Tl;Dr in bold
Shaking their asses in their tight dresses, their makeup done up just right, the women in the clubs draw me in. The problem is, that's the only reason I go.
Nearly all of my 24 lays have come from women I met in person not at a nightclub or bar. I don't just suck at game outright, but I am unskilled at night game.
I'm too goal driven when I'm there and the result is that I approach too many women too quickly sometimes causing me to be seen as "That Guy", but if I'm not approaching women then why the fuck am I there? During the day I make sure I'm out of sight from everyone who saw me make the previous approach before doing another, but at a club this isn't an option. Another result is that I don't go out to the clubs often.
If I could follow my friends advice to just have a good time, I would have a reason to be at the club other than to meet women, I would approach less often without feeling like I'm there for nothing, I'd go out to the club more often and get more practice, and I'd actually have a better time.
The girls at the clubs are much easier to touch and kiss within a short period of time by comparison, but the generally rude behavior and much harsher rejections compared to other environments cause me to dislike being there. I actually like a lot of the music there but it hinders communication making it more difficult to run verbal game. I'm starting to feel like most of night game is just boldly making physical moves and smiling after saying hello and reading body language, and hoping she responds well to my physical appearance, presence, and boldness.
Other guys competing for the same women, her friends taking her attention away from me, cockblocking, night game is hard.
I don't drink because I'm stupid when I'm drunk, I don't moderate how much I drink well after I start drinking, it effects me the next day, and being drunk really isn't that great. I can hear my friends advice in my head now that I should chill out about why I'm going out and should have a drink haha. But I'm not going to drink.
still, I don't want to ignore night game, I want to better my skill as a player, not pass up this valuable resource of women.
How do enjoy yourself at the club other than meeting women? What are your tips for me so that I can enjoy my time at the club too?
Shaking their asses in their tight dresses, their makeup done up just right, the women in the clubs draw me in. The problem is, that's the only reason I go.
Nearly all of my 24 lays have come from women I met in person not at a nightclub or bar. I don't just suck at game outright, but I am unskilled at night game.
I'm too goal driven when I'm there and the result is that I approach too many women too quickly sometimes causing me to be seen as "That Guy", but if I'm not approaching women then why the fuck am I there? During the day I make sure I'm out of sight from everyone who saw me make the previous approach before doing another, but at a club this isn't an option. Another result is that I don't go out to the clubs often.
If I could follow my friends advice to just have a good time, I would have a reason to be at the club other than to meet women, I would approach less often without feeling like I'm there for nothing, I'd go out to the club more often and get more practice, and I'd actually have a better time.
The girls at the clubs are much easier to touch and kiss within a short period of time by comparison, but the generally rude behavior and much harsher rejections compared to other environments cause me to dislike being there. I actually like a lot of the music there but it hinders communication making it more difficult to run verbal game. I'm starting to feel like most of night game is just boldly making physical moves and smiling after saying hello and reading body language, and hoping she responds well to my physical appearance, presence, and boldness.
Other guys competing for the same women, her friends taking her attention away from me, cockblocking, night game is hard.
I don't drink because I'm stupid when I'm drunk, I don't moderate how much I drink well after I start drinking, it effects me the next day, and being drunk really isn't that great. I can hear my friends advice in my head now that I should chill out about why I'm going out and should have a drink haha. But I'm not going to drink.
still, I don't want to ignore night game, I want to better my skill as a player, not pass up this valuable resource of women.
How do enjoy yourself at the club other than meeting women? What are your tips for me so that I can enjoy my time at the club too?