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(01-13-2019 07:06 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

It could be as banal as "he doesn't have tats" or some shit, because of the choices and thirst, women have so many options its like walking past a mile long buffet, turning up all manner of food without really thinking why.

Women MUCH more than men rely on stereotypes and prejudices in early stage attraction.

[mataor]

(01-13-2019 04:52 PM)wonderman Wrote:  

I was just asking for potential reasons why women do not communicate the reason of their disinterest. And I got a lot of interesting answers. Different opinions but I guess we covered most aspects. I guess the future will deliver the answers I am looking for. Will be interesting to too see how A.I. can help in this regard.

Why do you think it is a bad idea to ask women for advise related to personal relationships / love / other women?

Even if the woman were well intended (a big "IF"), she usually would not know what she wants / other woman want; and even if she knew (other big "IF"), it is a moving target, that changes every second, so the information would be useless (kind of quantum mechanics).

[quaker13]

There’s an expression, “you want advice on women, never ask a woman”. That’s all you need to know about the game

[Aenema]

(01-11-2019 02:11 PM)The_e_man Wrote:  

Really guys? Nobody's gonna come out and say it?

These girls are super aware of why they aren't interested in you.
You probably aren't good-looking enough. And most girls will never want to say that to your face (most humans probably). A vague answer with no substance is the polite way of letting you know this.

I think it can also be that the guy just doesn't have that it factor, or charm, but the girl doesn't know how to express this. This is especially true if they went on a date with you in the first place. Looks were OK enough to get him into the door, but the lack of charm killed it. The kind of guys with charm would never ask a woman why shes rejecting him.