Have fucked up twice and never making this mistake a 3rd time.
Two girls, one on a date and one on the app itself asked me what I'm looking for.
Both times I say something a long the lines of, 'just having fun and see if it develops'
Both times the girls, say: 'I've just come out of a relationship so I'm not looking to date yet'
First time it was on person and it took me off guard and I completely fucked it up.
Second time, I'm recovering but wont be easy. We had agreed for drinks and then after that reply on wha im looking for, she said ' acc got work on thurs so rather we do another day' but def meant don't want to see you. So I ignored that msg, did a u turn and completely sexualised the convo which she enjoyed but might be too late.
From now on, I'm always replying with " Passionate sex with someone that I can bang on all my furniture" to that question. If they are the relationship type girl, then I'll play it off as a joke.
Two girls, one on a date and one on the app itself asked me what I'm looking for.
Both times I say something a long the lines of, 'just having fun and see if it develops'
Both times the girls, say: 'I've just come out of a relationship so I'm not looking to date yet'
First time it was on person and it took me off guard and I completely fucked it up.
Second time, I'm recovering but wont be easy. We had agreed for drinks and then after that reply on wha im looking for, she said ' acc got work on thurs so rather we do another day' but def meant don't want to see you. So I ignored that msg, did a u turn and completely sexualised the convo which she enjoyed but might be too late.
From now on, I'm always replying with " Passionate sex with someone that I can bang on all my furniture" to that question. If they are the relationship type girl, then I'll play it off as a joke.