I have noticed an issue where I meet a girl, the interaction is great, but between the time I get her number and we set up a meet up, her buying temperature has dropped and she flakes. I realize there is something to be said for initially hooking so well that her interest does not wander in during the interval (ie. taking the attraction further, physically hooking, etc up creates cognitive dissonance and maintains attraction), but sometimes the initial interaction just isn't that long or it doesn't get physical. The ADHD kicks in and her attention wanders.
The day of meet up I have had some limited success with rescheduling slightly to avoid being stood up, but it seems to be a consistent issue.
Limiting the time between getting her number and meeting up would obviously help, but sometimes scheduling issues (either hers or mine) create a necessary 4-5 day delay.
How do you ping to maintain interest without seeming needy? I generally follow Roosh's idea that texting is more for logistics and not for building comfort or attraction, so I feel like my hands are a bit tied in these situations.
The day of meet up I have had some limited success with rescheduling slightly to avoid being stood up, but it seems to be a consistent issue.
Limiting the time between getting her number and meeting up would obviously help, but sometimes scheduling issues (either hers or mine) create a necessary 4-5 day delay.
How do you ping to maintain interest without seeming needy? I generally follow Roosh's idea that texting is more for logistics and not for building comfort or attraction, so I feel like my hands are a bit tied in these situations.