Great discussion.
Most people here are making the best of a bad situation. I don’t think there is one reason that makes a women a slut but rather a combination of things. Fundamentally, women were given more power because they are the best consumers. Many reasons were cited in this thread. Modern culture (movies, songs…), media, absentee fathers are just other reasons that can turn a “good” girl into a slut. I also believe that another reason behind the making of sluts is a guy who takes out a girls virginity. She will most likely cheat on her husband when she finds a guy that reminds her of her first guy…
Case in point;
Quote: (07-29-2018 09:43 PM)Nater Wrote:
Last Tuesday I went to a park with a friend of mine there was a bit of music in the background and some stands selling alcohol. As we sat down in a bench, I saw this blonde momma wearing a nice black dress and hoops. I ask my friend if he wants to go speak to her, he says no. I go up and walk close to her to light my cigarette. I make a comment about her earphone kit and tease her. Then, we talked a bit and she tells me that she's waiting for a friend. I switch back the conversation and we talk some more, I start touching her in the arm and she responds well. A few minutes later, her friend shows up, he's not in great shape and geeky. I take her number and text her later. The day after, I text her to come to my flat. At 10pm, she's at my place we're drinking rosee and dancing reggaetton. An hour later, I'm pulling her hair and spanking her ass, she enjoys it...
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Next time we meet, after a couple of glasses of wine she tells me that my accent and my lingo reminded her of a
"friend" that she met a long time ago… I would bet my left nut that the
“friend” in question had taken her virginity.
I also find that the more “successful” I get in bedding women, the less I am attracted to good girls in general. I find it hard to connect with them. I remember this girl in my social circle, I could sense that she was clearly not interested even though I didn’t know why. Back then, I was interested in her because of my lack of options… After months of practise and putting myself out there. We started meeting regularly at a friends over the summer… Over the course of a few night outs, get togethers her attitude had completely changed towards me, she would ask me now to bring her back home. Tells me how we should hang out more blah blah… She’s giggling at my jokes… I’d tease her, her eyes would light up… The thing is, I wasn’t interested in her as I was getting better out there. I found her boring and not good looking now… She was a “good” girl and most probably a virgin back then.
I’d overlooked her based on her looks and the fact that I found her boring. Granted, we’re all automatically attracted to feminine traits and behaviour but is that how we should rate a woman? Probably not, but that is what most of the game literature emphasizes on. We all know that women are biologically programmed to be attracted to men who display psychopathic traits. I’ve learned now to display those traits in appropriate situations, but I know that I won’t turn myself into a complete psychopath 24/7 for the sole purpose of banging more chicks.