[Buffas]

Hey guys

Turns out I'm quite lucky. A plate of mine has decided she likes girls as well (she had one FFM threesome before but other than that no experience with girls). She wants a threesome and we talked about signing up on Tinder as a couple looking for a girl.

Does anyone here have experience with using Tinder like that? Does it work? What should we write in our bio? Any tips? I'm specifically wondering whether we should lie and say we're a couple, write that we're in an open relationship or write/hint that we're just FWB.

Also, does anyone have tips for threesomes? Any good links? Never tried it before. I follow the Sex God Method pretty religiously. And I like to dominate. Plate keeps talking about how I have to make sure to involve everyone all the time and that I have to eat them out in nearly every position (I wouldn't like that). The way I see it, they should be eating each other out.

Thoughts?

[General Stalin]

I don't have experience in this specific scenario, but I will say if you "like to dominate" then don't be letting this broad you are just casually fucking try to call the shots. She's not your girlfriend so you don't need to take any kind of extra care to make her feel special or like she is the center of the deal. Threesomes are supposed to be fun she shouldn't be trying to put all these lame ass rules on it.

[kaotic]

Don't put your faces on your photos obviously.

If you have sexy pics of her, use those, or take some.

If you got got a good body it doesn't hurt to post that.

Definitely keep the bio casual - say you're in an open relationship and aren't looking for anything serious.

Keep things casual when you match a girl and explain that there's not judgement, it's casual, do a meet and greet first (unless she's DTF asap)

Comrade Stalin is right - don't be letting her call the shots, but let her help screen the girls you're interested in, but you're running the show - just because she wants a 3some doesn't mean you need to be a doormat to her needs.

[Buffas]

Yea, good points

I'm kinda losing frame because I'd like this to happen and so I end up being accommodative. And not having the experience. What saves me is that her rules make it sound pretty boring

Pictures together or one by one?

Also, can any of you give a quick recap of how it could potentially go down? 9pm meet for a drink at a bar? Excuse to go home for plausible deniability or overt communication? Positions? How long all in all? Is it possible to establish the dominant frame and even tie them up or do I need to go more vanilla? Would they both sleep over? Morning sex? What are typical pitfalls?

I'm not a retard. Would figure things out, calibrate and let desire take over. But I just have zero references

[kaotic]

Yes you're losing frame by acting a bit thirsty trying to get this threesome going.

Most couple profiles are of pics separate from each other.

Depends, if the girl is down to come over then sure yeah hangout out at the pad, get to know her over a few drinks, maybe some drugs, and then start organically having the girl start making out with her - think of it like this, she sniffing around the other girl getting to know her, but YOU are holding onto the leash.

If the girl wants to meet in public, then yeah late night bar, get to know her, start probing and see if she's interested in coming over that night. (You should always push for the bang that night, but not too thirsty)

You can be direct as in having her come over drinks with both of you or make another excuse.

You can do all sorts of positions, depends on your game and how commanding you are, toys ALWAYS help. Let your girl get her warmed up first. You'll have to read how the other girl is on the fly and adjust accordingly.

Whatever you do, DO NOT CUM INSIDE THE OTHER GIRL.

How long depends on how long you can last, last 3 some I had I came three times courtesy of some tequila. I also had a girl (the new one) who was the dominant one over her friend (my fuck buddy).

I wouldn't let the new girl sleep over unless she was wasted, I would fuck the shit out of my regular that morning so she knows what's up.

You have to be in the right place at the right time and have some luck for a 3some to work well - biggest pitfall is emotions coming into play and your girl getting jealous.

Remember the leash example I gave you, let her do all the talking and try to get a read for both girls and find out what they might like.

[Buffas]

This is gold

(02-26-2018 08:11 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

Whatever you do, DO NOT CUM INSIDE THE OTHER GIRL.

I wouldn't let the new girl sleep over unless she was wasted, I would fuck the shit out of my regular that morning so she knows what's up.

You have to be in the right place at the right time and have some luck for a 3some to work well - biggest pitfall is emotions coming into play and your girl getting jealous.

Apparently, I am a bit autistic. These are the concerns she raised, which confused me. To her, 1) the other girl should leave shortly after and def not sleep over and 2) never be part of the same deal again. And she was still was worried she would get jealous. I openly tell her that I'm fucking other girls and I only see her every 1-2 weeks so it didn't make sense to me. The not cumming inside the other girl I would've never thought of

(02-26-2018 08:11 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

Remember the leash example I gave you, let her do all the talking and try to get a read for both girls and find out what they might like.

Wouldn't I need to game this other chick to win her over or is it all on the plate?

[realologist]

Don't EVER tell a chick you are fucking other girls. Even if she says she's ok with it. They like the mystery and knowing but not knowing.

She is a typical jealous girl so I suggest you have the girl leave. The only way you may be able to have an on going thing with another girl is if you let the girls play together for a little bit as you watch from your throne. Have them try to impress you. They may start to like each other. That's what you want.

Join in when you feel like it.

[Steelex]

I've done this quite a few times.

They're all different, and they all involve alcohol. Expect drama, emotions, craziness, and all other sorts of bullshit. This is not something you do on a work night, you will probably be up till 6am either fucking, comforting some crying bitch, ect. Who fucking knows. Women have threesomes for weird reasons, it's partly for sexual exploration and partly to please you. Deep down it turns them on to watch you fuck another bitch. Women are the real cucks.

If you ask me you simply can't beat a threesome for enjoyment though. I'll fuck for 2-3 hours during a threesome just because I'm enjoying it so damn much, I love seeing the depraved shit women will do just to up the ante.

As far as using tinder, fuck yes. Excellent idea. I use tinder and fetlife just for this. Having the girl hunt for the partner is better than you doing it. Just let her do her thing and reel one in.

[Turnus]

Much experience in this area as well. What you're looking for is called the Unicorn. Difficult to find but they are out there.

As other's have stated, you're selling her, not you when looking for the partner. Tinder can be good but I'd also consider SA if you want to Fast Forward.

It's easier if the girls don't know each other. If you're girl suggests involving one of her good friends I'd shy away from that.

Ideally you invite all the girls to your place to hang out. Liberal amounts of alcohol, music etc. Just act like your all having a fun time hanging out and then gradually escalate things.

When things start to get heated - let the girls explore each other while you're more of a passive observer. Let things progress naturally. They will be into each other and you'll start to feel a little left out. Don't worry about it - soon their attention will turn to you. Once that happens and they are starting to focus more on you then you can begin to let your dominate personality come out.

Enjoy the experience and be sure to post your story in the I Just Had a Threesome thread

[Veloce]

My gf just set up a date with another girl this weekend for a threesome, it's my first time with this chick.

Honestly I'm not even seeking out threesomes at this point in my life, but my gf decided she wants another girl to play with and keeps telling me she wants to suck me off with another girl amongst other things.

Hey fuck it, why not.

Anyway, she used Tinder, and she was amazingly direct. I've been more interested in the experience from a game perspective than anything else. There are a lot of other couples on Tinder looking for unicorns, as well as people partner swapping, swinger bullshit, which neither of us are into, otherwise she would quickly NOT be my gf.

I'll report back. This'll be an interesting weekend. Like the poster above, I'm expecting a lot of drama and craziness and unfortunately I do have to work at 8am the next day but I'm not about to pass on banging 2 chicks simultaneously just because it'll tire me out a little.

[Spartacus]

Hilarious thread

[Buffas]

So, we made the Tinder account last night, got 10ish matches so far we both like, a couple of which have given good responses already

To make this more efficient, I'd like your feedback on Tinder account specifics

- We called our account S And L
- We got 2 pictures of me and 3 pictures of her. First one is of me
- Our bio goes:
"Looking for a third playmate

195 / 175
25 / 22
(flag) / (flag)"
- Age of account is my age (25)
- Gender of account is male looking for female

Plan is 3 texts:
1. This gif

2. Partner comments the girl on whatever she likes about her
3. Suggest meeting up for a drink at this or that time

Do you see anything that could be improved here? Bio? Texts? Make account female looking for female? We're in Denmark, but we made the bio and all English because she doesn't speak Danish. Is that a bad idea?

[Veloce]

We had our first Tinder threesome last night and it was incredible. I've only had 2 threesome experiences in the past and they weren't that great honestly. I've got a really intense sexual connection with my current gf and it makes a huge difference.

She also has amazing game with girls. Seriously. I can't believe the shit she's saying. We started out with me giving her advice on gaming girls but now I just shut up. There's a night-and-day difference in Tinder game if you're a single guy vs. a couple. She's insanely direct and goes right to sexting and so far it's about a 100% response rate. I equate it to married/taken guys getting more interest because they're taken. I think a lot of single girls are drawn to couples that have intense chemistry. The girl from last night has a bf that's out of town and it's obvious she's not getting what she needs in her relationship, even besides the sex.

The 3 of us vibed really well and did pretty much every position you've ever seen in porn plus had a huge array of bondage toys laid out, though we didn't even use 1/4 of them. At one point they were going ass to ass with a double sided dildo while I alternated fucking each of their mouths and getting them to deepthroat me. It was badass. Because I took a dominant role and each of them wanted my attention so badly, I was totally comfortable taking a break and just watching them go at it too, I'd just sit and jerk off for a while before they'd call me back over to get tangled up.

This is just one experience so I'm not qualified to give advice just yet, but my girl already has others lined up and is talking about bringing two girls over next time. She's insane, total alpha girl.

Here's what I'll say so far:

1) initial profile pic has to be gold. Just like a single Tinder profile. Ours is awesome. Pic of us at an "Eyes Wide Shut" bondage party and our body language is perfect. I'm smirking at the camera and she's looking at me longingly. Other pics are candid, funny, classy, etc.

2) Don't put "28yo and 26 yo, both fit, looking for fun third." Seriously you don't deserve shit if you're going to be that boring. Write a story about how the two of you ride motorcycles/horses/jetskis across the desert/ocean/prairie chasing the sunset and enjoy risky sex in public places, you have a taste for molly, champagne, and trance music, looking for other fun hedonistic girls to dress up in leather and make them your pet.

You're already a couple having sex, the other girls know this. It's 2018 and it's a degenerate race to the bottom. From what I can tell, there are tons of girls on there down to meet couples in a hotel room, do some drugs, and get down and dirty. Just be up front about it.

[Steelex]

   

[Winston Wolfe]

(03-11-2018 08:15 PM)Veloce Wrote:  

my girl already has others lined up and is talking about bringing two girls over next time.

[Ice Man]

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[blck]

(03-12-2018 01:28 AM)Ice Man Wrote:  

What the fuck is wrong with girls today.

Not one mentally healthy girl would find a man she likes and then want to share him.

Please for the love of God, none of you get into serious relationships with girls who would even consider doing this, let alone instigate it.

Don't bet your life on this

[Buffas]

Holy smokeshow

(03-11-2018 08:15 PM)Veloce Wrote:  

She also has amazing game with girls. Seriously. I can't believe the shit she's saying. We started out with me giving her advice on gaming girls but now I just shut up. There's a night-and-day difference in Tinder game if you're a single guy vs. a couple. She's insanely direct and goes right to sexting and so far it's about a 100% response rate. I equate it to married/taken guys getting more interest because they're taken. I think a lot of single girls are drawn to couples that have intense chemistry.

Can you allude to how this girl on girl game looks? What advice did you give her? And would you be willing to give an example or two of tinder convos?

[Veloce]

I'm too lazy to post screenshots with names/locations/sensitive data blacked out so I'll just type the conversation word for word. There are enough guys I've met that have my phone number that can verify that I'm not bullshitting here.

Here's the girl we banged:

Girlfriend: Like most every couple on tinder, we are looking for fun times with a 3rd, but not into swinging. I see ur not single and adore ur partner so don't think we really match.

Unicorn: But it also says I'm looking for myself My partner doesn't live here anymore

GF: Well if u like kinky threesomes where we tie u up, spit on ur face and do things that wud ruin ur makeup, uv found us

U: Down

(small talk and logistics chatting)

GF: So are u more into girls or more into guys?

U: I'm sort of a pan.. I'm into feeding off good energy and vibes. If it feels good, then I'll go for it. I lean more towards men but I will eat a pussy, assist, and sub to whatever you please

GF: Eat "a" pussy (laughing emojis) For us, girl meets girl and then decides from there- Ok for u?

U: That's totally fine!

From there it's just discussing logistics, preferences, lots of dirty talk, and discussing safe words. The day came and this girl showed up, my girl texted from the bar saying she's hot, and she brought her back to the hotel room. I actually saw them come back together, I was playing video poker and watched them from across the casino. It's a strange sight watching your gf hold hands with another girl, knowing she's going to strap the other girl to the bed and wait for you come upstairs and bang both of them.

When I saw them I told my girl "Just saw you walk by, I'll be up in 5 minutes." She replies, "I'll text you." 40 minutes go by and I text back, "You better not be fucking her without me." No reply. I walk into the room and she's got the girl strapped to the bed, lipstick smeared on my gfs face, and this girls tights are ripped open, her freshly shaved pussy exposed, my girl with a sheepish look and smiling at me. I just laughed and told her I'm gonna whip her ass hard for starting without me, and from there it was on.

[Veloce]

Another convo from a girl we matched with, 25yo latina with a great body who has a profile pic with a sextoy in it.

Girlfriend: Nice sex toy, we have a pink one, wanna play? Ffm

Unicorn: Definitely yes!

Gf: What's ur schedule like

Unicorn: Pretty free after next weekend

Gf: Perfect, us too. We're gonna tie u up and do bad things to u. If that's ok, then u shud definitely save our match

U: I'd definitely love all those bad things

Gf: Good girl See u in a few weeks

U: Thank you sir

These girls all think they're talking to me, but it's my gf. So lesson here is you can be direct as hell if you're a couple. Me personally, if I tried to be direct as a single guy on Tinder it got me nowhere and I hate the app. We have a few more chats going like this with other prospects and my gf goes direct every time and the response is great. There's a girl she's talking to that's 21 and my gf instantly said she might be a little young for us, implying that she's inexperienced or boring or can't keep up, basically getting the girl to qualify herself. Girls have natural game. We all knew this. It's just beautiful to watch.

[Gray Beard]

@Veloce, great posts providing insight about the overlap between sub and down to join a couple in FMF. Just to be 100% clear, ALL those text messages were under your name, so the subbie did not know your GF was the one writing? I am not looking to test this idea, but if so a guy can attract two girls pretending to already have the first F, right?