[Rushmore]

A late 40es/early 50ies Latina MILF, with a triumphant smile and the body of, well, a late 40es/early 50ies Latina MILF. She is the wife of a restaurant owner of a different nationality, a nice but harmless man. She is giving me massive IOIs, devilish smile, too-long eye contact. Husband works there round the lock, she is helping in the morning shift, 2 children at high school age. I have found her on FB where I have a research profile (not in my real name). She must have been a true stunner 15-20 years ago. Some residual is still there. On the one hand, I want to give her the experience of "still being wanted", by a younger man, on the other hand I would want her do somewhat dominate me (F-sitting, feet play).

1. How do I engineer this? From what the overall picture says, she is happily married, to a nice man. Kids, and all. Why would she? How do I approach?

2. How will bedsheets acrobatics be like? She would be my oldest bang. What do "they" expect? Instagram millenials are all clean shaven down there, but their generation? Anyone who can advise based on own Latina Mom adventures? Are they rather conservative, do they expect rabbit banging with a lot of "miaaaa papiiii" screams, or would they enjoy slutty R-More performing oral school on them for a prolonged time?

Any advice gratefully received, including blind spots.

[Akwesi]

Possible blind spots: you seem to have developed oneitis for a 50-year-old married woman based on IOIs.

[Corinth Arkadin]

(01-01-2019 10:19 AM)Akwesi Wrote:  

Possible blind spots: you seem to have developed oneitis for a 50-year-old married woman based on IOIs.

I think he just wants to bang her, albeit badly.

[Cobra]

Umm

Is she late 40s or early 50s? Which is it?

Maybe that nice and harmless man may not be so harmless if you bang his wife.

Or.. maybe she has some mean family members like Jose or Fernando who would love to trample on your nuts as an evening pastime.

Why don't you bang some younger tail? Your oneitis for a used goods happily married woman will go away without it causing your death or dismemberment.

Just being honest because I want you to live.

[Borges]

1. What kind of relationship do you have with her currently? Do you frequently eat at that restaurant? I'd go there on occasion and be friendly with her. Just talk about anything. Once she knows you by name, you could find a pretext to get her phone number and set something up via text. Or maybe just invite her for coffee if she's giving good IOIs. (Well, maybe not coffee, since she's a restaurant owner). Either way you'll want to be subtle and discreet. That's what she'll be looking for, discretion.

2. If she's an older woman looking for a younger man, I imagine she's bored with her life and wants to spice it up. She's probably looking for "passionate" lovemaking - associated with youth. I.e. wild and raw with some romanticism sprinkled in. But always intense. I doubt she'd be thinking of dominating you but maybe it's something you can talk her into once you have a sexual relationship going on. She'll probably find it very weird. Her generation wasn't as degenerate as ours. Her being Latina shouldn't influence your approach. She's presumably living abroad and married to a foreigner, so by definition she doesn't have an average life story and will deviate from expectations based around stereotypes.

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 10:41 AM)Corinth Arkadin Wrote:  

(01-01-2019 10:19 AM)Akwesi Wrote:  

Possible blind spots: you seem to have developed oneitis for a 50-year-old married woman based on IOIs.

I think he just wants to bang her, albeit badly.

That is right.

1. Yes it seems she is happily married. And yes, it might be the case that I am mistaking her "actions" as "lust driven approach to snare young Rushmore", whereas in reality they are simply Latin American friendliness to which we North Pole inhabitants are unaccustomed to. HOW DO TO PT THE LASSO AROUND HER??

2. I want to bang her, or rather become her temporary licksklave, or whatever. Oneitis, no. But a new, unusual attraction to the Latin Dictator's Wife kind of type. Would you have banged Phylicia Rashād during her Bill Cosby years? Mercedes Ruehl when she was Fraizier's "boss" in the show? What about Selma Hayek at age 58? HOW IS IT LIKE? WHO HAS DONE IT?

A strong case of Señora Robinson hornitis.

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 11:03 AM)Cobra Wrote:  

Umm

Is she late 40s or early 50s? Which is it?

Hard to say. But, to be honest, I guess 52 rather than 48.

Younger looking than this:


But even in this one, you can see what a stunner she most likely has been, and there is still that tiny glimmer.

Maybe like that Kirchner presidente:



Ca. 160-162cm of height.
Ass is good, seen her in jeans. A bit wide, but round, not flat. Boobs typical post-breastfeeding, large and somewhat saggy, but "filled", not like a half-empty air balloon with stripes. Fingers excellently manicured. Teeth gleaming white. Hair in a bun. Dyed, no greys.

On her FB pics, the pics together with her husband are prime "spot the alpha" material (she is the alpha), with textbook lean-ins, her smiling triumphantly at the camera while he is dreamingly glaring at her, etc.

[Jetset]

1) Don't take that guy for granted. If anything is going to happen at all, she expects discretion but might also very well try to use you against him. I've had women intentionally leave their phones unlocked so their boyfriends can find out they're cheating, female dread game is truly godless and Drama Triangles are inherently crazy. This may not be worth it in the end.

2) Women that age are having weird hormone spikes, and their husbands are too, plus they're worn out and resentful from twenty years of navigating her shit tests. She may or may not actually be getting railed properly at all, and the other men her own age are probably mostly getting fat, timid, and tired, and the ones who aren't are banging 25-year-olds. If she's looking for anything, she's looking for a man who acts the way she remembers men acting so she can feel vivacious and desirable and get marathon gorilla-fucked like she used to while her body can still take it.

I went balls-deep on a woman who was about that age when I was 25 before I even realized what had happened. She looked about 30, had DDs, and also a kid my age who I thought was her sister when I saw the picture on the mantle. It was great fun, but she was single by then.

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 11:04 AM)Super Average Man Wrote:  

1. What kind of relationship do you have with her currently? Do you frequently eat at that restaurant? I'd go there on occasion and be friendly with her. Just talk about anything. Once she knows you by name, you could find a pretext to get her phone number and set something up via text. Or maybe just invite her for coffee if she's giving good IOIs. (Well, maybe not coffee, since she's a restaurant owner). Either way you'll want to be subtle and discreet. That's what she'll be looking for, discretion.

2. If she's an older woman looking for a younger man, I imagine she's bored with her life and wants to spice it up. She's probably looking for "passionate" lovemaking - associated with youth. I.e. wild and raw with some romanticism sprinkled in. But always intense. I doubt she'd be thinking of dominating you but maybe it's something you can talk her into once you have a sexual relationship going on. She'll probably find it very weird. Her generation wasn't as degenerate as ours. Her being Latina shouldn't influence your approach. She's presumably living abroad and married to a foreigner, so by definition she doesn't have an average life story and will deviate from expectations based around stereotypes.

Thanks for both!

There isn't much communication, as she is never alone. I am fully aware that discretion is a key factor.

The Take-it-slow approach is a very good tip. I just need to see HOW - as she is never seen alone. I know her car and where she parks it. Maybe engineer some "accidental" thing like "oh, I park here too".

Her husband is relatively good looking and surely could have a younger woman. To me, he comes across as a sort of nice-but-dim man, whereas she seems to be a devil (although that might be my projection). She definitely has something dominant-but-warm about her (projection, projection).

SO: HOW is s*x with a 50+ woman like?? NOONE?

[Hypno]

I have a friend who is 50 who bangs women 55-65. He lives in a resort town where a lot of professional women and divorcees own second homes. He doesn't have to game them, they game him and according to him they are the best fucks he's ever had. This is a guy that gets laid in the top 10% of posters here. So I wouldn't worry about the quality of the fuck or gaming them, you just have to show interest, discretion, and a plan to overcome logistics. The ones my friend bangs exercise, are fit, etc. but of course they are older so they have some wrinkles etc. It doesn't appeal to me so thankfully he spared me the details but you have to assume that women of that generation have a bush, some wrinkles/stretchmarks/cottage cheese dimples, etc. They are also probably less inclined to perform oral on you. On the other hand, he's a freak and they are happy to satisfy him and often buy him gifts, etc.--he could get more but he owns his own business and doesn't do it for gifts.

As far as your situation, you have oneitis. Worse yet she doesn't even know you exist.

If you want to get the bang, first you have to create a relationship, even if you are just the customer that comes in every Tuesday and asks her about the weather. Then you need to return the IOIs, flirt, banter, etc. Then you need to address logistics. A woman with kids in school and a husband will have mornings and early afternoons free. Let her know that you are available at that time.

Finally, consider whether you want to bang a married woman. Personally, I don't have a problem with it from a morality issue but there are many practical issues. First and foremost its just not worth it (to me) to worry about a jealous husband. Second, relationships like this are a type of poison. Long term they are harmful to you. You might feel guilt. Or you might feel shame that she never fully committed to you. There is something similarly mentally unhealthy between banging a married woman and using a prostitute in my opinion, although a lot of men who use prostitutes do so with ample emotional distance. Based on your comments, you don't have any emotional distance at all. [b]I would stay away if I were you.[/b]

[Rushmore]

Hypno, very good points.

I go to that place regularly. I treat all the staff super nicely, and the owner (=husband) has noticed that. He comes and shakes my hand, and other stuff, lots of things which means they have "noticed" me in a good way.

She knows that I exists, as she often makes some extra effort to come and greet me, which I haven't observed with other guests. She tries to make some conversation, which -due to her limited command of my language- she doesn't seem to do with other guests. These kind of little things. Again, maybe Latin warmth and need for human interaction, mistaken for horniness.

As per definition, onenitis is something else, and I had that several times in my life. I am simply turned on by the idea...which idea? Actually being in bed with her? Or rather the idea that I can/could engineer the right strategy?

Good idea about the flirting and banter. Maybe I should brush up my Spanish/Portugiese and see how she reacts on that.

Also thanks for the "morning off" remark. She has actually asked me where I live, although that again was probably just polite conversation.

Last but not least, morals. I have no issues banging someone whose husband I don't know. Here, that man is a very nice guy, and somehow I think he hasn't deserved it.

Maybe a Latina MILF professional would scratch the whole itch?

Then again - she has this super warm/forgiving look in her eyes, and for some reason I am often thinking about the post-bang moment, sheets ruffled, the mini cuddle, all that.

Aahhhhhhhrgh! HELP! Helpos! Helpiosa! Assistance, si vou place! (How do you say "help" in Latinamericanioism??)

[ShuaiGe]

In this scenario, watching the porno of what you want to do will be more satisfying than actually going about doing it. But I wouldn't hold it against you for not taking my advice though,

[Rushmore]

You are so right. So, the porn movie needs to have the right type of Latina (no granny, but also not a 35 year old "MILF"), the right guy (not the pizza delivery guy or gardener, but more like the ageless-with-a-Peter-Pan-complex polished suit guy, mid-level diplomat, stylish but also bookish), the right pace (no absurd rabbit bonking, no weird leg angles, more like a porn-for-women kind of script), with lots of oral and kissing.

[Corinth Arkadin]

(01-01-2019 12:44 PM)Rushmore Wrote:  

You are so right. So, the porn movie needs to have the right type of Latina (no granny, but also not a 35 year old "MILF"), the right guy (not the pizza delivery guy or gardener, but more like the ageless-with-a-Peter-Pan-complex polished suit guy, mid-level diplomat, stylish but also bookish), the right pace (no absurd rabbit bonking, no weird leg angles, more like a porn-for-women kind of script), with lots of oral and kissing.

I'd say leave it alone. It doesn't seem 100% likely, not even 85% likely without some solid gaming, and therefore a waste of your valuable time.

[Rushmore]

Leave what alone? Searching for that movie? Or pursuing her?

[rudebwoy]

I have a lot of respect for men in Russia and the FSU.

They don't touch women over age 30, younger is better.

The MILF thing is some fucked up brainwashing that has polluted the minds of young men in the West.

Married women over 50 should be ignored and left alone.

[Rushmore]

Let me arrange a meeting with my fucked-up brain for you to discuss what it "should" like.

[Deepdiver]

LOL, Gotta love the sass attitude from 3 Rep one star Beta Orbiter "Rushmore" Versus the legendary Rudebwoy 7 Star 119 repped points Innovative Casanova - Just Classic Newbitude. OBTW Am I the only one who was taken aback by RMs comment:

"What do "they" expect? Instagram Millenials are all clean shaven down there, but their generation? Anyone who can advise based on own Latina Mom adventures?"

I thought shaving your balls/crotch was some gay phock fantasy thing?

I only had one GF shave her pussy for my birthday when I was still in the service - was a Novel Phock to be sure - but then had to listen to her bitch about how the bristles scratched her snatch like a porcupine for several weeks after... hell they even scratched my face when I sucked on her clit - did not know "Millenials" were all such blue pilled soy-beta-boyzs...

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 01:48 PM)Deepdiver Wrote:  

"What do "they" expect? Instagram Millenials are all clean shaven down there,

These were two unrelated questions?
What kind of action does a 50+ Latina Milf expect?
Are they clean down there, as many Millenial GIRLS are shaven nowadays.

The réponse to Rudeboy was humourous - he said men "should" not do this and that, and I says he should talk to my weird brain about what it "should" like, as it seems to have a life on its own and is apparently not open for rational arguments. I am sure he can defend himself, by the way.

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 11:22 AM)Rushmore Wrote:  

I really SHOULD not be into this. I know.

Can someone explain the really bizarre attraction??

[Borges]

(01-01-2019 01:55 PM)Rushmore Wrote:  

(01-01-2019 11:22 AM)Rushmore Wrote:  

I really SHOULD not be into this. I know.

Lock up your daughters mothers, Rushmore is in town!

[BlackFriar]

Do it. You will technically be known as "The Mother Fucker."

[Rushmore]

Again, no-one with any, forgive me, "hands-on" experience? Tried the search function but to no avail.

[Caduceus]

OP, the fact that you have started this thread is proof enough you are not going to go through with anything.

You come across as a uber nervous beta in all your posts on this page so far, not a man who is determined and confident to do what it takes to get the bang. If your sexual energy was strong, charged and channeled enough, you would have no need for a thread, and would have already approached her, started flirting and already gone out on a date or 2. Who the fuck cares if she's shaved or not, or how she expects to be bagned...you are supposed to be the man here and take charge.

You have 2 choices now:

1.
Stop posting in this thread, go on a strict NoFap/No Porn regime, and go out and do everything in your power to get your latina MILF bitch naked and into your bed, and then report back once you have some real progress in the matter.

or

2.
Google the latina MILF "Esperanza Gomez" and watch her porn videos.


The choice is yours.

[Rushmore]

(01-01-2019 02:19 PM)Caduceus Wrote:  

2.
Google the latina MILF "Esperanza Gomez" and watch her porn videos.


The choice is yours.

You haven't read my posts. Esperanza is a honey-gold-blonde 30 something. I am more into the Kirchner type. Difference in hair colour, age and superiority.