Ethnicity or you can also say heritage, race, and/or nationality as well.
This is kind of based off of a thread about approaching similar-looking women that a poster made. We debated whether opposites attract is usually the case or if like attracts like, I want to talk a bit more about the former.
I understand that occasionally a cool guy comes along to where girls who might be a bit against interracial dating do it anyway because it is a cool guy. I am not talking about women who happen to end up dating interracially per se, lust happens. What I am talking about are women who refuse to go for men of their own background period.
For some reason, I always felt a bit uneasy about women like this and it does seem like in some cultures this is far more common than in others. While we can blame the men (as society loves doing anyways), I am talking about cases where even if a quality higher value guy of their own race came along these women will reject him regardless. I have rarely met a woman that had this mindset and seemed to be sane, there was often a hunger to popular and a lot of drama involved in their lives in general but my sample size is a lot smaller too.
When it comes to these women there could be possible issues with the father figure growing up which rarely produces a quality woman and in cultures where this is common, it could be that the culture values image, perception, and status far more than normal to where women value that over any pride in their own background.
I would not entertain a serious relationship with a girl that hates men of her own background, it would be a huge red flag for me.
What are your thoughts?
Would you date or marry a girl that hates men of her own background?
This is kind of based off of a thread about approaching similar-looking women that a poster made. We debated whether opposites attract is usually the case or if like attracts like, I want to talk a bit more about the former.
I understand that occasionally a cool guy comes along to where girls who might be a bit against interracial dating do it anyway because it is a cool guy. I am not talking about women who happen to end up dating interracially per se, lust happens. What I am talking about are women who refuse to go for men of their own background period.
For some reason, I always felt a bit uneasy about women like this and it does seem like in some cultures this is far more common than in others. While we can blame the men (as society loves doing anyways), I am talking about cases where even if a quality higher value guy of their own race came along these women will reject him regardless. I have rarely met a woman that had this mindset and seemed to be sane, there was often a hunger to popular and a lot of drama involved in their lives in general but my sample size is a lot smaller too.
When it comes to these women there could be possible issues with the father figure growing up which rarely produces a quality woman and in cultures where this is common, it could be that the culture values image, perception, and status far more than normal to where women value that over any pride in their own background.
I would not entertain a serious relationship with a girl that hates men of her own background, it would be a huge red flag for me.
What are your thoughts?
Would you date or marry a girl that hates men of her own background?