[qqkikia]

Hey guys,

I just posted another thread and got a very nice answer! I 've got another question. So I am a newbie, I admit. However, I now want to get outside and start going out. Is there a guide of some sorts that lets you know how to get into pick up. Where do I start?

Thanks guys.

[tobehero]

How much have you actually searched?

Should be the most common question and answers.

But if you want a quick and easy route, go find guys in your area that are already doing this and start going out with them. Hopefully you are lucky and find some decent wings.

[Noir]

a) open door
b) go to place where females congregate
c) go speak to them
d) get their numbers or a kiss or take them home
e) expect failure and analyze where you went wrong
f) try again

[JekyllAndHyde]

(06-01-2018 04:03 AM)qqkikia Wrote:  

Hey guys,

I just posted another thread and got a very nice answer! I 've got another question. So I am a newbie, I admit. However, I now want to get outside and start going out. Is there a guide of some sorts that lets you know how to get into pick up. Where do I start?

Thanks guys.

There are many threads in the Game section but do you know if there are any RVFers willing to hang out in your city or country at least?
Find out which girls you are attracted to and move to that city.

When I see a girl that is attractive I smoothly walk over and chat them up in a nice way about something I see about her, the surroundings or something I think of randomly. Something that gets her to invest chatting with you.
Think fast and talk smoothly. Then get flirty.
Afterwards see if she's free there to come for a coffee or drink and suggest some excuse at your place or hers but most of the time you will settle for her number to make romance to her later instead.

No pick up lines like it is 2006 just unscripted and based on what is happening about you and her.

[Simeon_Strangelight]

You can do what Noir recommends, but best is to couple it with learning. Buy the Game books by Roosh - read them, apply them. Then buy some first newbie books by Nick Krauser who is great at direct Daygame - again apply and approach.

You can alternatively scour the forum for countless tips and insights, but it's usually better in the beginning to go and learn from concentrated wisdom in books from men who had approached thousands and fucked hundreds.

That way your learning curve will be steeper and it won't be as discouraging.

[Dragan]

Keep it simple:

Get off internet (pointless to get bogged down in game theory if you're not executing).
Find a place where women are congregating.
Make confident small talk (use Seinfeld as reference)
If interest is evident, you can move onto realer topics, and ask her questions-- escalate with touching, etc.
Get the number.
Repeat.

If results are bad, do more approaches and work on improving yourself. Analyze your sets afterwards with a valued friend, or on the approach thread here on the forum to look for areas of improvement.

[ShuaiGe]

I wake up and hit on one of the very first women I see whether I'm in the mood or not, this way I'm social all day.

I advocate being "always on". Solo or not doesn't matter at all. It's hard to get that abundance mentality, it's hard to not allow rejection to affect your ego. These are skills that you can cultivate intentionally through continuous practice.

Not masturbating helps a lot to be honest.

Remember, your goal is internal change, don't decide to set a time to be alpha or beta, live it