Woman who tried to live the Sex And The City lifestyle admits she ruined her life
06-03-2018, 03:30 PMQuote: (06-03-2018 02:49 PM)scorpion Wrote:
This woman's life and her choices are a case study for the justification of traditional patriarchy, a system which would have prevented her from being seduced by the lies of the sirens of sexual liberation. Imagine how different this woman would feel today at 37 if, instead of starting her long ride on the cock carousel at 18, she had instead married a good, promising young man her father approved of and began to have children. By 25 she would have had 4-5 children and feel the natural fulfillment and meaning of motherhood that underlies all healthy female psychology. And today at 37 her children would be teenagers, shortly adults. She would still have plenty of time then to pursue a career in whatever she wanted.
The funny part is that Western society only partly kept women restrained. If a girl absolutely wanted to become an attention whore, a famous mistress to a wealthy man or royal, then that was her freedom. Her family and father may have shunned her then, but she was free to reject the wisdom and guidance of her family. The Amish to this day have this wise system - their women can leave their home, become strippers and porn stars if they want, they can try and emulate the SATC lifestyle. But most return and settle with a good Amish boy.
Women are herd animals and the patriarchy is the gentle shepherd - but just someone with iron rules.
As for this one - I am not so sure whether she wouldn't have chosen the full hypergamy lifestyle even in saner times. She regrets it now, but that is like a lottery winner who regrets blasting through all his fortune in a few years.