Currently travelling in a new city, been here for a few weeks and will be here for a few more. Have been gaming here a lot (mostly Tinder, etc.) and gotten a few flags and have a few more female contacts on top of that that I'm working on.
Got invited out by a 8 girl and one of her friends (this girl in particular is NOT dtf that easily, nor are most of the conservative girls here), so I didn't want to go alone cause I knew the night likely wouldn't end in a bang, so blasted like 10 of my girl contacts (separate messages, of course) to see who'd come with me. I honestly didn't think more than 1-2 would accept cause usually these girls are super flaky, and it was short notice so I couldn't wait for individual responses which is why I did them all at once. But almost all of them accepted! And they all want to bring a friend with them.
Idk what to do hahaha. I don't want to be the only guy in a group of like 10-15 girls, all of which I'm flirting with and some of which I've already banged.
To make things worse, there's no real venue or anything, so it's not like we can all just go bowling or something. The spot we chose was a famous street where people just walk around and see some eye candy. The only silver lining is that there are some bars/clubs around, but personally I'm not a clubber (don't know how to dance) and bars will be too packed to walk in like 10-15 deep.
Anyone been in a similar situation? What are my options to make this night go as smooth as possible? Should I cancel/reschedule with some of them? I was thinking of just finding a couple of random guys doing game in the area and asking them to join me so I can saturate the group with a couple more guys at least...don't want to be seen as a Casanova player by all the girls I invited since there will be too many of them -- that may not work too well in my favor and I fear that I will lose some of my rotation as a result.
I think social proof can work in your favor, but in this case I feel that too much of anything good will eventually work against you.
Got invited out by a 8 girl and one of her friends (this girl in particular is NOT dtf that easily, nor are most of the conservative girls here), so I didn't want to go alone cause I knew the night likely wouldn't end in a bang, so blasted like 10 of my girl contacts (separate messages, of course) to see who'd come with me. I honestly didn't think more than 1-2 would accept cause usually these girls are super flaky, and it was short notice so I couldn't wait for individual responses which is why I did them all at once. But almost all of them accepted! And they all want to bring a friend with them.
Idk what to do hahaha. I don't want to be the only guy in a group of like 10-15 girls, all of which I'm flirting with and some of which I've already banged.
To make things worse, there's no real venue or anything, so it's not like we can all just go bowling or something. The spot we chose was a famous street where people just walk around and see some eye candy. The only silver lining is that there are some bars/clubs around, but personally I'm not a clubber (don't know how to dance) and bars will be too packed to walk in like 10-15 deep.
Anyone been in a similar situation? What are my options to make this night go as smooth as possible? Should I cancel/reschedule with some of them? I was thinking of just finding a couple of random guys doing game in the area and asking them to join me so I can saturate the group with a couple more guys at least...don't want to be seen as a Casanova player by all the girls I invited since there will be too many of them -- that may not work too well in my favor and I fear that I will lose some of my rotation as a result.
I think social proof can work in your favor, but in this case I feel that too much of anything good will eventually work against you.
