Quote: (03-21-2019 08:06 AM)KnjazMihailo Wrote:
You say, "chemistry". Wtf does that even mean??? Its just some mainstream blue pill bs for normies. The whole concept of love is a scam imho. I'm even tempted to go so far as to say that its a mental illness. Oneitis is a real thing and its something you absolutely need to avoid.
Wait.
Im very aware that in my lifetime theres not ONLY ONE for me, waiting somewhere in the world, looking at the rain on her window and hoping to come across the one that happens to be me.
I know that the same way i could meet "WOMAN 1", marry her and spend most of my life together (before divoce lol), there will always be WOMAN2, WOMAN3, WOMAN4 (and so on up until millions) who can offer me the same, more or less. Theres lot of pussy in the world but you have to filter and when you filter its when you have a harder time finding someone.
Chemistry... dont know how to define it into words. If youve had many relationships, even if they didnt work and you would never repeat with them, you can tell who of those women was better than the others. Everything flowed, you read each others minds, felt more tailor-made for you, gave you better moments. I guess that would help hinting what i mean with chemistry, its an abstract concept deeper than just a physical thing.
Quote: (03-24-2019 12:42 AM)MrLemon Wrote:
The single biggest advice I can give is this: make a specific point of NOT looking for sex. Instead, look for a WIFE. Those are two different ways of looking at women.
Not sure if i follow you.
You mean commit myself to find wife material only and avoid ons girls? Or being clear with them from the beginning?
Isnt the last thing seen as a weakness even on women who want ltr? Like openly declaring that you want love so they know you wont be that much of a challenge.