[BadKing]

I had an interesting experience throughout the night where all the girls I gazed upon and talked to, inspired disgust rather than sexual excitement. The willingness they had to fuck a total stranger threw me off more than usual, and I ended up rejecting a handful of good looking girls I would normally gladly sleep with.

It got me thinking about casual club sex and how if you don’t feel horny enough it can be seen as repulsive; like you’re too good for it.

Conservatives do have stronger disgust sensitivity than liberals and I felt that tonight like never before.

Society seems to be the way it is today because there isn’t enough disgust—people are ready to give it all without feeling any sense of wrong. All degeneracies we accept today are at the root, a lack of disgust. Perhaps even a lack of self worth.

When feeling idealistic and perfectionist, casual sex seems so immoral and disgusting I can’t bear to imagine it, yet when normally horny I’m ready to abandon all ideals and just pump and dump away.

What is the right path?

Is society the way it is because of our failure to control the worst side of our nature?

Or should we embrace our dualities?

[Polniy_Sostav]

Not sure I am the best to answer this , but you should find the balance between the two.
I would advocate for : long term with principles and morals and family
side "business" with some sort of casual sex when ready for it and not in the mood for disgust.

[UnW]

Sometimes, after I have freshly fucked another girl from a casual encounter, I feel that disgust and prefer to be away from the receptacle that just allowed me inside her.

[torridon747]

That's something that you have to figure out for yourself, it's up to you to see how you want to approach the situation. You'll find a groove eventually that just works.

One thing I've realized over the years is thay I can maintain my own standards, policies, and resolve but I do not have to project my values on someone else. Like taking a cat and not even making it practice but understand the concept of loyalty - could it be done - maybe, but why not enjoy loyalty from creatures that are built for it like kanines.

If I see some aberrant slut in the wild it's more akin to seeing some animal in the forest. I observe it, sometimes I might even try to interact with it, sometimes I may try to confirm it's nature. Depending on the nature of said animal I may even enjoy it's presence and try to play with it. But I don't feed it, I don't try to give it a new home and certainly don't try to domesticate it. At the end of the day the animal is left to it's own devices and I'm left to mine with nothing gained or lost.

Generally speaking nobody is forcing you to interact with annoying sluts and being outwardly disgusted is a waste of precious time and energy that could be used on more worthwhile endeavors

[germanico]

So, you rejected a "handful of good looking girls" because, let me see if Im getting this, they where willing to have sex with you?

Yeah.

Right.

[BadKing]

I barely need game, I rely almost purely on looks. I live very close to nightclubs—that’s the extent of it.

I wrote ‘good looking girls’ because that’s what they saw themselves as, and that’s what they were putting out. Obviously I didn’t think they were fuckable that night, hence the title.

The better you look the uglier girls look, so in a way it’s a curse disguised as a blessing.

[Qwerty]

Keep banging girls who disgust you and get a generally disgusted view of them or narrow your selection to those you aren't disgusted by if they exist. Too much disgust sensitivity to can lead to a pedestalizing of your unicorn.