[BronzedAussie]

I'm a 53yo man who is divorced and new to "game". I have 3 adult children in their 20s. I recently slept with a 26yo, this was the first younger woman I had been with in many years.



Today I was in a department store in the men's suit/business attire section where I spotted the saleswoman/cashier. It is a former friend of my daughter. I'm positive its her and this girls name is Jemma, she's currently 21-22. Basically, my daughter was friends with her in high school but after graduating they simply lost touch, its been about 4 years since I was her. She used to come over to my home and chill with my daughter back in the day.


As I was browsing the clothing me and Jemma made eye-contact from across the room, it was intense for a minute unbroken. She recognised me and had a flirty look on her face.


I then left the store. I'm planning to go back and try my luck.


Can anyone give me advice on how to approach this situation, tactics/game to use and what I should say and do?



Confidence isn't my issue but "game" is.

[Montrose]

You should have opened immediately, hesitation is always bad in day game.

I would just go talk to her (when she is alone), ask how she´s been doing, have 3 minutes small talk, and say ´I have to go but maybe we could have a coffee later to catch up’ then ask for her number.

[TheMaleBrain]

Agreed
Actually having a mutual basis is a good thing. You don't need an opener, since you already have one.

[asdfk]

Troll?

Dont game this woman unless she gave you very strong IOI's in the past. You are new to game so you are likely to fuck it up. Estranged or not, the story of a failed attempt will find its way back to your daughter.

You are likely to fuck it up and hurting your reputation hurts your long term results.

Practice on women you do not know. If you cant seduce women you dont know defenitely do not even try with this one. Find your balls and cold approach.

[TeachNExplore]

I'm sure pursuing an estranged friend of your daughter seems like a good idea in your head. In reality it will probably embarrass your daughter. It is quite weird.

There are other young women out there to game.

[TutorGuina]

^I think BronzedAussie gamed and fucked a young girl from his gym before? This shows he is not some autistic weirdo that could fuck it up so badly as to lose reputation. The fact that he got IOIs from these two broads also shows he's got some attractiveness at least in his niche.

My opinion is go for it, if your daughter complains who cares, you're a single man and allowed to go after what you want. If it was workplace or close relatives then I'd have reservations

[subterfuge]

I say go for it, although it will obviously only work if she's into older men and thinks you're hot.

[Cobra]

BronzedAussie.

I hear you about wanting to game this girl. I'm actually going to just put my thoughts out there for OP to address rather than choose a side. Once these things are considered I may even recommend one side.

How bad can it be if the friend is "estranged?" That's the other point although I don't know what estranged means in this context.

Also this is basic, but what is your vibe OP? What shape are you in? What's your fashion? How are you at chatting with really young women?

Have you cold approached women? You seem to want to stay in your social circle but in your situation maybe expanding is not a bad idea. You need an abundance mentality. Otherwise it will be easy to come across desperate with your daughter's friend.

I would say give this one time. As the other poster said, have 1 - 3 minute conversations with her when you're there once in a while. Don't ask her out. Meanwhile bang other women and I promise you will come across more attractive to her without even trying.

You can do it. Please report back.

(I also hope you're not trolling).

[LINUX]

Sounds like a good story to me.

Ask her to come by and help you sort though your clothes to see what's stylish and what should be thrown out.

All saleswomen call themselves fashion consultants. It makes them feel important.