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Doing cold approaches or 1st-2nd date feedback
11-03-2018, 05:45 PM
Say I take a woman out or I am doing a cold approach and I get shut down for whatever reason it may be, what's everyones general consensus on getting feedback on exactly what it was/said/etc after you've already been turned down to get a critique on what to improve on in future cold approaches and/or dates?
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Doing cold approaches or 1st-2nd date feedback
11-03-2018, 11:38 PM
He's talking about asking the girl for feedback.
I personally have never done it, but I'd say it doesn't hurt. Both Blackdragon and Austen Summers recommend this.
The problem is you're unlikely to get any good answers because most women are scared to give honest feedback, even when directly asked for it.
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Doing cold approaches or 1st-2nd date feedback
11-04-2018, 12:25 AM
I've done it. The few honest and spot on answers are not really worth the 10s and 20s of clueless or dishonest ones to the un-initiated. These kind of questions ironically become more useful when you know a bit more game and can read in-between the lines or use it as tactic to narrow down and deduce performance based issues.
Women don't really know what they want, they just know when their pussy gets wet. I find very few people but especially women are self-aware enough to discern their true motives to any given choice they make.
It's the difference between
he wasn't handsome enough
And
He wasn't handsome enough to get away with all of the weird faux paus he made plus he looks like a creepy uncle I had as a kid but have deeply internalized since, or I would have banged him.
The noise to signal ratio will be pretty high but if you can keep your head on straight and ego in check it can be useful. I advise posting your results on the forum to help
