Hi everyone,
I live mostly in hostels (private rooms): I can meet many people easily.
But all my interactions are shallow: I don't care about people and what they have to say. Most of them are unoriginal, boring, unintelligent.
I like to talk with pretty girls and chill with them, but as soon more people come and start to talk it gets really boring for me, and I leave.
I feel like it affect my possibilities of meeting new women, showing them how I act in social situations, so they know what/who I am...
I wonder if I should become an expert of isolation to be able to be only with the few girls I like talking to. Or, if I should simply be more "social" and stick around ?
Me not being around mean: missing occasion to go out with them (btw pubs and parties are pretty boring to me), meeting less people, feeling like I'm only "orbiting" around them.
Or should I dedicate myself to daygame/online game and never get in real social situation with whose I meet ?
In brief: I have relatively low social skills and I don't know what I should tend to be
thanks for your opinions. if my post is unclear, it's because it's unclear for me too
I live mostly in hostels (private rooms): I can meet many people easily.
But all my interactions are shallow: I don't care about people and what they have to say. Most of them are unoriginal, boring, unintelligent.
I like to talk with pretty girls and chill with them, but as soon more people come and start to talk it gets really boring for me, and I leave.
I feel like it affect my possibilities of meeting new women, showing them how I act in social situations, so they know what/who I am...
I wonder if I should become an expert of isolation to be able to be only with the few girls I like talking to. Or, if I should simply be more "social" and stick around ?
Me not being around mean: missing occasion to go out with them (btw pubs and parties are pretty boring to me), meeting less people, feeling like I'm only "orbiting" around them.
Or should I dedicate myself to daygame/online game and never get in real social situation with whose I meet ?
In brief: I have relatively low social skills and I don't know what I should tend to be
thanks for your opinions. if my post is unclear, it's because it's unclear for me too