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If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?
#26

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

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Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?
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#27

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

I would not recommend it.

Bitches love Gucci but as a Uni student it will come across as too much, and is not worth the money. Take advantage of being 20, when nobody really gives a fuck whether you wear name brands (I'd argue that people rarely care in general, but especially at your age).

I would get some Clark's or another brand of nicer boots (Thursday is a good brand though not sure they ship to UK). Even Allen Edmonds. That will help you stand out way above the competition without spending $700 on Gucci loafers.
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#28

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-11-2018 03:27 PM)RDF Wrote:  

I would not recommend it.

Bitches love Gucci but as a Uni student it will come across as too much, and is not worth the money. Take advantage of being 20, when nobody really gives a fuck whether you wear name brands (I'd argue that people rarely care in general, but especially at your age).

I would get some Clark's or another brand of nicer boots (Thursday is a good brand though not sure they ship to UK). Even Allen Edmonds. That will help you stand out way above the competition without spending $700 on Gucci loafers.

Already got them mate. My target girls are the Asians who always wear Gucci, so it signals their attention. I also have ones from Zara that are decent, I've normally been wearing trainers for nights out but I'm thinking I'll leave the Gucci loafers in pristine condition for special occasions. I have a lot of money saved from working my a$$ off the past two years in a logistics business so I could afford to splurge.
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#29

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-11-2018 01:56 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

[Image: tumblr_pgg792v1g61sqg6ojo1_640.png]

Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?

Those shoes scream 'nice guy provider beta boy'.

These shoes are the shoes to wear when you want to impress your mother. It tells her that you are a good boy. She will be very proud on your excellent female centric taste. No girl however will look at you and think you are a sexual being. At best you look like you might be a good provider able to pay and give advice on her shoes.

A pair of old dirty Nike running shoes will be ten times better then this. That is how bad these shoes are. Throw 'em away! You do not want to wear these even when dead.
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My target girls are the Asians who always wear Gucci, so it signals their attention.

No it does not. Are you a girl? No! Then do not act like a girl.

I am sorry for being this harsh. Look at the shoes strong masculine actors wear to get an idea of what kind of shoes you should wear.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#30

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-11-2018 01:56 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?

By all means wear them during the day at your lectures etc.

But I wouldn't wear them out on a night out.
If your uni clubs are anything like mine them shoes will get ruined. People stepping on them, people spilling drinks on them etc. Better to just wear a pair that will get you in the club but don't mind getting ruined
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#31

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-06-2018 11:08 AM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

I've just started university and for fresher night I've been clubbing every night for the past 8 days, as the title reads yes I'm a virgin (20, UK) and I've always been hopeless with girls. The past week I've been able to get make-out sessions with some girls and it's really helped bolster my confidence now I'm feeling sooner or late I'm going to have to learn to close to seal the deal.

It's a pretty small town so hitting the same clubs more or less means I see some of the same girls and build a rapport with them. I'm pretty much going by myself as most of the people in university flats are not interested in gaming or approaching girls. I'm just trying to train myself to approach as many girls as possible and get used to rejections.

I'm thinking I should just keep going out every-night and eventually it should happen and once that happens I can finally say I'm no longer a virgin. I'm enjoying it because my preference is for Asian girls and there are lots of Asian students here.

First off, welcome to the forum.

You'll find all sorts of advice here, some more helpful than others. Not because a lot of people here give bad advice, but rather some people have different goals in life than you and others have a hard time putting themselves into your (Gucci) shoes.

Second, do not be ashamed that you're a virgin. It's normal. It takes a combination of skill, intent, and luck to lose your virginity. Being a virgin does not make you less of a man just like your height 5'7" does not make you less of a man. I'm 5'7" and I'm no virgin, so don't think it'll prevent you from getting some either. I was in your shoes 7 years ago, and I still have a ways to go before I reach my goal. In the beginning, all I wanted was to lose my virginity and then to sleep with as many women as possible to get enough experience that I could consider myself amongst the ranks of 'experienced' men. That's since lost its lustre, but I digress.

My advice to you is several things:

1) If you do go out at night, go out with friends and focus solely on trying to enjoy yourself. If you go to clubs and don't enjoy them, stop going.

2) Figure out what kind of look you want, and slowly build your wardrobe to reflect that. If you feel good because you look good the way you want, it will reflect in your demeanor and how people receive you.

3) Same thing with working out. Either work towards a specific goal or just get a little better shape and definition on you. You'll look better and feel better (and how you comport yourself will be more attractive to women than how you actually look). As long as you're comfortable being naked, you'll be fine.

4) One of the best pieces of advice my brother gave me when I was starting out was to do something I like and invite girls to do it with me. I chose action dates - playing pool, ice skating, kayaking, rock climbing, go karting, you name it. The important thing was that I enjoyed what I was doing and either the girl added to the experience or I enjoyed it enough that I hardly noticed the girl being sub-par.

Girls are simple like children. You don't actually have to plan out elaborate dates or dance like a clown at a club to get them to appreciate your company. Just a little original thought. Even something as simple as going for a walk in the park or having a picnic ("It's a beautiful day, I'm going to have a picnic in the park. Join me.") are great first dates. If you really have to buy the girl something, get her an ice cream cone on a hot day (and take a few bites of her ice cream).

5) If you're starting out, telling if a girl likes you or if you can touch seem like daunting, insurmountable tasks, but they're not. The signs were always there, you were just never taught how to read them. When it comes to touching them, try the "kino ladder", the only piece of PUA advice I still use.

6) Among the hardest things to figure out is when to kiss the girl, or when she wants to kiss you. I figured it out February 2012 when I was at a midwinter formal dance. I noticed my date was looking me straight in the eyes with a slight smile and I couldn't for the life of me figure out what was going in her head. "What the hell is she looking at?" I thought before the lightbulb turned on and I started kissing her.

Don't be afraid to go for the kiss even if you aren't 100% sure. Girls will respect you more for a miss than never even trying.

7) Remember above all that men and women are different. What men like in women (youth, fertility, pleasantness, gaiety, home-ec skills. resilience) are different from what women like in men (strength, character, self-control, backbone, passion, desire). It's difficult to put one's self into a woman's shoes and you don't have to if you remember that they respond to different things than men respond to. Women may not make sense to you and neither may their actions. But don't ever think they don't act within the bounds of logic. Their logic is different than the one men use. It may not make sense to you, but it makes sense to them as they have different priorities. Women will not love you like you love them. Women's love for men resembles one man's respect for another. Whereas a man's love for a woman resembles a woman's love for her child.

8) Don't work too hard to understand women. Work hard to understand yourself. Figure out who you want to be. Write a list of all the qualities either you don't have but need or all the qualities you have that hold you back from being the man you were born to be. Then take chisel to that virgin block of marble and start chipping away.

Besides. Women understand women and they hate each other.

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#32

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-11-2018 04:51 PM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2018 01:56 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

[Image: tumblr_pgg792v1g61sqg6ojo1_640.png]

Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?

Those shoes scream 'nice guy provider beta boy'.

These shoes are the shoes to wear when you want to impress your mother. It tells her that you are a good boy. She will be very proud on your excellent female centric taste. No girl however will look at you and think you are a sexual being. At best you look like you might be a good provider able to pay and give advice on her shoes.

A pair of old dirty Nike running shoes will be ten times better then this. That is how bad these shoes are. Throw 'em away! You do not want to wear these even when dead.
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My target girls are the Asians who always wear Gucci, so it signals their attention.

No it does not. Are you a girl? No! Then do not act like a girl.

I am sorry for being this harsh. Look at the shoes strong masculine actors wear to get an idea of what kind of shoes you should wear.

You sure because people pretty much salivate over Gucci around here? I always thought of a loafer as a sartorial icon of masculinity pull it off with a suit and accessories and I'm sure it looks James Bond-esque badass
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#33

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

They're stylish shoes but also flashy. So I'd suggest wearing them with simple clothes. Make them the highlight of your outfit.

Quote: (10-11-2018 06:42 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2018 04:51 PM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2018 01:56 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

[Image: tumblr_pgg792v1g61sqg6ojo1_640.png]

Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?

Those shoes scream 'nice guy provider beta boy'.

These shoes are the shoes to wear when you want to impress your mother. It tells her that you are a good boy. She will be very proud on your excellent female centric taste. No girl however will look at you and think you are a sexual being. At best you look like you might be a good provider able to pay and give advice on her shoes.

A pair of old dirty Nike running shoes will be ten times better then this. That is how bad these shoes are. Throw 'em away! You do not want to wear these even when dead.
Quote:Quote:

My target girls are the Asians who always wear Gucci, so it signals their attention.

No it does not. Are you a girl? No! Then do not act like a girl.

I am sorry for being this harsh. Look at the shoes strong masculine actors wear to get an idea of what kind of shoes you should wear.

You sure because people pretty much salivate over Gucci around here? I always thought of a loafer as a sartorial icon of masculinity pull it off with a suit and accessories and I'm sure it looks James Bond-esque badass

Treat any relationship like you're Bill Murray in 'Ground Hog's Day'

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#34

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-11-2018 06:42 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2018 04:51 PM)BadBoyGamer Wrote:  

Quote: (10-11-2018 01:56 PM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

Update: haven't been out since last Saturday taking on board everything that has been said but thinking of taking this weekend off too and working to earn back some money as I've spent far too much.

What is your opinion on these shoes?:

[Image: tumblr_pgg792v1g61sqg6ojo1_640.png]

Will it help elevate me above the guys wearing worn-out Vans and Adidas?

Those shoes scream 'nice guy provider beta boy'.

These shoes are the shoes to wear when you want to impress your mother. It tells her that you are a good boy. She will be very proud on your excellent female centric taste. No girl however will look at you and think you are a sexual being. At best you look like you might be a good provider able to pay and give advice on her shoes.

A pair of old dirty Nike running shoes will be ten times better then this. That is how bad these shoes are. Throw 'em away! You do not want to wear these even when dead.
Quote:Quote:

My target girls are the Asians who always wear Gucci, so it signals their attention.

No it does not. Are you a girl? No! Then do not act like a girl.

I am sorry for being this harsh. Look at the shoes strong masculine actors wear to get an idea of what kind of shoes you should wear.

You sure because people pretty much salivate over Gucci around here? I always thought of a loafer as a sartorial icon of masculinity pull it off with a suit and accessories and I'm sure it looks James Bond-esque badass

Don't listen to the 18 post no-rep bad boy over there. Those loafers are fucking awesome. I'd wear them without socks under dress pants or a suit.

I do own a bunch of $1k+ Prada sneakers and loafers. As with any other status symbol, they don't necessarily translate into bangs, but they nevertheless signal high value so as long as they won't put a dent in your budget, why not. (Though I did get 1 bang mainly thanks to my American Express platinum card when I whipped it out to cut coke at an after party lol)

If you wear them and act like beta bucks you'll be taken as beta bucks. Same rule as fedoras; wear them like you don't give a fuck

“Our great danger is not that we aim too high and fail, but that we aim too low and succeed.” ― Rollo Tomassi
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#35

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

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You sure because people pretty much salivate over Gucci around here?
People salivate over pretty much eveyhting that is expensive, shiny and has a recognoizable brand name. Does not mean you should do the same. Do not think for a second that buying all this crap will do anything good for you (like getting you laid). A pair of pink bunny slippers wil at least make people laugh.

And again about these shoes; James Bond would never wear shoes like these. His badly dressed enemies might. Go look at the kind of shoes Bond actually wears. Or the shoes those actors actually wear. Google "daniel craig shoes".

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loafer as a sartorial icon of masculinity
It is not. It is feminine.

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suit and accessories and I'm sure it looks James Bond-esque badass
James Bond looks badass because he is played by a masculine actor who would look badass even when wearing a pink dress. You however are not James Bond and are not a Daniel Craig. You will look like a cute christmas tree when trying to dress like 007.

Again do a google search on shoes cool actors wear to get an idea what is masculine and what is not.

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I do own a bunch of $1k+ Prada sneakers and loafers. As with any other status symbol, they don't necessarily translate into bangs, but they nevertheless signal high value
No they do not signal high value. They signal you are clueless.

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Don't listen to the 18 post no-rep bad boy over there.
Yes. Only 18 posts. What a loser I must be.

Only three ways to do something: "The right way. The wrong way. Or my way. Obviously my way is best."
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#36

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James Bond wears Crockett and Jones, which I also have a pair of. Very well made high status shoes. Same with Carmina, Edward Green, Enzo Bonafe, etc.. women of high value notice those kinds of shoes, not garbage like prada and gucci. Unless you like trashy women then sure, wear those garbage ass loafers. I usually see them on fobs and other clueless PUA douches.
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#37

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Dirty Nikes will not let you into a steakhouse, a lounge, maybe a place that has happy hours but not even Flemings.

I like the loafers but the yuge Gucci logo screams poser too much. Get some ferragamo ones. Real rich ppl wear the high-level shit that doesn't have logos.

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#38

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-06-2018 09:10 PM)DarkTriad Wrote:  

20 year old virgin is a lot more common than you think

Some studies say as much as 1 in 5 men are virgins at 21 and 1 in 3 at 18, while this study says as much as 1 in 8 of all 26 years olds (men and women) are virgins. As we all know, the majority of those virgins would be men.

My point with this is to make you understand that being a "late virgin" in today's fucked up climate is well within the norm and you should not force the issue neglecting the rest of your life.

As for the question asked, if you're in university, certainly there are lots of parties there right? It's an infinitely superior scene to clubbing, much better logistics wise as well and much cheaper.
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#39

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Quote: (10-06-2018 11:08 AM)The British Bulldog Wrote:  

I've just started university and for fresher night I've been clubbing every night for the past 8 days, as the title reads yes I'm a virgin (20, UK) and I've always been hopeless with girls. The past week I've been able to get make-out sessions with some girls and it's really helped bolster my confidence now I'm feeling sooner or late I'm going to have to learn to close to seal the deal.

It's a pretty small town so hitting the same clubs more or less means I see some of the same girls and build a rapport with them. I'm pretty much going by myself as most of the people in university flats are not interested in gaming or approaching girls. I'm just trying to train myself to approach as many girls as possible and get used to rejections.

I'm thinking I should just keep going out every-night and eventually it should happen and once that happens I can finally say I'm no longer a virgin. I'm enjoying it because my preference is for Asian girls and there are lots of Asian students here.

Easy there 'Eager McBeaver'. Before you learn how to walk you must learn how to crawl and before you learn how to pull girls from the club, you must learn how to attract and pipe-down girls from your social circle(like someone stated above).

Make outs are good for the momentum, but it's all in vain if the net result isn't a notch on the old belt - so don't get cocky because a drunk slag sucked faced with you for few seconds.

Sounds like you're a motivated young man, that's not afraid to get his hands dirty; you're bound to get your first conquest in due time. Good luck to ya.
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#40

If I'm a virgin do you recommend clubbing every night?

Like someone else recommended, join a Muay Thai class. Once I started taking boxing/BJJ/muaythai I was 110% more confident in myself than I was before I started. I started at the age of 12, lost virginity right when I was turning 13 and I kept doing the pair of fighting skills all throughout middle school and high school. I HIGHLY recommend it, seriously it will boost your confidence after you're first 6 months after you got your footwork down okay and you can throw punchs/kicks and roll around and put people in chokes easy(plus some bitchs like that shit bro). Anyways that's my .02 for you. Good luck. I don't understand this late virginity loosing stuff but then again I had close to 40+ notches and 2 LTR's in highschool (one for 2 years and one for 5 years which I cheated on her a million times but she would never leave me even though she was pretty fuckin hot but bitchs like a asshole). One time I was fucking this girl and I had been trying to get her to do a threesome with her best friend (I was 16-17) and she said I had to wait 3 months which I never got the threesome because she found out eventually I was fucking her best friend all the time which completely REKT their friendship lol

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