Quote: (11-21-2018 06:23 PM)jacknap Wrote:
Quote: (11-21-2018 05:07 PM)Mess O. Wrote:
Quote: (11-19-2018 09:42 AM)MarsBlacc Wrote:
Quote: (11-18-2018 09:36 PM)Axel99 Wrote:
That they dont like? I mean I've had lots of passionate makeout sessions with girls in bars and dancefloors that never respond to my messages. I dont understand why they even bother to makeout with me if they dont like me enough to even respond? Is it just a spur of the moment thing, right place right time?..also most of the girls aren't even drunk so it's not the alcohol. Anyone else have the same issues.
Because it's safe and fun. You don't have to confirm because it's just a makeout. Don't take it personally. Girls want to be stimulated when they go out. They'll make out with multiple guys sometimes. It's just their nature in the west.
You're better off not taking this personally because it's going to eat at you. This has nothing to do with you personally. Just better your game and treat it like a business. You lose some girls, you win some.
Shit, I thought MarsBlacc was gonna make it places here. Shows where my judge of character's at. I liked a few of his earliest posts, but I see he ultimately took a turn.
I know mars personally and he has great game and insights. I think mods need to chill out on the ban hammer because tons of really good guys are getting booted out. eg) Mars, greekkamaki, satori
Well if you know him personally get him to re-enrol under a different name (allowed I presume?) and not make the same mistake I see most of those who get banned here make:
Allied to whatever opinion/ information/ tips they wish to impart is a subtle/not-so-subtle/explicit/implicit communication that they are this great person (or veteran/expert/personality/teacher/whatever.)
Then they take any contradiction to be that someone is saying that they aren't this great person that people should see that they are.
Then they get moody and personal about arguments over what stock to invest in or how to transition from a kiss close to a bang etc.
Its like identity politics. I'm having a row with a chick on fb about Scottish politics and out of nowhere she starts saying "Well maybe you don't know this about me but.. I'm a French Algerian..! and my family! and my people!"
I don't know how the moderators arrive at their decisions.
But people's opinions should stand or fall by the arguments made not who they are.
When I see them start taking these things personally or arguing for the fact that they are this great player/ person- whatever- then I can almost see the ban hammer materialise on the screen.
I don't know if this helps.
(Feel free to disagree of course >> and then I can chuck a huge shit-fit about who I am and my credentials etc.
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