I have a friend who is beyond pussy whipped. I've known him for most of my life and he has always had a tendency to get involved with women who fuck him over in one way or another.
When it comes to him introducing whom ever the latest woman is to his friends, said women tend to throw off obvious red flags to which we all notice almost instantly. You bring up any of these red flags to him he'll respond by saying things like "oh you just have to get to know them" or "you don't know them like I do! I understand them!" or even "something must have happened to make them do that! I'll be there for them".
He is by the book blue pilled; a pure omega male. He'll make excuses for them when he is cheated on or screwed over, he'll do shit like "open up" to them and legit cry in their laps thinking they want to hear his shit. Also refers to himself a "male feminist". He doesn't even have the slightest clue at what kind of behavior makes a woman's stomach turn, let alone turn them on.
From an outside perspective you can say he has no problem getting girls, after all he isn't a bad looking guy. He's also not half bad at socializing. However despite this, the particular women that he seems to gravitate towards are not only the type that you'd likely not want to date (if you have half a brain at least); they are the type of girls you'd not want to even hook up with if you have any sense of survival instinct left in your body.
Every single time he finds a new woman she is either a legit SJW or some kind of insane whore. Each and every time he finds one of these women he'll tell us that "she's the one" or "I haven't felt this way since my old high school gf guys! She's special!" Same bullshit every time.
A few of these women have openly admitted that they were using him for various reasons (depending on the girl) and taunted his very existence to some of his other friends and I (if he happens to be away for a second in whatever social situation (bar, party, etc.)).
Why would they admit that they're manipulating him and out right make fun of him for being such a pussy? Well, they know he ain't going to do shit about it even if we tell him. When we tell him to ditch who ever the latest woman is explaining she's trouble, he'll freak out at who ever tells him saying "you can't tell me how to live my life" "I'll be fine!" and "no you must have misunderstood something, she's not like that!"
I've been friends with him since we were kids. Most of the other people in his social circle he has known since at least high school. We're all between 22-24 now. He's been at this shit since we were 18 and has not learned a thing. Even if many people's game sucks at this age, he should at the very least be able to identify a decent woman from an obvious red flag waving magnet of trouble. If we didn't know him for so long, I doubt any of us would even have bothered trying to help someone as far gone as he is.
For example, the most recent woman he decided to cling to is a girl we graduated high school with. However, this isn't the girl next door type of situation. Back in high school she was a notorious slut who would openly engage in the most perverse shit imaginable with whoever was up to do such things with her (and tell everybody about it thinking people gave a shit). Our dumb friend also dated this woman in high school and quickly broke up after finding out she cheated on him (though he wouldn't mind that as much now). More recently though, this particular girl is a former drug addict who was knocked up by a guy 30 years older than her the second she turned 20. At the moment she is a single unemployed mother who had to distance herself from her child's father, due to the fact that he had threatened her and apparently acted upon said threats in various ways on multiple occasions. Not only that, this man is aware of our dumb friend existing around the mother of his child and has already threatened violence against him.
Rather than our dumb friend removing himself from the situation (or perhaps calling the authorities?) as practically everyone he knows told him to do, he instead believes that this potentially dangerous man won't do anything. That's right, the insane roasty is THAT good to him apparently. If it ever came to a situation in which he had to defend himself from this man, he is by no means a good fighter (or runner), so it's unlikely he'd be able to. Why would he cling to a girl in such a broken situation? Is it for the sex, love, or what have you? He'll have a different reason every time he speaks to us. I wouldn't be surprised if she pokes a hole in one of his condoms one day or is fucking other guys besides him. It is entirely in her character to do so.
This girl isn't even the worst girl he has involved himself with, if that comes to any surprise. Only the most recent. I personally called him out on his bullshit once again and he gave the expected responses. After speaking to some of his other friends, we're in agreement that it's probably better to distance ourselves from him altogether, due to the fact that he invites more trouble than mosquitoes are invited to the scent of fresh blood. And at the end of the day, we're all trying to live our lives as normal as life can get in a world twisted by the current phase of modernity. He's more trouble than he's worth in other words. He neglected our friendship and any advice we have given him in the past.
My question to you guys is did we do the right thing by telling him to finally fuck off? We've known him for most of our lives and had tried helping him on numerous occasions over the past few years since he started making one bad decision after another (both regarding women and regarding life situations). He never listens and would rather live in his own head. Have any of you know a person like him in your lives? What did you do?
When it comes to him introducing whom ever the latest woman is to his friends, said women tend to throw off obvious red flags to which we all notice almost instantly. You bring up any of these red flags to him he'll respond by saying things like "oh you just have to get to know them" or "you don't know them like I do! I understand them!" or even "something must have happened to make them do that! I'll be there for them".
He is by the book blue pilled; a pure omega male. He'll make excuses for them when he is cheated on or screwed over, he'll do shit like "open up" to them and legit cry in their laps thinking they want to hear his shit. Also refers to himself a "male feminist". He doesn't even have the slightest clue at what kind of behavior makes a woman's stomach turn, let alone turn them on.
From an outside perspective you can say he has no problem getting girls, after all he isn't a bad looking guy. He's also not half bad at socializing. However despite this, the particular women that he seems to gravitate towards are not only the type that you'd likely not want to date (if you have half a brain at least); they are the type of girls you'd not want to even hook up with if you have any sense of survival instinct left in your body.
Every single time he finds a new woman she is either a legit SJW or some kind of insane whore. Each and every time he finds one of these women he'll tell us that "she's the one" or "I haven't felt this way since my old high school gf guys! She's special!" Same bullshit every time.
A few of these women have openly admitted that they were using him for various reasons (depending on the girl) and taunted his very existence to some of his other friends and I (if he happens to be away for a second in whatever social situation (bar, party, etc.)).
Why would they admit that they're manipulating him and out right make fun of him for being such a pussy? Well, they know he ain't going to do shit about it even if we tell him. When we tell him to ditch who ever the latest woman is explaining she's trouble, he'll freak out at who ever tells him saying "you can't tell me how to live my life" "I'll be fine!" and "no you must have misunderstood something, she's not like that!"
I've been friends with him since we were kids. Most of the other people in his social circle he has known since at least high school. We're all between 22-24 now. He's been at this shit since we were 18 and has not learned a thing. Even if many people's game sucks at this age, he should at the very least be able to identify a decent woman from an obvious red flag waving magnet of trouble. If we didn't know him for so long, I doubt any of us would even have bothered trying to help someone as far gone as he is.
For example, the most recent woman he decided to cling to is a girl we graduated high school with. However, this isn't the girl next door type of situation. Back in high school she was a notorious slut who would openly engage in the most perverse shit imaginable with whoever was up to do such things with her (and tell everybody about it thinking people gave a shit). Our dumb friend also dated this woman in high school and quickly broke up after finding out she cheated on him (though he wouldn't mind that as much now). More recently though, this particular girl is a former drug addict who was knocked up by a guy 30 years older than her the second she turned 20. At the moment she is a single unemployed mother who had to distance herself from her child's father, due to the fact that he had threatened her and apparently acted upon said threats in various ways on multiple occasions. Not only that, this man is aware of our dumb friend existing around the mother of his child and has already threatened violence against him.
Rather than our dumb friend removing himself from the situation (or perhaps calling the authorities?) as practically everyone he knows told him to do, he instead believes that this potentially dangerous man won't do anything. That's right, the insane roasty is THAT good to him apparently. If it ever came to a situation in which he had to defend himself from this man, he is by no means a good fighter (or runner), so it's unlikely he'd be able to. Why would he cling to a girl in such a broken situation? Is it for the sex, love, or what have you? He'll have a different reason every time he speaks to us. I wouldn't be surprised if she pokes a hole in one of his condoms one day or is fucking other guys besides him. It is entirely in her character to do so.
This girl isn't even the worst girl he has involved himself with, if that comes to any surprise. Only the most recent. I personally called him out on his bullshit once again and he gave the expected responses. After speaking to some of his other friends, we're in agreement that it's probably better to distance ourselves from him altogether, due to the fact that he invites more trouble than mosquitoes are invited to the scent of fresh blood. And at the end of the day, we're all trying to live our lives as normal as life can get in a world twisted by the current phase of modernity. He's more trouble than he's worth in other words. He neglected our friendship and any advice we have given him in the past.
My question to you guys is did we do the right thing by telling him to finally fuck off? We've known him for most of our lives and had tried helping him on numerous occasions over the past few years since he started making one bad decision after another (both regarding women and regarding life situations). He never listens and would rather live in his own head. Have any of you know a person like him in your lives? What did you do?