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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 11:05 AM
A great idea is to Friendzone the girls who ghost you, who took few days to answer to your messages or not at all.
This will turn the tables around in many situations, and make her think about you.
Have you tried this?
I see it as the only direct option when a girl (FB/FWB/plate/LTR) starts to ghost you.
What do you think?
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 11:08 AM
Why waste your time? Onto the next one!!!
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 11:12 AM
To craft a good message that you will just copy and paste, takes few minutes only, and
it may be spike the emotions of the (FB/FWB/plate/LTR) that you actually cared about for, I think it is highly worth it
Something like
"I thought last night about us and we had a great time together, I enjoyed your company, but I will not have time
anymore from now on to meet you. I hope you will have a nice life"
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 11:25 AM
Meh. I'd rather ghost the girls that friendzone me.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 01:54 PM
That sounds like something you would do because your ego was hurt in some way. I wouldn’t bother with it, I suggest you to either move on or play it cool. You can’t be compatible with every girl you meet, rejection is part of the game. Bikal is onto something here.
If she’s ghosting you it means the interest was low from the beginning or you fucked up gaming her somewhere in the process. That text example you’re mentioning shows a sign of weakness and bitterness. Why ruin the chances of a possible friendship? I always keep the girls around even if our dates don’t work out. If you seem like a cool guy and show abundance, she will definitely introduce you to some of her friends.
Happened to me once, and i don't go on many dates. The friend I was introduced to wasn't as hot as the first girl, but she was so down to fuck on the first date. So if that's your thing, then that's an easy +bang in the book. I didn't end up fucking this girl though since i am picky as fuck. But it definitely opened up a new opportunity for me.
They usually have some hot friend in the group you could get introduced to. Expand your social circles and fuck more girls this way.
But this will only work if you keep a strong frame and actually act cool, even if you find out you're not compatible with each other after the date. If she doesn't like you enough to fuck you, at least make her like you enough to have a friend ready for you.
This works great in night game as well, when you flirt with a girl and she rejects you or shows signs of disinterest, as long as you can keep it light and fun and still catch her attention enough, show her that it's no big deal she isn't into you, she will be more than willing to introduce you to her friends, if you ask nicely. Then you start gaming from there.
I have only had one girl object about this and put up a bitch shield instantly. She's like "damn if you can't get me you want to jump straight onto my friend? you're a player aren't you" i defused it with humor and teased her "well if i can't get the best thing in this club, then i will have to settle for the second best thing, and you guys seem fun". She smiled widely and switched to completely receptive and instantly dropped the bitch shield.
Girls love confident and cocky guys, add a twist of humor into the mix and you'll make any girl wet. I met her next week and made out with her. She was a little drunk though, but it's funny, i texted her next morning saying "gotcha miss precious" she responded, "haha you were lucky". The tables turned because i passed her shit test. A strong frame is so important.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 02:04 PM
there have been countless threads about this all reworded different ways.
basically yes you can friendzone girls that ghost you but its best to just ghost her.
If a girl ghost you then you're literally dead to her in her mind. So friend zoning her is just kicking a dead horse unless your sexual value increased drastically.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 03:36 PM
You mean keep talking to them and giving them attention but deliberately never fuck them?
Nah.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 03:38 PM
If a chick ghosts you, you've got no leverage and nothing to gain.
Keep their number in case they do hit you up for dick again you know who it is and can play the "new phone who dis" game.
Anything beyond that makes you look salty and it's to defend your ego, don't ever act like a salty ass bitch.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 03:49 PM
Quote: (08-28-2018 11:12 AM)understandbpd Wrote:
"I thought last night about us and we had a great time together, I enjoyed your company, but I will not have time
anymore from now on to meet you. I hope you will have a nice life"
I 100% agree on what others have said. Also I'd like you to do us a favor: in order not to raise these girls' already sky high egos any further, please kindly refrain from sending this message, or any other message that reads like this, to any of these girls.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-28-2018, 04:19 PM
Honestly, if you think you're being FZ'd/ghosted, shoot her a text like, 'Come over for bondage and rough sex'
If you hear from her again, she's thinking about banging you. Otherwise #OTTNO
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-29-2018, 04:28 AM
"Friendzone" innately a feminine strategy to continue to extract attention, validation, and resources from a man while paying no cost and owing no loyalty to do so.
You think you can pull that off? Is that even something you want? Hope you're not that thirsty for validation and you can get everything you need without the help of women.
You know what the male equivalent of the friendzone is? It's the fuckzone, where you see a girl only to fuck her, she supplies everything (drinks, food, whatever) and you fuck her and don't have to deal with any of her shit because you kick her ass out when you're done.
Doesn't that sound like the zone you'd rather be in?
Your stupid reply text sounds bitter like your ego was bruised by some sloot who wouldn't give you the time of day. Persue other women. Don't let a soft rejection effect you so profoundly be a man for christs sake
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
08-31-2018, 01:24 PM
^ Friendzoning doesn't mean 'we won't see each other again'.
It means 'I will keep you thinking you have a chance of fucking me (you don't) in return for your emotional support/drinks/dinner etc' from the woman's viewpoint.
And 'Please fuck me, I'll do anything' from the man's.
It doesn't really work the other way round if you've been ghosted. The woman usually holds all the cards in this case, unless you have already worked your magic on her.
As for OTTNO, Google (or your preferred choice of search engine) is the way to go.
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
09-01-2018, 04:03 AM
ok guys, then what about this most upvoted and most thanked post of the week:, tell me that you agree that this is the right way to go about it:
"I am honest. I get fuck buddies from that honesty.
I text her: "We have great sexual chemistry, but we're not that compatible outside of the bedroom and you deserve someone who appreciates all of what you offer. I don't feel like it's right to keep having sex just because it's enjoyable."
Bam, new FWB for life."
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Friendzone The girls who ghost you, to turn the tables around
09-01-2018, 02:03 PM
That has some interesting elements in it. You're telling her she can't have something while still applying sexual tension - also showing some compassionate virtues.
It's a pretty good push and with the right timing, and depending on how she responds a well timed pull could hook her pretty hard and get her working to get that sweet forbidden relationship fruit and put her hamster on over drive. I think I'll give a similar line of thought a try based on what you posted and report back