To get a proper thread under the 'last thread' heading, i'll move this topic, listed above.
Social Circle Game--the traditional way people hooked up.
A. I haven't done this since high school--your guy friends are infiltrated by chicks and you all have to get along--we are talking about hours/wk. of platonic interactions with the chicks, in your social group, as well as demphasizing guy behavior so as not to offend the ladies.
B. People have to constantly jockey for top position in the group. If someone is blown out by a chick in the group, they lose status, so every outing is some odd, underpinning of sexual tension that must be ignored by both parties. I have never really done this game, but it seems a high time investment and cloak and daggers.
C. Just like in high school, there are in and out groups, which can be replicated to a lesser degree in college, and at rarified levels--major metropolitan areas. The groups could be sports figures, TV newsmen, models, finance people, etc. The thing is, we out grow this nonsense after high school and find other ways to get chicks.
D. My main game was day game with some online. I do appreciate a good night game experience and those men who can brave the turmoil.
E. As more time in my game has increased, I have to wonder if I was too hesitant with not participating in social circle game--quality might be higher?--it's healthy to have a group of friends (pun intended-shout out to the show.) As we get further away from college and don't live in a large metro, the chances of picking up chicks with day/night game, which inherently has a volume of approach component, diminishes.
Daygame/night game--no wasting time with pretending co-ed groups are the historical norm and that the women bring anything to that dynamic that isn't contraindicated by their changing of the male dynamic. However, the time put in to this game is similar, in hindsight, to keeping a social group.
A. Day Game is the easiest route--you do it casually, girls' bitch shields are lower, as they have to act semi-civilized in public--and it helps guys who are good at the gab.
B. Night Game also has volume, but the negativity is also larger--and staying up all night gets more difficult when your ass is grass if you are late to work.
Social Circle Game--the traditional way people hooked up.
A. I haven't done this since high school--your guy friends are infiltrated by chicks and you all have to get along--we are talking about hours/wk. of platonic interactions with the chicks, in your social group, as well as demphasizing guy behavior so as not to offend the ladies.
B. People have to constantly jockey for top position in the group. If someone is blown out by a chick in the group, they lose status, so every outing is some odd, underpinning of sexual tension that must be ignored by both parties. I have never really done this game, but it seems a high time investment and cloak and daggers.
C. Just like in high school, there are in and out groups, which can be replicated to a lesser degree in college, and at rarified levels--major metropolitan areas. The groups could be sports figures, TV newsmen, models, finance people, etc. The thing is, we out grow this nonsense after high school and find other ways to get chicks.
D. My main game was day game with some online. I do appreciate a good night game experience and those men who can brave the turmoil.
E. As more time in my game has increased, I have to wonder if I was too hesitant with not participating in social circle game--quality might be higher?--it's healthy to have a group of friends (pun intended-shout out to the show.) As we get further away from college and don't live in a large metro, the chances of picking up chicks with day/night game, which inherently has a volume of approach component, diminishes.
Daygame/night game--no wasting time with pretending co-ed groups are the historical norm and that the women bring anything to that dynamic that isn't contraindicated by their changing of the male dynamic. However, the time put in to this game is similar, in hindsight, to keeping a social group.
A. Day Game is the easiest route--you do it casually, girls' bitch shields are lower, as they have to act semi-civilized in public--and it helps guys who are good at the gab.
B. Night Game also has volume, but the negativity is also larger--and staying up all night gets more difficult when your ass is grass if you are late to work.