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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-22-2017, 05:40 PM
Hi guys.
Before I get started I want to thank this amazing community for helping me with my game.
So I have been spinning my plates in rotation but lately one of them is getting cold. Delayed messages, last time I saw her she was more interested in her friends than hanging out, Im a chill guy I let it slide but I was kinda pissed the next day at her house when she literally didnt give me the bang.
Worse still i dnt want to have to let her go.
Thanks again
Kofi
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-22-2017, 06:02 PM
Go cold for a while, then reengage. If she isn't more receptive, just ghost her and move on. Plenty of other willing girls who want you to pump your seed into their loins.
Don't take it personal
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-23-2017, 12:56 AM
Thanks for the info little wing. How long should I go cold myself before re-engaging contact?
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10-23-2017, 04:31 AM
wait for her to contact you, give her the message her behavior was unacceptable.
Shows you don't give a shit if you never hear from her again which will make attracted to you.
If she doesn't contact you, then it was over anyway.
Plates are never forever.
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10-23-2017, 07:22 AM
It sounds like you've relaxed in the recruiting division. Get more in the habit of new talent and you won't even notice plates going silent. It also has the side-effect of them wanting you more, so it's zero effort.
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-23-2017, 08:28 AM
Don't worry about it. Sometimes they go cold. I'd have some low-key not contact me for a year and then I'd randomly get a 2 am invite.
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-23-2017, 09:26 AM
"What should I do when a fling goes cold?"
Realise that it's a fling and move on. That's the definition of a fling, is it not?
Do NOT chase. Move on and she might get back in contact. If not, so what? Her loss.
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
10-23-2017, 11:08 AM
Find another fling's tropical region.
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10-23-2017, 11:10 AM
@astro I have put my foot off the gas with recruiting, I was going for a harem but didn't think to keep the menu fresh. Thanks
@matsufubu I guess i was expecting too much
for a fling. Moving on
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10-23-2017, 11:43 AM
There's plenty of new awesome flings out there, so go get them tiger. There's no point in ever wasting your time with the ones that go cold or start to play games.
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-Don't ask a woman what she wants to do.
-Never get involved with a co-worker unless you don't mind losing your job over it.
-Never spend more than $40 on a date. If possible, let her pay for everything or 50/50.
-If she doesn't bang you by the third date, Dump That Bitch (DTB).
-No spooning, cuddling, hugging, or staying over. Get in, get out!
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11-04-2017, 03:03 PM
It's really true women constantly needing attention. Ignore them and they look for you hard, I followed everyone of your advice and went silent and now this girl blows up my dm.
Thanks guys
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11-04-2017, 04:52 PM
Ignoring a woman is a DHV. By doing nothing, you are gaming her. She may only be good for one more bang, just to sate her curiosity as to why you're passing her shit test. Enjoy.
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What should I do when a fling goes cold?
11-04-2017, 06:00 PM
Quote: (10-22-2017 05:40 PM)Kofi Wrote:
Hi guys.
Before I get started I want to thank this amazing community for helping me with my game.
So I have been spinning my plates in rotation but lately one of them is getting cold. Delayed messages, last time I saw her she was more interested in her friends than hanging out, Im a chill guy I let it slide but I was kinda pissed the next day at her house when she literally didnt give me the bang.
Worse still i dnt want to have to let her go.
Thanks again
Kofi
I would say get rid of her but if you really want to keep her text her and tell her she needs to step her game up. Not in a whiny, needy way but how a no nonsense boss tells his employee who's been slacking on the job, don't threaten her but you have to create the feeling that you're someone she doesn't want to disappoint. right now you're boring to her, that shit you guys are doing is played out. You gotta flip the script on her because clearly she's gotten comfortable with you, you're too available, its like she can have you when ever she wants so you're expendable
