Alright so I'm not sure what exactly I did that messed it up but I have a feeling I showed way to much interest in this girl and scared her off. What's my next move to real her back in?
Here's what happened:
I recently found this girl and invited her over to my place (directly after we met) which I normally don't do but for some reason I thought "what the hell" She accepted and we proceeded to have the best evening I've ever had since moving to the State of California 2 years ago. We each had drank 2 beers when I asked if she wanted a third. She said "Well that depends" "Depends on what?" I replied. She said "If I have to drive home or not" I told her she didn't have to if she didn't want to. So onto beer number three. We watched a movie 7 Pounds Starring WIll Smith. We got a little closer on the couch before heading out to my Casino in the garage so I could school her on the finer aspects of playing pool. After I won (Although trying really hard to let her win) I said she owed me a kiss which she honored and we proceeded back inside to snuggle on the couch and finish our movie (which neither of us were paying much attention to) While taking a smoke break I asked her where she wanted to stay, she said the couch. Back inside to the movie, another smoke break later I asked "are you sure you wanna spend the night on my
cold lonely sofa?" She asked what her other options were and I said she could snuggle with me in bed if she wanted to. She accepted. Back inside to watch the last of the movie, it was about 1AM and I could tell she was getting sleepy. So off to bed we were about to go. When I attempted to get up she pulled me in close and started sucking my face off. Enjoyed that for awhile, quickly shut down the house and off to the bedroom. I could tell I kinda liked this chick so I didn't wanna spoil anything, even going as far as asking "Am I not being a gentleman by letting my hands wonder?" She said "I haven't stopped you yet!" SO
slowly but surely my hand made it's way down there to the oasis and things just escalated from there. Going as far as her climbing on top of me (without any penetration). I said I must confess Cowboys don't put out on the first date. She said she respected that and said "sometimes I disappear after having sex with someone" So she dosed off (by now it was about 3:30) The next morning we woke up (actually just a few hours later haha) I maid us coffee, turned the morning news on for some back ground noise and we chatted for awhile before she ran out to her car to grab a change of clothes (Was this chick in the boy scouts or something?) She came back inside, quickly changed (Which I must say she looked damn good) and then gave me a quick peck before running off to school. (She goes to College I'm not a chimo) We texted a few times that day up until lunch time and then she just vanished, called her when I got home from work, nothing. The next day around noon I said "you're not going to disappear on me are you? lol" No response. FInally around 3 (the second day after) I asked really nicely if I had said something stupid or anything like that (I often say stupid stuff without realizing it) She finally responded "I Disappear remember? I'm sorry, I thought I was ready for something I was wrong. I'm really sorry..You were really nice and it's not about you." So my long winded question. Do you think I have
any chance of seeing this girl again? She was awesome in every way possible. She did promise me while we were in bed together that I would get to see her again. I'm confused as to why she disappeared when technically we didn't do the nasty.
Any help would be greatly appreciated. I've never seen anything like that in my life before!
Here's what happened:
I recently found this girl and invited her over to my place (directly after we met) which I normally don't do but for some reason I thought "what the hell" She accepted and we proceeded to have the best evening I've ever had since moving to the State of California 2 years ago. We each had drank 2 beers when I asked if she wanted a third. She said "Well that depends" "Depends on what?" I replied. She said "If I have to drive home or not" I told her she didn't have to if she didn't want to. So onto beer number three. We watched a movie 7 Pounds Starring WIll Smith. We got a little closer on the couch before heading out to my Casino in the garage so I could school her on the finer aspects of playing pool. After I won (Although trying really hard to let her win) I said she owed me a kiss which she honored and we proceeded back inside to snuggle on the couch and finish our movie (which neither of us were paying much attention to) While taking a smoke break I asked her where she wanted to stay, she said the couch. Back inside to the movie, another smoke break later I asked "are you sure you wanna spend the night on my
cold lonely sofa?" She asked what her other options were and I said she could snuggle with me in bed if she wanted to. She accepted. Back inside to watch the last of the movie, it was about 1AM and I could tell she was getting sleepy. So off to bed we were about to go. When I attempted to get up she pulled me in close and started sucking my face off. Enjoyed that for awhile, quickly shut down the house and off to the bedroom. I could tell I kinda liked this chick so I didn't wanna spoil anything, even going as far as asking "Am I not being a gentleman by letting my hands wonder?" She said "I haven't stopped you yet!" SO
slowly but surely my hand made it's way down there to the oasis and things just escalated from there. Going as far as her climbing on top of me (without any penetration). I said I must confess Cowboys don't put out on the first date. She said she respected that and said "sometimes I disappear after having sex with someone" So she dosed off (by now it was about 3:30) The next morning we woke up (actually just a few hours later haha) I maid us coffee, turned the morning news on for some back ground noise and we chatted for awhile before she ran out to her car to grab a change of clothes (Was this chick in the boy scouts or something?) She came back inside, quickly changed (Which I must say she looked damn good) and then gave me a quick peck before running off to school. (She goes to College I'm not a chimo) We texted a few times that day up until lunch time and then she just vanished, called her when I got home from work, nothing. The next day around noon I said "you're not going to disappear on me are you? lol" No response. FInally around 3 (the second day after) I asked really nicely if I had said something stupid or anything like that (I often say stupid stuff without realizing it) She finally responded "I Disappear remember? I'm sorry, I thought I was ready for something I was wrong. I'm really sorry..You were really nice and it's not about you." So my long winded question. Do you think I have
any chance of seeing this girl again? She was awesome in every way possible. She did promise me while we were in bed together that I would get to see her again. I'm confused as to why she disappeared when technically we didn't do the nasty.
Any help would be greatly appreciated. I've never seen anything like that in my life before!