MIxx

[Andreas]

(11-10-2011 10:08 AM)MiXX Wrote:  

(11-10-2011 08:41 AM)Andreas Wrote:  

@MIXX : So do you plan on making more videos this year, or are you going to abort the mission? There aren't many (if any) people who actually show how to score models and analyse a bit.

The short answer is yes, I will.

However, I learned A LOT about making short documentaries. You see, I'm not trying to make videos that look they were shot with an iphone camera on Youtube - I need my shit to look cool if my name is on it.

I also realized that women do not like being shot on camera purposely when doing sexual escapades, so I, unfortunately will have to rely on a hidden camera as most girls ran away at the thought of being on camera. Nobody wants to end up all over Facebook and Youtube doing shit others will talk about unless they are nicely paid $$$ for it..which is not what my vision is about.

So, I need more $$$ for production and post-production costs, and I need to hit places when there are major events happening - like Colombia Moda in Medellin every July instead of September/October.

I had to cut my time short as the Colombian contacts I was working with tried to jerk me around and stiff me with some shit...all over a fucking woman! What else is new?

I still have a lot of raw footage I have not cut, and edited yet for publication, but as time permits, and I organize my plans in other cities/countries, I'll start releasing some.

MIxx

You can also do some interviews from time to time, to "fill" some gaps. There are a lot of players in the forum. Also for the love of God (if he exist) tie up MPM on a chair, bring him to your appartment and record with whatever you can, an interview
Good luck with the rest of the goals.

I on the other hand, plan to focus more on making money because i really want to disprove my brothers on how financially successful i can become. Also mastering juggling with fireballs is another thing i'm working on now.

[CJ]

Great thread. I think everyone's list should include "approach, approach, approach" honestly that's what really gets you laid. So my other 3 would be:


1. Stop making excuses - For any and everything. No girl is unapproachable, no night is a bad night to go out, you're not really too tired, too inexperienced, too sober, too ugly, too short, too boring. A negative attitude will leave your dick dry.

2. Ride the momentum - When you start getting further and further, and hell maybe even bang a girl, you gotta ride that wave. Don't you dare fucking settle, or you're not a real player. I expect every guy on this forum to want to sleep with as many girls as possible.

3. Don't over-analyze everything - When you come here posting what should I do about this and that and how should I respond, you've probably already lost her. Sure it's a good learning experience, but you learn more through your own trial and error. Sure study up on everything all the guys here have to offer you, but you really gotta get out there and make a few mistakes... or maybe a few dozen... put in the work, and you'll get the results. Simple as that.

[Docter]

(10-20-2011 11:25 AM)Moma Wrote:  

Follow Mixx's New Year's tip.

Approach and game 3 lizards a day without fail. If one day you are very busy, make up the numbers a next day. Make sure you are gaming 21 lizards a week.

I'll take you up on that.

Going out now.

[Feo]

I think XXL said it all. My three recommends?

1-workout
2-workout
3-workout

you'll boost testosterone so you don't sound like a little bitch, you'll have more confidence and "alpha" body language, you'll have more energy and motivation. And if you're not working out then a guy like me is going to come along and take your girl.

[Vaquero]

(10-20-2011 03:25 PM)OGNorCal707 Wrote:  

I'll quickly breakdown some points, probably will repeat some already mentioned, so credit due to those before me.

Rejection is inevitable, try to realize what you did wrong, learn from your mistakes

To add on to this, if you're not willing to accept "Rejection" as part of the process, then you should probably shack up with the next chick that will have you and call it a day. I put rejection in quotations because I think that label is too harsh for what most guys consider rejection. Probably brought on by mainstream adolescent movies where the nerdy guy walks to the other side of the cafeteria and stammers through asking the girl to the spring formal out of nowhere while she's huddled up with her friends. I think most guys here know the outcome of that one.