[JayGould]

I have a girlfriend. She is hot and is usually hit on by a lot of guys. However, recently she told me about some guy at work which "she has a lot in common with". This weekend we're going to spend the night at a resort, and when he asked whether she was seeing her boyfriend she said "No, Im going for work".

Thinking of breaking up with her over this. Is that going too far or is these things common with beautiful women? This is not the first time I am dating a hot girl, but feel like she's hiding something. Probably banging this guy on the side. I am also banging some chicks on the side, but I am not going to have to spend my time thinking about if she's with someone else.

Any tips? Am I overreacting about what she told that guy or does it sound like she's sleeping with him?

[TrifeLife]

Act distant and don't fuck her for a short while. If she does't seem to be bothered at all, then he's probably fucking her.

[JayGould]

(11-07-2017 04:33 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  

Act distant and don't fuck her for a short while. If she does't seem to be bothered at all, then he's probably fucking her.

Thanks, but I think she will be bothered. Because I suspect she might be a gold digger (as I'm relatively rich). She's already on me 24/7. She's a single mom too and quite poor.

Just worried she's a slut on the side. She told me she had banged 25 guys before me. A red flag I know. Can't turn a hoe into a housewife no?

Man, what the f am I even doing with this chick...my intuition told me all of this from the start. The question is just whether this stems from my own insecurities or if she's truly a hoe. How do you find out?

[fitness2569]

If you ever think she is fucking someone else she IS. @TrifeLife is right act distant then gauge her reaction. But bro 25 other dudes, there is no way in hell she should even be considered for anything other than a plate

[Repo]

She banged 25 guys and has a kid. She's a hoe.

If she's that hot, just downgrade her to fuckbuddy without telling her and start looking for new options.

[Repo]

If she Doesn't claim you, don't claim her.

[JayGould]

Thanks. It's just that she's costing me money, so just downgrading her is not that easy. I fly her over here and shit on the weekends. Gonna stop doing that, tell her to buy her own damn tickets. Also gonna tell her Im gonna be banging other girls on the side and we can just be fuck buddies, if anything.

I'm so damn stupid sometimes. I'm not new to the game but still got sucked in believed I could change this girl. Holy shit. Obviously I may be wrong and she isn't fucking around, but I'm not even supposed to wonder about it right? This is not the first time I wonder what she's doing either. My intuition all told me this from like the second date. But we did have a really good connection, maybe the best I've had with a woman for the last 100 girls I've dated. That's why I gave her a chance I guess. But it is what it is...

She's begging me to have a baby with her too. Guess she's just looking to get set for life.

[Rhyme or Reason]

She disrespected you. She basically pretended you don't exist. Are you gonna take that?

[ballsyamog]

If she says she’s fucked 25 dudes she’s probably blown 3 times as many..... can’t tirn a hoe into a housewife. Downgrade her and smash other girls

[JayGould]

(11-07-2017 05:10 PM)Rhyme or Reason Wrote:  

She disrespected you. She basically pretended you don't exist. Are you gonna take that?

Good point, didn't even notice the obvious disrespect there. She's done.

[kaotic]

(11-07-2017 05:09 PM)JayGould Wrote:  

Thanks. It's just that she's costing me money, so just downgrading her is not that easy. I fly her over here and shit on the weekends. Gonna stop doing that, tell her to buy her own damn tickets. Also gonna tell her Im gonna be banging other girls on the side and we can just be fuck buddies, if anything.

Jay, this is gonna hurt, but we're doing it for your well being.

Bro, why you simping ?

You're better than this man.

You're flying out this thot to fuck her ?

I'm having girls drive 45 minutes to come suck my dick and leave.

Jay you lost your frame with this hyna and are her sponsor at this point.

And NO, downgrading her IS EASY.

You really think when you tell her to buy her own tickets she really will ? At most maybe the first or second time, then the excuses start coming, "work is so busy", "I don't have time", "maybe we should take a break" etc.

Whatever you do, DO NOT tell her you're fucking other woman.

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I'm so damn stupid sometimes. I'm not new to the game but still got sucked in believed I could change this girl. Holy shit. Obviously I may be wrong and she isn't fucking around, but I'm not even supposed to wonder about it right? This is not the first time I wonder what she's doing either. My intuition all told me this from like the second date. But we did have a really good connection, maybe the best I've had with a woman for the last 100 girls I've dated. That's why I gave her a chance I guess. But it is what it is...

She's begging me to have a baby with her too. Guess she's just looking to get set for life.

You can't turn a thot/gold digger/sugar baby into a house wife.

You need to roundhouse this bitch of that pedestal ASAP.

YOUR SECOND DATE, and you didn't listen to your GUT.

COME ON MAN, the red flags are going off and you're color blind to it.

You're letting your emotions and oneitis get the upper hand bro.

Go approach another 100 woman and find a better bitch.



I don't care how hot a bitch is, there's a guy out there somewhere who got sick of her shit and dropped her ass.

You should not be in a relationship with a girl that lives far away from you to being with, LDR's hardly ever work out.

She's entertaining other dick, I can guarantee you that, and I'll bet she's got other dudes.


She's begging to have your baby ?

She's found beta bucks....

[JayGould]

(11-07-2017 05:21 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

(11-07-2017 05:09 PM)JayGould Wrote:  

Thanks. It's just that she's costing me money, so just downgrading her is not that easy. I fly her over here and shit on the weekends. Gonna stop doing that, tell her to buy her own damn tickets. Also gonna tell her Im gonna be banging other girls on the side and we can just be fuck buddies, if anything.

Jay, this is gonna hurt, but we're doing it for your well being.

Bro, why you simping ?

You're better than this man.

You're flying out this thot to fuck her ?

I'm having girls drive 45 minutes to come suck my dick and leave.

Jay you lost your frame with this hyna and are her sponsor at this point.

And NO, downgrading her IS EASY.

You really think when you tell her to buy her own tickets she really will ? At most maybe the first or second time, then the excuses start coming, "work is so busy", "I don't have time", "maybe we should take a break" etc.

Whatever you do, DO NOT tell her you're fucking other woman.

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I'm so damn stupid sometimes. I'm not new to the game but still got sucked in believed I could change this girl. Holy shit. Obviously I may be wrong and she isn't fucking around, but I'm not even supposed to wonder about it right? This is not the first time I wonder what she's doing either. My intuition all told me this from like the second date. But we did have a really good connection, maybe the best I've had with a woman for the last 100 girls I've dated. That's why I gave her a chance I guess. But it is what it is...

She's begging me to have a baby with her too. Guess she's just looking to get set for life.

You can't turn a thot/gold digger/sugar momma into a house wife.

You need to roundhouse this bitch of that pedestal ASAP.

YOUR SECOND DATE, and you didn't list to your GUT.

COME ON MAN, the red flags are going off and you're color blind to it.

You're letting your emotions and oneitis get the upper hand bro.

Go approach another 100 woman and find a better bitch.



I don't care how hot a bitch is, there's a guy out there somewhere who got sick of her shit and dropped her ass.

You should not be in a relationship with a girl that lives far away from you to being with, LDR's hardly ever work out.

She's entertaining other dick, I can guarantee you that, and I'll bet she's got other dudes.


She's begging to have your baby ?

She's found beta bucks....

Bro, I appreciate all of this. Cause I really needed to hear it. It's so true. I'm just not used to being suckered like this. I always have the girls come to me etc. I'm mainly buying her tickets so I don't have to go visit her. Also I make like 100x the amount of money she does, so the small expense means nothing to me. But still...you're right.

Just in the last couple of months I've been thinking of getting a family etc, to stop being a player and all that and settle down. So it must have changed my behavior and I now look like a fucking beta because of it.

I had been out of the game because of a dick injury (I fractured it during sex). Couldn't fuck for 9 months. So this is one of the first chicks I meet just getting back into the game, and now with the frame of mind that I'm looking to settle down.

I need to get out and fuck two dozen bitches asap and get my mind right.

Again, thanks. I appreciate the honesty.

[LINUX]

I want to hear more about the dick fracturing story.

[Michele]

Normally, if you have to make a thread about it, it's probably because your gut is telling you something. Then you should listen to your gut.

But wtf, this a single mom and has banged so many more guys before you. That's repulsive. You should never have made her your girlfriend in the first place.

[kaotic]

(11-07-2017 05:30 PM)JayGould Wrote:  

Bro, I appreciate all of this. Cause I really needed to hear it. It's so true. I'm just not used to being suckered like this. I always have the girls come to me etc. I'm mainly buying her tickets so I don't have to go visit her. Also I make like 100x the amount of money she does, so the small expense means nothing to me. But still...you're right.

That's fair enough if it's just fuck you money to you.

Just don't make it a habit and standard protocol and make girls EARN their keep.

I was reminded of a great position Gio brought up, if you're doing a girl a favor, make sure her ass is indebted to you.

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Just in the last couple of months I've been thinking of getting a family etc, to stop being a player and all that and settle down. So it must have changed my behavior and I now look like a fucking beta because of it.

There is nothing wrong with thinking about that or wanting that.

There IS a wrong way to go about it and search for it.

There is smart ways to do it, we have wife hunting threads on there, visit them.

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I had been out of the game because of a dick injury (I fractured it during sex). Couldn't fuck for 9 months. So this is one of the first chicks I meet just getting back into the game, and now with the frame of mind that I'm looking to settle down.

I need to get out and fuck two dozen bitches asap and get my mind right.

Again, thanks. I appreciate the honesty

Cosign with LINUX, we need to hear this story, that shit does not sound fun, and on some Dennis Rodman level shit.

[JayGould]

(11-07-2017 05:37 PM)LINUX Wrote:  

I want to hear more about the dick fracturing story.

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Cosign with LINUX, we need to hear this story, that shit does not sound fun, and on some Dennis Rodman level shit.

Well basically I had girl on top of me, she slipped out and then came down with full force on it. It kinda cracked and turned all blue and black. After that I had trouble getting erections (I still have, have to take Cialis or Viagra most of the time). It also caused a constriction on the left side of my dick, making it not as wide or long as it used to. Probably lost like 3cm of length.

Was really fucking depressed over that for like 7 months, could barely get out of bed. But recently said fuck it, I can't just sit and be depressed and have to make the best of the situation. No girl has complained so far and I still make them cum multiple times if I want to. So, whatever, hopefully things will slowly return back to normal with time. But even if it doesn't, I'm OK with the situation. My libido is way lower now though since I had to basically stay away from masturbation for almost 6 months while it healed as well. Working on getting that back.

[kaotic]

Bro please tell me you went to the doctor right after this shit happened ?

Why in gods name didn't you get this checked out?

If so, the doctors couldn't do anything?

[JayGould]

(11-07-2017 06:10 PM)kaotic Wrote:  

Bro please tell me you went to the doctor right after this shit happened ?

Why in gods name didn't you get this checked out?

If so, the doctors couldn't do anything?

No I actually didn't because I had a flight I had to catch (obviously stupid, I should've just skipped it), so I didn't see a Doctor until like a month later. Was hoping it was gonna heal by itself.

As I've seen Doctors later, they can't really do anything. I am doing some exercises to help blood flow etc, and also injecting some healing peptides used by cyclists, bodybuilders etc (like HGH) to help the healing process. So we'll see what happens. But the dick works at least. I have a harder time getting an erection, but once I get one it usually stays up pretty well. At least with Cialis =). Also I can't really get handjobs cause it hurts. Blowjobs only if not using hands.

[TrifeLife]

Jesus, got me thinking about swearing off cowgirl

[alex homer]

I need to get out and fuck two dozen bitches asap and get my mind right.


Do it! Even 5 is a good number to see, and if you still miss her then you probably want to keep her for the sake of your piece of mind until the relationship takes toll on it's own surprisingly it doesn't take that long, once you honestly do what you want to do

[BlastbeatCasanova]

(11-07-2017 08:22 PM)TrifeLife Wrote:  

Jesus, got me thinking about swearing off cowgirl

Sometimes it's risky if they don't know how to ride. Latinas are usually safe

[Beyond Borders]

Jesus, I'm horrified after that dick fracture story. I think I need a break from the internet after that one.

[RatInTheWoods]

Get a vasectomy on the quiet and bang on.

[treypound]

This is a crazy story, but happens a lot. Jealousy is a female trait, and if you ever get a gut feeling your girl is possibly fucking another guy you know about, she either is or has.

[General Stalin]

Glad you found help. This hoe playing you hard and you're letting her. You paying her way and she telling people you don't even exists. Mad disrespect.

I'm sure there are plenty of hotties in the city you live in, why fly a bitch in from far away?

Anyway, single mom with a ton of dick under her belt and no respect for you the choice should be more than clear.

If you got cash to burn and like spending it on girls then you need to understand the president that sets. If you treat a girl to lavish things for nothing then you are essentially saying you are their money slave and will give them whatever they want and they don't need to earn it. You gotta set expectations, and also maybe don't let on that you have tons of.money that you're willing to share with them.