[UlugBeg]

Was thoroughly blue pilled beta until my recent divorce. I’ve since embraced The Red (& some Black) pill discarded beta/blue & working on my alpha. However, I’m on the verge of getting with this girl whom I not only find physicals & sexualy attractive. But I genuinely like her and am very fond of her. I find myself going back to my beta ways. Though I know it is poison (killed my marriage). I know in my mind not to beta her,but I’m having a hard time doing anything else. Right now I think I still have a bit
of time before she sees me as a true beta,but time is not on my side. Any ideas on how I can pull out of the beta death spiral & get my alpha on?

[Rocha]

Just be yourself. If she loves you, she will like who you are on the inside.

[RatInTheWoods]

This is one of the hardest things I struggle with.

If I "just be myself" it will dry the pussy and she will bang the pool cleaner on the sly.

I have to remember to stop being nice, act the asshole and generally mistreat her to remain interesting to her. This goes against my nature and is difficult to maintain.

Probably why I can't keep a LTR going past a year or two.

[Hegemon1984]

(03-01-2019 08:30 PM)RatInTheWoods Wrote:  

This is one of the hardest things I struggle with.

If I "just be myself" it will dry the pussy and she will bang the pool cleaner on the sly.

I have to remember to stop being nice, act the asshole and generally mistreat her to remain interesting to her. This goes against my nature and is difficult to maintain.

Probably why I can't keep a LTR going past a year or two.

I don't know, Rat.

I'm practicing direct, natural game and I like it. I suppose you can call me "purple pilled", as I believe in being the best version of myself, and you're right, trying to be someone you're not is immensely difficult. In a matter of fact, I tried indirect game on a few girls and I found it far more difficult than expressing my true intentions.

[debeguiled]

Excellent thread title.

Solutions to beta recidivism:

Convert 80% of friend zone facilities into alpha mindset programs.

Implement universal pre-release programs for all offenders.

Ensure access to publicly funded programs for sex addiction and oneitis treatment upon release.

Install "No-Fap App" on all phones which initiates a cascade of motivational memes whenever an attempt is made to access pornography.

Inner eyelid tattoos (Left eye: Never explain/Right eye: Never apologize) So proper mindset is reinforced every time client blinks.

Free medical procedure for subdermal microphone/taser that shocks client every time he compliments a woman on her appearance.


(It's all out there. Just troll penal system recidivism studies and replace with game terminology as needed.)

[FullThrottleTX]

(03-01-2019 04:07 PM)UlugBeg Wrote:  

Was thoroughly blue pilled beta until my recent divorce. I’ve since embraced The Red (& some Black) pill discarded beta/blue & working on my alpha. However, I’m on the verge of getting with this girl whom I not only find physicals & sexualy attractive. But I genuinely like her and am very fond of her. I find myself going back to my beta ways. Though I know it is poison (killed my marriage). I know in my mind not to beta her,but I’m having a hard time doing anything else. Right now I think I still have a bit
of time before she sees me as a true beta,but time is not on my side. Any ideas on how I can pull out of the beta death spiral & get my alpha on?

Recent divorce means you're going to have to navigate the muddy waters of dating without resorting to using the L word. You're fragile and need some kind of validation. You're going to have to toughen up. I've been there, I know. The first couple notches for you will be an exercise in emotional restraint. Try not to get too excited about them otherwise you'll make a big mistake. I know guys who habitually get down on one knee and surrender after too little time being single. I chose early on not to be one of those guys. I'm definitely better off...

Just remember: You're not really fond of anyone. The worst position to be in IMO is being really fond of someone. At best, they don't bother you too much. I spent two years with a girl telling her, "You know, you really don't bother me that much." - that was about as much as she got from me...