[finalstep]

I'm visiting Manila and BKK in November and was about to start pipelining. I signed up on fillipino cupid and within 2 days (I haven't even paid for the membership yet) got literally 70 messages. I looked up reviews on the sites and there're a lot of people saying they use fake accounts with bots messaging you to promote getting paid membership, and that there're also tons of scammers on there. Are those 70 messages likely fakes? My pictures look good and I typically do very well on tinder, etc but that just seems extreme.

For those who actually used the paid version of those sites has this been your experience. Are they worth it? I used thaifriendly on my last bkk trip and it worked very well, but I read on a couple pua blogs that they recommended these sites, but what I saw does seem shady. Just wanted to get some feedback here before I pay up.

[zamfir112]

a few years ago those sites where legit. now 80% are p4p scammers or ugly girls that you don't want to date..

[finalstep]

(10-01-2018 10:05 AM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

a few years ago those sites where legit. now 80% are p4p scammers or ugly girls that you don't want to date..

Damn...are there better alternatives for phillipines (pina love, cherry blossoms)? Is thai friendly site still legit?

[kinjutsu]

Most of those SE asia dating sites are scams. P4p and ugly girls like stated earlier as well as chances to scam/rob naive foreigners. As in they set you up and her male friends put a gun or knife in your face to take your money/phone/watch/passport.
Your best bet is Tinder out there.

[finalstep]

In SE asia? Tbat sounds more like a Brazil type thing. I've spent a lot of time in SE asia and never felt threatened

[kinjutsu]

A friend of mine (not on the forum or into red pill) Recently came back from the Philippines and had a couple of close calls using that site to meet some girls.
He said he didn't care if they were p4p but it was scary for him.

[finalstep]

(10-02-2018 05:02 AM)kinjutsu Wrote:  

A friend of mine (not on the forum or into red pill) Recently came back from the Philippines and had a couple of close calls using that site to meet some girls.
He said he didn't care if they were p4p but it was scary for him.

Well yea I guess Phillippines are a lot more dangerous than most of SE Asia, but p4p is a big difference. I think if you just have them meet you at a hotel or a large place and pull back to your own place only you'll be fine. I wouldn't go meeting a girl in her apartment or something (ok did once in Taipei, but she was really hot so...).

[finalstep]

(10-01-2018 10:05 AM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

a few years ago those sites where legit. now 80% are p4p scammers or ugly girls that you don't want to date..

if 20% of girls on a dating website do not fit into those 3 categories that's a great site though. 20% of girls being fuckable? That doesn't even happen in real life.

[zamfir112]

20% for me.im tall , good looking, in can get matches in most of europe and the west except scandinavia and some parts of US ..
Im pretty sure the rate is much lower for a average looking dude.

[RatInTheWoods]

First meeting at your hotel lobby with security, tell her you have heard about robberies in the Philippines.

Also logistics are great if you like her its a short walk upstairs to the bang.

[Roardog]

(10-02-2018 02:53 AM)finalstep Wrote:  

In SE asia? Tbat sounds more like a Brazil type thing. I've spent a lot of time in SE asia and never felt threatened

Philippines has a huge amount of violent crime and robbing unwary foreigners is not uncommon.
However if you stay to upmarket areas, places that are well lit and plenty of other people around you will be OK. Just don't go back to a girls place, always take them to yours.

As others have said Tinder is your best bet. Those dating sites are just P4P and ugly girls. Even the girls who don't say they are P4P may ask you for money once back in your hotel room.

[zamfir112]

Tinder is garbage.i do not do online anymore.the quality is bad and the attitudes are rough.either be brave and day game or prepare to settle for 3s and 4s

[finalstep]

(10-03-2018 07:01 AM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

Tinder is garbage.i do not do online anymore.the quality is bad and the attitudes are rough.either be brave and day game or prepare to settle for 3s and 4s

I disagree with that. I online game a lot, 9 and 10s you won't pull from a dating site for the most part (I have on a couple rare occasions), but 7-8 in Asia for a white guy is quite common. Don't get me wrong I had plenty of girls that looked like an 8 in pictures turn up as 5s in person, but 3-4 not if you do some research first.

Nothing against day game, but there is real value to pipelining before a long trip. If your goal is to get laid daily, you wanna have girls vetted before you get there otherwise it's just too much effort.

[zamfir112]

Finalstep i disagree Even those 5s and 6s wich is the best you can get require solid game and effort.a few years ago (before 2013) those could come straight to your room with minimal effort.

7 and 8s? Hah good luck, theres very few, even if they reply or match with you they have stuck up attitudes and will require multiple dates , basically the same as the west

[finalstep]

(10-03-2018 04:22 PM)zamfir112 Wrote:  

Finalstep i disagree Even those 5s and 6s wich is the best you can get require solid game and effort.a few years ago (before 2013) those could come straight to your room with minimal effort.

7 and 8s? Hah good luck, theres very few, even if they reply or match with you they have stuck up attitudes and will require multiple dates , basically the same as the west

Well I think this depends heavily on what part of the world you're in. Getting 7 & 8s to come to your room in Sweeden ain't happening, in Laos it's a breeze.

In terms of requiring multiple dates, if you're encountering those I think you're just not asking the right questions to eliminate ones that will make you wait.