st date set up from day game (using Day Bang system)
09-10-2011, 10:52 PM
What up everyone, not sure if this post would be better off in the newbie forum, but anyways decided I'd share a little report about a day game number close, and subsequent date that I've set up via text game for Tues. night at a nice tequila lounge.
In the past I dabbled a little bit with day game, only sparking up conversation at ideal moments, like when going for the same item at the same time as a cute girl at the grocery store, or in a long line with a girl standing in front of me waiting to order coffee/food, etc.
Previously my main objective with day game was to just work on approaching, flirting, conversation, as well as "planting seeds" with girls that I'll like see again (as I live in a fairly small town). I was able to get a handful of phone numbers from day game, but from what I remember, none of them actually led to dates.
My only sucesses from day game came when traveling in Brasil when I met and banged two cute women from day game, as I met one on the beach, and the other on a tour to see waterfalls (which may qualify at some other form of game).
Any how, getting to my report... I approached two girls this past Monday (Labor Day) at a really small fundraiser block party event that's sponsored by a couple local businesses. Normally this event draws a decent amount of cute girls, but this past one was pretty weak.
I was chilling with about 5 homies, drinking beers and smoking trees... We all were kind of pussing out on doing any approaches on the limited amount of cute girls there.
Eventually, I got to the point where I was getting sick of myself being such a pussy, and I felt like I had to do at least one full-fledged approach attempt, or I'd be feeling like shit the whole rest of the day.
Unfortunately, I passed on a few sets of hotter targets, but eventually I saw an opening to do an approach on two girls, one a 6.5 natural redhead with creamy white skin and a slight hipster/hippish look, and her friend who had a similar style, but was a Mexican 6.
They were both looking at these big posters of the fundraiser event, which showed pictures of volunteers, and the "sister city" the fundraiser was for in Nicaragua, as well as giving info. on the cause.
I waltzed over to them and opened, using Roosh's "elderly chat" style, and simply said something to the effect of "hey do you girls know what this whole event is about, I keep seeing all these pictures of some small village" (which was BS bc/ I knew what the fundraiser was about).
They proceeded to tell me about the event and how it was a fundraiser, and I began to ramble (trying to drop "bait" as Roosh advises), about how "I've lived here for 8 years, but never once been to the event, and how I'm normally somewhere else like SF over labor day weekend" (which is also BS).
I also made a joke about how I was glad that all the beer I was drinking was going to a good cause... I noticed the girls weren't drinking and asked them about that, making another joke about one of the girls' having vodka in her "clean canteen" metal waterbottle.
This lead to the redhead revealing that it was her birthday that day, and she had just turned 21.
I broke some of Roosh's day game rule though, and did a fair amount of teasing with this girl, which he advises against, but my vibe, body languange, and everything was so on point that is was all gravy.
I teased her about her age saying she looked so young, and that I needed to see her ID. She was wearing a summer dress and didn't have a purse and said she didn't have her ID on her. I qualified her about whether she's "one of these girls that claims she just turned 21 to scheme guys out of free drinks".
She was qualifying herself to me, and her friend backed her up and vouched for her that it was in fact her birthday. I did the next logical thing and offered to buy her a beer to celebrate her birthday.
When I started walking over to the beer tent, her and her friend stayed put, so I froze in my tracks, looked over my shoulder, and was like "hey I'm not a waiter, you're going to need to come with me, and provide some kind of interesting conversation, if I'm going to buy you a drink".
I proceeded to run text book game on her, using Roosh's Day Bang theories, such as dropping lot's of bait, to get them asking a bunch of questions about me, making me seem interesting, cool, etc. in their minds.
I also used "GALNUC" liberally, doing a cold read on the friend that she was Mexican, asking their ages, using Roosh's line about "I hope you don't get nervous talking to older guys", how long they've lived in town, etc. The only part I fumbled with was the "you seem pretty cool, let me get your number so we can continue our chat sometime" part.
I went a lot more direct, and got the number of the redhead, while the Mexican chick was giving me a bunch more IOI's, I also didn't follow Roosh's advise fully accurately here, as I think he says you should ask the both of them for a number to hang out at a later time, and the more interested of the two will be the one to give the number.
I just never been with a redhead before, and something about a true natural redhead, with the creamy white skin gets me going. I still love Latinas and they're close to the top of my totem pole, but I was feeling the redhead and wanted to try that flavor, so ignored the stronger IOIs from the friend and went for the girl I wanted.
I remembered to use Roosh's closing line though, and asked her "if she was going to be totally excited and jumping with joy when I hit her up in a few days". By which she responded by chuckling, blushing, and telling me that she would.
Another thing I did, that goes against Roosh's advise and I caught myself on was using kino, which he claims is never good for day game. There were a few moments while teasing that I casually touched her on her shoulder for a quick second, but did it in a casual, endearing kind of way.
So I'm not trying to get too stoked off this, because as for right now, it doesn't mean shit. It's like VK said it's not an actual date until she shows up, sits down, and has a drink.
It was kind of interesting timing though, like the game gods may have smiled upon me a bit. Yesterday I was waxing philosophically with my friend on the phone (who I've become a game mentor to), about how flakey girls are, and how I can get numbers to easily, but so many of them flake, that it's almost not even worth it.
My last few numbers that I actually contacted in the past couple weeks, all flaked and didn't even respond. I thought this redhead chick was a total flake, but she got back to me after 2 days of no contact, made some lame excuse about not seeing the text and how her phone was messed up. But, I was able to run super tight text game, and by the end of it, she was super stoked to be meeting up for drinks, so hopefully it goes well.
If anything it gives me more hope to continue trying to experiment with and execute day game, especially using Roosh's model.
In the past I dabbled a little bit with day game, only sparking up conversation at ideal moments, like when going for the same item at the same time as a cute girl at the grocery store, or in a long line with a girl standing in front of me waiting to order coffee/food, etc.
Previously my main objective with day game was to just work on approaching, flirting, conversation, as well as "planting seeds" with girls that I'll like see again (as I live in a fairly small town). I was able to get a handful of phone numbers from day game, but from what I remember, none of them actually led to dates.
My only sucesses from day game came when traveling in Brasil when I met and banged two cute women from day game, as I met one on the beach, and the other on a tour to see waterfalls (which may qualify at some other form of game).
Any how, getting to my report... I approached two girls this past Monday (Labor Day) at a really small fundraiser block party event that's sponsored by a couple local businesses. Normally this event draws a decent amount of cute girls, but this past one was pretty weak.
I was chilling with about 5 homies, drinking beers and smoking trees... We all were kind of pussing out on doing any approaches on the limited amount of cute girls there.
Eventually, I got to the point where I was getting sick of myself being such a pussy, and I felt like I had to do at least one full-fledged approach attempt, or I'd be feeling like shit the whole rest of the day.
Unfortunately, I passed on a few sets of hotter targets, but eventually I saw an opening to do an approach on two girls, one a 6.5 natural redhead with creamy white skin and a slight hipster/hippish look, and her friend who had a similar style, but was a Mexican 6.
They were both looking at these big posters of the fundraiser event, which showed pictures of volunteers, and the "sister city" the fundraiser was for in Nicaragua, as well as giving info. on the cause.
I waltzed over to them and opened, using Roosh's "elderly chat" style, and simply said something to the effect of "hey do you girls know what this whole event is about, I keep seeing all these pictures of some small village" (which was BS bc/ I knew what the fundraiser was about).
They proceeded to tell me about the event and how it was a fundraiser, and I began to ramble (trying to drop "bait" as Roosh advises), about how "I've lived here for 8 years, but never once been to the event, and how I'm normally somewhere else like SF over labor day weekend" (which is also BS).
I also made a joke about how I was glad that all the beer I was drinking was going to a good cause... I noticed the girls weren't drinking and asked them about that, making another joke about one of the girls' having vodka in her "clean canteen" metal waterbottle.
This lead to the redhead revealing that it was her birthday that day, and she had just turned 21.
I broke some of Roosh's day game rule though, and did a fair amount of teasing with this girl, which he advises against, but my vibe, body languange, and everything was so on point that is was all gravy.
I teased her about her age saying she looked so young, and that I needed to see her ID. She was wearing a summer dress and didn't have a purse and said she didn't have her ID on her. I qualified her about whether she's "one of these girls that claims she just turned 21 to scheme guys out of free drinks".
She was qualifying herself to me, and her friend backed her up and vouched for her that it was in fact her birthday. I did the next logical thing and offered to buy her a beer to celebrate her birthday.
When I started walking over to the beer tent, her and her friend stayed put, so I froze in my tracks, looked over my shoulder, and was like "hey I'm not a waiter, you're going to need to come with me, and provide some kind of interesting conversation, if I'm going to buy you a drink".
I proceeded to run text book game on her, using Roosh's Day Bang theories, such as dropping lot's of bait, to get them asking a bunch of questions about me, making me seem interesting, cool, etc. in their minds.
I also used "GALNUC" liberally, doing a cold read on the friend that she was Mexican, asking their ages, using Roosh's line about "I hope you don't get nervous talking to older guys", how long they've lived in town, etc. The only part I fumbled with was the "you seem pretty cool, let me get your number so we can continue our chat sometime" part.
I went a lot more direct, and got the number of the redhead, while the Mexican chick was giving me a bunch more IOI's, I also didn't follow Roosh's advise fully accurately here, as I think he says you should ask the both of them for a number to hang out at a later time, and the more interested of the two will be the one to give the number.
I just never been with a redhead before, and something about a true natural redhead, with the creamy white skin gets me going. I still love Latinas and they're close to the top of my totem pole, but I was feeling the redhead and wanted to try that flavor, so ignored the stronger IOIs from the friend and went for the girl I wanted.
I remembered to use Roosh's closing line though, and asked her "if she was going to be totally excited and jumping with joy when I hit her up in a few days". By which she responded by chuckling, blushing, and telling me that she would.
Another thing I did, that goes against Roosh's advise and I caught myself on was using kino, which he claims is never good for day game. There were a few moments while teasing that I casually touched her on her shoulder for a quick second, but did it in a casual, endearing kind of way.
So I'm not trying to get too stoked off this, because as for right now, it doesn't mean shit. It's like VK said it's not an actual date until she shows up, sits down, and has a drink.
It was kind of interesting timing though, like the game gods may have smiled upon me a bit. Yesterday I was waxing philosophically with my friend on the phone (who I've become a game mentor to), about how flakey girls are, and how I can get numbers to easily, but so many of them flake, that it's almost not even worth it.
My last few numbers that I actually contacted in the past couple weeks, all flaked and didn't even respond. I thought this redhead chick was a total flake, but she got back to me after 2 days of no contact, made some lame excuse about not seeing the text and how her phone was messed up. But, I was able to run super tight text game, and by the end of it, she was super stoked to be meeting up for drinks, so hopefully it goes well.
If anything it gives me more hope to continue trying to experiment with and execute day game, especially using Roosh's model.
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