When girls say "that's really confident of you to do this, I have a boyfriend...
05-16-2018, 06:31 AM
Title wasn't long enough: When girls say "that's really confident of you to do this, I have a boyfriend, but keep it up and you'll eventually find something"
What does this mean?
I've written about this in the daygame thread- but to reiterate I've been getting these sorts of rejections lately, while before(200+ approaches), I'd generally been getting more "standard" rejections.
I'll just quote myself on the relevant portion:
I really do wonder why this happens. It's weird that they've functionally friendzoned me(in the sense they encourage me, as a friend), and this after I feel I was more direct/honest with my intentions. If I take it as face value they liked it so they would get with me if they were single and/or I was their type. But obviously I can't be certain.
It's also interesting that this happens now, where the girl is basically giving me encouragement and praise, when to a large extent I don't really care what girls think anymore. But when I did care what girls think, they virtually never encouraged me unless they were super friendly. I suppose this is redpill in action.
What does this mean?
I've written about this in the daygame thread- but to reiterate I've been getting these sorts of rejections lately, while before(200+ approaches), I'd generally been getting more "standard" rejections.
I'll just quote myself on the relevant portion:
Quote: (05-16-2018 05:57 AM)The Catalyst Wrote:
Recently I've been getting more "that's really confident/bold of you to do this, I have a boyfriend/partner, but keep it up and you'll eventually find something" reactions. They seem to genuinely think that, especially since Kiwis never approach(not exaggerating). But I've had maybe 200+ approaches before this and it's only been really common recently, about 3 of the last 5 approaches said that. I don't know if this is good or bad though. Maybe I've been hiding my intent/shielding my ego all the other times and so the girl really didn't feel "hit on". But also maybe I'm leaning too "nice guy" or K selected. On one hand I definitely feel I've improved but it's real weird how it feels like I've basically been "friendzoned" in a way I wasn't before. I guess I also appreciate the compliments but I don't actually feel particularly confident I just feel that I'm damaged enough psychologically that I went through the process of learning daygame and basically am now just following the model. I suppose most guys just can't take the hit to the ego though.
I really do wonder why this happens. It's weird that they've functionally friendzoned me(in the sense they encourage me, as a friend), and this after I feel I was more direct/honest with my intentions. If I take it as face value they liked it so they would get with me if they were single and/or I was their type. But obviously I can't be certain.
It's also interesting that this happens now, where the girl is basically giving me encouragement and praise, when to a large extent I don't really care what girls think anymore. But when I did care what girls think, they virtually never encouraged me unless they were super friendly. I suppose this is redpill in action.
