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How I look at dating
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How I look at dating

Women as a gender are quite simple and when you break down their wants and needs you get very good understanding of how dating works.

In general, women care only about a combination of 3 things from men when it comes to dating/sex/relationship. These 3 things are:

1. Money
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2. Looks (Height and face)
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3. Social status - School setting (sociable/popularity. Outside of school more about job status - example doctor trumps janitor in social status)
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We can look at these 3 things like 3 separate exam papers, you have to take to get into a college (woman). For students who meet the minimum requirement to get in, you will be rewarded with relationship. If you exceed a woman's requirement greatly, she will reward you with no string attach sex (equivalent to getting a scholarship).

Now, let's use an example of this. Suppose the sum total of all 3 test (money, looks, social status) was 2400. Each women will grade these 3 things different depending on what she is looking for.

The gym rat might only care about looks mostly, in place of money and status and to her looks will have a total of 1200, money 800 and social status 400.

While a girl who is a gold digger will obviously care more about money than looks, and status. Hence for such a girl, money might be 1400, looks 400 and status 600.

It should be pointed out that the above example are for relationship scoring system when it comes to women. When women want ONS, most often prioritise looks over money, and status and will only ever take the other too into consideration if you have high amounts of it so they can either latch you into a relationship or brag to their friends.

Lastly, as women get older their priorities change and the same scoring system they had when they were in their 20's may not be the same scoring system they apply when they are in their 30's. In general, women follow a predictable trend most often of prioritising money more and more as they are exposed to the workforce and begin to appreciate the importance of money.

In such a case a man needs to be aware of this nature and make sure he does not get suckered into being a provider for a woman.
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#2

How I look at dating

Nah
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#3

How I look at dating

"A woman's standards are like a deck of cards kick one from beneath and they all come crashing down". Stop listening to what women say their standards are or what they look for in a man
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#4

How I look at dating

Quote: (11-05-2017 05:20 PM)fitness2569 Wrote:  

"A woman's standards are like a deck of cards kick one from beneath and they all come crashing down". Stop listening to what women say their standards are or what they look for in a man

I never made this report on what women said but on raw data and observation on women's behaviour. Even research backs up that men who are tall get picked first and marry women in their age range while shorter men are relegated to marrying later in life only if they make more money than their wife.
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#5

How I look at dating

Sounds like mild game denialism to me. All 3 of those things matter and are all intertwined. You'd be hard pressed to find an ugly low status man that makes a lot of money. Or a rich handsom man with low status, or a poor high status man that is ugly etc. Not that they aren't out there but those are exception.

Money, status, and looks improve your access and initial ability to attract women. However I'm a firm believer that game trumps all 3 individually (which are rarely independent of eachother) compliments the total package. Having good rap, being masculine, knowing and communicating what you want with skill and accessibility makes a world or difference. And just as the other 3 variables are rarely independent, neither is game in the larger equation.

Ask many of the members here; just by improving your game other benefits will follow. You realize how to appear more accessible, approachable, and friendly. And with that you become more respected, welcomed, appreciated, valued. And naturally the connections, prestige, status, approachability, agreeableness garners you better opportunities in business and finance. It doesn't always happen in that order, you have to learn to play to your strengths, bolster your weaknesses, grow, learn from defeat, aspire to be the best version of you; that you can be.

It's clear you don't quite conceptualize some of those things. Rarely will anyone here say looks status don't matter, but you wil hear people say that you and you alone control your destiny and encourage a less defeatist tone which you seem to be applying to your hypothesis. Through a better lense and a greater understanding of the concepts that you listed(+game), you will come to similar conclusions from the merit and results of these concepts, and the ability to reproduce those results over and over again.
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#6

How I look at dating

Women are driven 100% by how they feel. Women will fuck a homeless guy on a pile of trash in the street in broad daylight if he can get her in the mood to do it.

I get where you are coming from but it's inaccurate.
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#7

How I look at dating

I was unemployed and living with my parents when i fucked a married girl on a pallet behind a hardware store. We were both sober too
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#8

How I look at dating

Sat on the train today a nice blonde got on at a stop and sat down in front of my seat. I thought wow she looks nice and classy...until she whipped out her cell phone and started talking out loud (younger generation blowhards). 20 minutes of forcibly listening to her pathetic superficial immature life made me want to take my brain out and flush it down the toilet.

Today's woman> LOGIC in GARBAGE OUT....there is so much bullshit cluttering a woman's mind it's difficult to cut through the fog.

Stalin hit the nail on the head but it needs further elaboration...chicks are so full of hormones that they are basically a new person everyday. Meaning you might think you had a great date....but the next day that same woman would be second guessing the date!

A woman will fuck a homeless guy on a pile of trash...because women drive themselves crazy and at some point do something out of character. (a sort of cleansing?)....most times fueled by drugs or beer

The only way to get a sure fire "repeatable" date is to trigger a woman's baser "primal" emotions...which are
1) forbidden fruit
2)lust
3)sexual desire
4) familiarity...meaning school or social groups
5)bad boy

Logic does not dictate what a woman chooses to date they actually rebel against "what they are supposed to date"

Women also have huge self esteem issues...they basically believe all they deserve is the homeless guy on a pile of trash.

So today's women> GARBAGE in LOGIC out.....
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#9

How I look at dating

OPs post is not that bad, its got the three main elements right.

I am no game denialist, but looks trump game, and that's why the first rule of game is to LIFT and diet. My 6'5" elvis lookalike wing/mate has zero fucking game and women approach him for the bang all the time. I'm not jelly (well I am actually) but don't try tell me looks don't matter. Game works and allows us non model types top punch above our weight.

There is also merit in his point that if the woman is young or just looking for sex, she will increase her weighting on looks criteria. When she is older or looking for a "serious' boyfriend or "tired of all the clubbing and partying and wants to settle down" then she will decrease the looks volume and up the cash and Beta behavior knobs on the selection criteria.

Stalin is on the money, you can then put a huge layer of "muh feelz" over the whole process, just like a roll of the dice, to keep things interesting.
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