Considering all the makeup and cosmetic products, filters and everything else women use today to make themselves attractive, you would maybe think that women would not care so much if a guy portrayed himself as little more attractive in some kind of way. But that doesn't seem to be the case, women almost seem to despise these men more than anything else.
Do you agree and why do you think that is?
How would you explain this behaviour then and just this absurd rage women have on men that just try to portray themselves a bit more attractive?
I'm mostly interested in if you guys believe there's an evolutionary reason to this?
I can also give a few examples myself:
1 One girl I am currently dating has admitted to me that she's very rude to most men. At nightclubs she has often just told guys to fuck off if she has sensed any weakness in them in some kind of way when they've walked up to hit on her and told them things like she doesn't date small boys.
She has told me a couple of times how much she hated when weak men were trying to hit on her and just felt disgusted.
Thing is, I noticed this too a lot in the beginning with other women. They would be very polite at first until I got a little insecure and they could become hostile even though we could have had a friendly and flirty chat for half an hour.
2 Women's hate on manspreading in public places. Rollo Tomassi made this point how manspreading is just bullshit since women take up more place in public with their handbags and this:
"The answer is simple; women despise men they perceive as Beta displaying themselves in Alpha body language. Manspreading is uniquely male. Women’s subconscious perceive this as men displaying sexual opportunity, but women’s hindbrain filter for Hypergamy."
He means it's a bit of an alpha pose and if we look at this video who went viral with women pouring water on men who were manspreading in public, most of them didn't look that scary or "alpha".
3 The reality show Joe Millionaire had a spin off in my country as well back in the early 2000s.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Millionaire#Premise
Basically, they fooled some women into believing that they were competing for this super rich guy driving Lambos, when in fact he was just a regular Joe working in a taco factory. He did a few classic "fuckboy things" like organizing a make out competition between them and stuff like that but they all praised him.
But even as a kid, I remember just the astounding amount of rage towards him when they revealed the truth about him, even though he was forced by the producers to lie about his wealth.
4 From own experience in nightclub environment, I've had girls that first seemed very into me as I looked very cocky and probably a bit of a badboy vibe. They were flirting and giving and very friendly.
Then I just happened to get rejected by some girl in there and then all the previous girl (who had given me great response earlier) would act hostile and very cold and I would have zero luck there after that.
Same shit when some girls have realized inside clubs that the table with bottle service we were sitting at wasn't actually my own.
5 I know women who have told me about guys who have lied about their height with an inch or two on their online dating profile and the girls have talked about these guys as they were the biggest scums on earth and have less right to live than rapists.
Do you agree and why do you think that is?
How would you explain this behaviour then and just this absurd rage women have on men that just try to portray themselves a bit more attractive?
I'm mostly interested in if you guys believe there's an evolutionary reason to this?
I can also give a few examples myself:
1 One girl I am currently dating has admitted to me that she's very rude to most men. At nightclubs she has often just told guys to fuck off if she has sensed any weakness in them in some kind of way when they've walked up to hit on her and told them things like she doesn't date small boys.
She has told me a couple of times how much she hated when weak men were trying to hit on her and just felt disgusted.
Thing is, I noticed this too a lot in the beginning with other women. They would be very polite at first until I got a little insecure and they could become hostile even though we could have had a friendly and flirty chat for half an hour.
2 Women's hate on manspreading in public places. Rollo Tomassi made this point how manspreading is just bullshit since women take up more place in public with their handbags and this:
"The answer is simple; women despise men they perceive as Beta displaying themselves in Alpha body language. Manspreading is uniquely male. Women’s subconscious perceive this as men displaying sexual opportunity, but women’s hindbrain filter for Hypergamy."
He means it's a bit of an alpha pose and if we look at this video who went viral with women pouring water on men who were manspreading in public, most of them didn't look that scary or "alpha".
3 The reality show Joe Millionaire had a spin off in my country as well back in the early 2000s.
https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Joe_Millionaire#Premise
Basically, they fooled some women into believing that they were competing for this super rich guy driving Lambos, when in fact he was just a regular Joe working in a taco factory. He did a few classic "fuckboy things" like organizing a make out competition between them and stuff like that but they all praised him.
But even as a kid, I remember just the astounding amount of rage towards him when they revealed the truth about him, even though he was forced by the producers to lie about his wealth.
4 From own experience in nightclub environment, I've had girls that first seemed very into me as I looked very cocky and probably a bit of a badboy vibe. They were flirting and giving and very friendly.
Then I just happened to get rejected by some girl in there and then all the previous girl (who had given me great response earlier) would act hostile and very cold and I would have zero luck there after that.
Same shit when some girls have realized inside clubs that the table with bottle service we were sitting at wasn't actually my own.
5 I know women who have told me about guys who have lied about their height with an inch or two on their online dating profile and the girls have talked about these guys as they were the biggest scums on earth and have less right to live than rapists.