I have a girl that I know for a couple of years now and we've been seeing each other for a couple of months now.
For the sake of the argument lets say that I already correctly established that she's relationship material so that I don't have to explain in the details my reasons for that.
She's pushing that she wants to be in a exclusive relationship or that this doesn't make any sense for her since she doesn't want just casual relationship. Since I know her for a couple of years I know from experience that she really acted like this in the past with other men and I entered in this whole situation knowingly that she would want this.
I personally want to be in a relationship too and the next move towards that, in my opinion and understanding of the situation, is to explain to her some adjustments to her behaviour she would need to do so that she could fit in my in my social life, my family and work in a way that I want to. More or less I want to explain that we need to work as a team in this relationship and if she's not ok with that that she's out of the game in two seconds.
I personally think that she is and that she will be more than willing to do so that is the only reason I even consider telling her this. I think the grounds of any healthy relationship should be brought from ground up, and not the other way around and this would be my way of saying this.
In a nutshell, I want to hear your opinion on this matter and some experiences you had with this type of scenario.
For the sake of the argument lets say that I already correctly established that she's relationship material so that I don't have to explain in the details my reasons for that.
She's pushing that she wants to be in a exclusive relationship or that this doesn't make any sense for her since she doesn't want just casual relationship. Since I know her for a couple of years I know from experience that she really acted like this in the past with other men and I entered in this whole situation knowingly that she would want this.
I personally want to be in a relationship too and the next move towards that, in my opinion and understanding of the situation, is to explain to her some adjustments to her behaviour she would need to do so that she could fit in my in my social life, my family and work in a way that I want to. More or less I want to explain that we need to work as a team in this relationship and if she's not ok with that that she's out of the game in two seconds.
I personally think that she is and that she will be more than willing to do so that is the only reason I even consider telling her this. I think the grounds of any healthy relationship should be brought from ground up, and not the other way around and this would be my way of saying this.
In a nutshell, I want to hear your opinion on this matter and some experiences you had with this type of scenario.