[hwrec]

I only recently turned 21 and virtually every date I've been on at campus has been a coffee shop which is bad for many reasons (http://www.rooshv.com/say-no-to-coffee-dates)

I've been talking to this one girl on Tinder and it's been going well, wanna arrange a date but she's 20 so bars are out of the question. I really don't want to do a coffee date and my campus doesn't really have any scenic places to go to. I do have a car but it's gonna be pretty cold this week so I don't know if she'd be down for a walk in the park or some shit like that.

[pravda]

I'm a senior in college and when I go out with a girl under 21 I usually grab coffee around 7/8pm then go and grab ice cream. On the way to the ice cream shop I'll put my arm around her to gauge how comfortable she is, and if she doesn't react negatively I go for the makeout. After ice cream I suggest we chill at my place, and sex is pretty much guaranteed once she's inside.

[redbeard]

Are there no bars that let minors in?

Worst case just invite her straight to your place:

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[Spectrumwalker]

Might I suggest to a lawyers office. Or perhaps to a notary official.

[BadBoyGamer]

I have this habit of taking girls to places like McDonalds. I'd buy myself a milkshake and give her the great oppurtunity to buy one herself as well. I'd sit down, relax and consider my milkshake the most important thing in the world.

[Sombro]

For Chrissake, in this day and age dates should be off campus.

[Professor When]

(10-17-2018 07:51 PM)Sombro Wrote:  

For Chrissake, in this day and age dates should be off campus.

Why exactly? Does it have anything to do with avoiding crazy college women that throw out a title IX for no reason? Or something else?

Seriously. I have had a few decent dates just walking around campus with some coffee and people watching.

[Sombro]

(10-17-2018 09:00 PM)Professor When Wrote:  

(10-17-2018 07:51 PM)Sombro Wrote:  

For Chrissake, in this day and age dates should be off campus.

Why exactly? Does it have anything to do with avoiding crazy college women that throw out a title IX for no reason? Or something else?

Seriously. I have had a few decent dates just walking around campus with some coffee and people watching.

That shit's fine (I've done it myself — I live in a SEC town), but if you want to escalate just take it off campus.

I'm honestly trying not to be an alarmist — my campus had many make-out spots of which I enjoyed that weren't exactly a secret but nowadays young guys can't be too careful.

[Professor When]

(10-17-2018 09:40 PM)Sombro Wrote:  

(10-17-2018 09:00 PM)Professor When Wrote:  

(10-17-2018 07:51 PM)Sombro Wrote:  

For Chrissake, in this day and age dates should be off campus.

Why exactly? Does it have anything to do with avoiding crazy college women that throw out a title IX for no reason? Or something else?

Seriously. I have had a few decent dates just walking around campus with some coffee and people watching.

That shit's fine (I've done it myself — I live in a SEC town), but if you want to escalate just take it off campus.

I'm honestly trying not to be an alarmist — my campus had many make-out spots of which I enjoyed that weren't exactly a secret but nowadays young guys can't be too careful.

Oh yeah, I had some bitch try to title IX my ass after I blew her off when she gave me the "I have a boyfriend" bullshit. Thank god I recorded it when I told her that I'm not interested anymore and left.


So what are the logistics of this? I started meeting girls around campus because a lot of them don't have a car and they are reluctant to take a bus to meet in town. I don't want to offer to chauffeur them around and I felt I was losing some potential dates by insisting on meeting in town.